Kamwe usijaribu kumng’ang’ania mwanamke anayeonekana hakuhitaji tena, utaumia

ISO M.CodD · Sep 22, 2020

nadiegirlie said:
From my POV wanawake hasa yule anayekupenda huwa wanachukia mwanaume wake amtumie hela then unakumbushia sex it's like you are buying goods from me....Jaribu kukumbushia katika mazingira ambayo hayahusiani or hayatakuwa associated na pesa.Okay may be kuchukia is a strong word the right one is irritation

Ukikumbusha katika mazingira tofauti unapata response rahisi sana yani isiyo na mashiko na mtu haonyeshi kushtuka wala kutake effort. Unakumbusha mara mbili tatu huoni change yoyote. Mtu anatimba geto akiwa period or sick. Unaendelea kuwa mpenzi mtazamaji. Ongezea na vidharau vidogo vya hapa na pale na ukosefu wa respect & kauli nzuri (big problem) lazima ujidouble check: kaniona boya au la?

That was a test and the result was a definite positive. Angalau hela niliyotuma (wallahi nyingi) ilinisave from a life of misery maana niliwake up kwakweli.

Dp800 · Sep 22, 2020

walitola said:
Tatizo kubwa nililogundua me wengi wanampenzi mmoja hali ya kuwa lolote linapotokea basi uumizwa vibaya sana isitoshe unakuta mtu anaonyesha upendo laivu kwa mtu wake mwisho wa siku mademu zetu wanaleta dharau, vitabu vitakatifu vinatuambia tuishi nao kwa akili

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Bado najiuliuza inawezekanaje kupenda mwanamke zaidi ya mmoja?
Nikipenda mwingine lazima wakwanza ajue simpendi tena maana upendo unahama labda kinafki tu ila Kama yuko makini lazima atambue nina mwanamke mwingine

nadiegirlie · Sep 22, 2020

ISO M.CodD said:
Ukikumbusha katika mazingira tofauti unapata response rahisi sana yani isiyo na mashiko na mtu haonyeshi kushtuka wala kutake effort. Unakumbusha mara mbili tatu huoni change yoyote. Mtu anatimba geto akiwa period or sick. Unaendelea kuwa mpenzi mtazamaji. Ongezea na vidharau vidogo vya hapa na pale na ukosefu wa respect & kauli nzuri (big problem) lazima ujidouble check: kaniona boya au la?

That was a test and the result was a definite positive. Angalau hela niliyotuma (wallahi nyingi) ilinisave from a life of misery maana niliwake up kwakweli.

Then huyo hakukupenda hongera you dodged a bullet

witnessj · Sep 22, 2020

Extrovert said:
Hahahah wote huwa mnafanyiana hayo, at times mwanaume yuko broke kuna wanawake huwa wanakimbia.

Nikwambie kitu mkuu, mi simkimbiagi mwanaume eti kisa hana hela, najua kuna kesho

Sasa ngoja yy mwanaume apate vijihela, yaan ni anaibuka na mijitabia ambayo hapo awali hakuwa navyo, anaibua ugomvi ili tu mgombane apate kisingizio, sasa kama ni mshamba wa wanaume unaweza kunywa sumu..

Mimi nikshaona hizi tabia huwa nakwambia kabisa oyaa umebadilika jirekebishe hii dunia haiendi hivyo hivyo vihela vitaisha, kama kawaida huwa hamsikii, Basi anaenda kwa hao wapya waliozuzuka na vihela vyake, vikiisha wanampiga kibuti, hapo sasa kabaki na kendee tatu ndo ananikumbuka mimi wit, kitu ambacho na mimi ntamfanyia lazima atanikumbuka mpaka anaingia kaburini maninaa, mfyuuu zenu[emoji57]

Mnazareth · Sep 22, 2020

nadiegirlie said:
From my POV wanawake hasa yule anayekupenda huwa wanachukia mwanaume wake amtumie hela then unakumbushia sex it's like you are buying goods from me....Jaribu kukumbushia katika mazingira ambayo hayahusiani or hayatakuwa associated na pesa.Okay may be kuchukia is a strong word the right one is irritation

I second u..

By the way hiyo Pov ni kifupi cha nini eti!???

nadiegirlie · Sep 22, 2020

Mnazareth said:
I second u..

By the way hiyo Pov ni kifupi cha nini eti!???

Point of view

ISO M.CodD · Sep 22, 2020

nadiegirlie said:
Then huyo hakukupenda hongera you dodged a bullet

She did, in the beginning. And I happily paid for her spending wlbila figisu zozote. But who knows what happened? Wala sijahangaika kufigure out. Maybe was never a good fit.

Thanks for your insights though, plus nimetoa upepo kidogo.

But hey maybe I'm the one who messed up somewhere, si unajua tatizo la one sided stories? Whatever happened happened.

LOVE U JF · Sep 22, 2020

Mimi alisema nimetoka mchana hiyo akiwa amelala eti sikumuaga ndiyo kikawa kisa akaondoka nakuniacha na watoto wadogo , nasema wanawake na walaaniwe

mzabzab · Sep 22, 2020

T14 Armata said:
Wengine hatuna hela ya kumaintain warembo watatu. La sivyo hutofanya maisha yako ili uwe bingwa wa mapenzi. Mimi ni kimasihara mpaka hali ikae sawa

Kweli mzee wee kula kimasikhara tuu maana hii starehe gharama.
Wengine tumeshindwa fanya maendeleo tunaishia zika pesa kwenye papuchi tuu.

