The benefits of friendship lie withing the friendship itself. Ukianza kwenda beyond the friendship then you risk losing them.best friend without the benefits lol
The benefits of friendship lie withing the friendship itself. Ukianza kwenda beyond the friendship then you risk losing them.
Ikiwa both friends watakumbuka hivi all will be fine.
Hapo juu umetaja wivu, mapenzi, sex na kadhalika kama matatizo. I think wivu ndio tatizo. Mapenzi na sex sio tatizo, so long as they don't kill the friendship.
The benefits of friendship lie withing the friendship itself. Ukianza kwenda beyond the friendship then you risk losing them.
Ikiwa both friends watakumbuka hivi all will be fine.
Hapo juu umetaja wivu, mapenzi, sex na kadhalika kama matatizo. I think wivu ndio tatizo. Mapenzi na sex sio tatizo, so long as they don't kill the friendship.
If they are best friends as you say, they will make sure they communicate on this before hand.in that case hakuna tatizo
if wote mnajua hii
Michelle, mbona wapenzi wengi ni best friends? Na ndio inatakiwa kwanza...Really?? Is this realistic RR? :nerd:
If they are best friends as you say, they will make sure they communicate on this before hand.
Michelle, mbona wapenzi wengi ni best friends? Na ndio inatakiwa kwanza...
Kwani hili swali la The Boss lina husu friendship between watu wenye commitments zingine? sorry, sijasoma vizuri huko nyuma...Nafikiri sikuwa nimeelewa, nilidhani umesema mtu aweza kuwa na commitment,then aka-maintain friend with benefits na mwanamke ambaye ni rafiki yake as long as huyo mwanamke au mwanaume hana wivu....hilo ndo nimeona kama ni gumu sana especially kwetu wanawake japo survival ya nyumba ndogo inazidi kukua,that meaning watu wanakubaliana na vigezo na masharti za infi....!
Kwani hili swali la The Boss lina husu friendship between watu wenye commitments zingine? sorry, sijasoma vizuri huko nyuma...
Hapo tunakubaliana. Ndio maana nimesema ikiwa wivu unaingia kati hapo ni shida, ila kama ni mapenzi au sex vimeingia kati sioni shida. Na urafiki bila wivu upo sana tu, hasa kama hamjaanza/mmevuka vya mapenzi na sex.Vilijadiliwa vitu tofauti tofauti, kwa topic ya The Boss yeye nafikiri ana focus kwenye friends kama friends,lakini siwezi elewa unamuonea vipi wivu rafiki wako wa jinsia ya tofauti asiye na uhusiano wa kimapenzi na wewe bila ya yeye kuwa na uhusiano na mtu mwingine!! As kama yuko single na wewe uko available then ni suala tu la mmoja kuanza kuonyesha interest,akubaliwe au akataliwe....but sioni sababu ya kuona wivu.
Ukisha kua na commitment make sure your partner is your best friend. Ukienda kutafuta mngine huko then don't get too close if you want to be 'just friends'.tunzangumzia best friends bila kujali wako kwenye commitments or not
Ukisha kua na commitment make sure your partner is your best friend. Ukienda kutafuta mngine huko then don't get too close if you want to be 'just friends'.
Sijakuelewa. You mean mtu akiwa na partner asiwe na rafiki wa jinsia tofauti?labda aombewe kwanza
hii ngumu kwa akili ya kawadida
labda mwanamme awe kiazi
labda aombewe kwanza
hii ngumu kwa akili ya kawadida
labda mwanamme awe kiazi
Sio wanaume peke yao, wanawake wanachanganyikiwa pia. They wouldn't necessarily want to have sex ila they will develop feelings na possessiveness ya hali ya juu over their male friends.Wanaume wengi hawawezi hii. Wengine inabidi tu kupoteza marafiki sababu hiyo.
Sio wanaume peke yao, wanawake wanachanganyikiwa pia. They wouldn't necessarily want to have sex ila they will develop feelings na possessiveness ya hali ya juu over their male friends.