Mnazareth · Sep 22, 2020

ISO M.CodD said:
Ukikumbusha katika mazingira tofauti unapata response rahisi sana yani isiyo na mashiko na mtu haonyeshi kushtuka wala kutake effort. Unakumbusha mara mbili tatu huoni change yoyote. Mtu anatimba geto akiwa period or sick. Unaendelea kuwa mpenzi mtazamaji. Ongezea na vidharau vidogo vya hapa na pale na ukosefu wa respect & kauli nzuri (big problem) lazima ujidouble check: kaniona boya au la?

That was a test and the result was a definite positive. Angalau hela niliyotuma (wallahi nyingi) ilinisave from a life of misery maana niliwake up kwakweli.

Kama ni hivyo basi hapo Mapenzi hayakuwepo

jkipaji · Sep 22, 2020

nadiegirlie said:
Then huyo hakukupenda hongera you dodged a bullet

Mwanamke akimpenda Mwanaume anakua hana visababu vya kumnyima Mpenzi wake kitu chochote ili mradi anauwezo na hicho kitu, lakini ukiona unapewa visababu vingi visivyo kua na kichwa wala Miguu,hapo hakuna penzi kabisa ni zuga tu mradi yake yaende!!

Chairman Lee · Sep 22, 2020

witnessj said:
Nikwambie kitu mkuu, mi simkimbiagi mwanaume eti kisa hana hela, najua kuna kesho

Sasa ngoja yy mwanaume apate vijihela, yaan ni anaibuka na mijitabia ambayo hapo awali hakuwa navyo, anaibua ugomvi ili tu mgombane apate kisingizio, sasa kama ni mshamba wa wanaume unaweza kunywa sumu..

Mimi nikshaona hizi tabia huwa nakwambia kabisa oyaa umebadilika jirekebishe hii dunia haiendi hivyo hivyo vihela vitaisha, kama kawaida huwa hamsikii, Basi anaenda kwa hao wapya waliozuzuka na vihela vyake, vikiisha wanampiga kibuti, hapo sasa kabaki na kendee tatu ndo ananikumbuka mimi wit, kitu ambacho na mimi ntamfanyia lazima atanikumbuka mpaka anaingia kaburini maninaa, mfyuuu zenu[emoji57]

Punguza hasira mjumbe japo inakera kweli. Ndio maana nakwambia mapenzi hayana fomula maalumu toka mwanzo hata kesho.

Dp800 · Sep 22, 2020

Mr Devil said:
Ivi ni Ni mimi tu ambae bado sija wahi kuumizwa na mapenzi

Usiombe kuingia kwenye hizo anga ndugu utatamani dunia ishuke.
Kuna mpuuzi mmoja nilimpenda akaja na kamsemo 'I want to be alone" sijui nimekuwa emotional dependant na bla bla kibao ukumbuke tuko kwenye mahusiano zaidi ya 2 years aisee nilihisi kuugua roho, mwili nafsi hadi akili.
Hadi nilifunga na kuomba shetani amuondoke lakini wapi sijui alikutana na vichaa gani wakamtapeli. Anyway nimejifunza wanawake wanaathirika sana na ushauri wa marafiki zao
Nilimuacha aende kwa shingo upande baada ya kufanya kila ninaloliweza kumbembeleza nashukuru Mungu nimekuwa sawa tena na nimepata chuma kipya maumivu nimeyasahau ila amini nakuambia kujitenga na mtu unayempenda ni zaidi ya maumivu unayoweza kuhadithia

ISO M.CodD · Sep 22, 2020

Mnazareth said:
Kama ni hivyo basi hapo Mapenzi hayakuwepo

Ndio fikra zangu pia. Kuna namna angeweza kutumia kauli yake kama mtoto wa kike special kwangu nikatuliza ghasia na kumvumilia hata miezi 6 bila kula mzigo na kumhudumia bila kwere. Respect, respect, respect.

Chairman Lee · Sep 22, 2020

Dp800 said:
Usiombe kuingia kwenye hizo anga ndugu utatamani dunia ishuke.
Kuna mpuuzi mmoja nilimpenda akaja na kamsemo 'I want to be alone" sijui nimekuwa emotional dependant na bla bla kibao ukumbuke tuko kwenye mahusiano zaidi ya 2 years aisee nilihisi kuugua roho, mwili nafsi hadi akili.
Hadi nilifunga na kuomba shetani amuondoke lakini wapi sijui alikutana na vichaa gani wakamtapeli. Anyway nimejifunza wanawake wanaathirika sana na ushauri wa marafiki zao
Nilimuacha aende kwa shingo upande baada ya kufanya kila ninaloliweza kumbembeleza nashukuru Mungu nimekuwa sawa tena na nimepata chuma kipya maumivu nimeyasahau ila amini nakuambia kujitenga na mtu unayempenda ni zaidi ya maumivu unayoweza kuhadithia

Kweli naunga mkono hoja , pia wanaume ndio tunamapenzi ya kweli mwanzo mwisho.

nadiegirlie · Sep 22, 2020

ISO M.CodD said:
She did, in the beginning. And I happily paid for her spending wlbila figisu zozote. But who knows what happened? Wala sijahangaika kufigure out. Maybe was never a good fit.

Thanks for your insights though, plus nimetoa upepo kidogo.

But hey maybe I'm the one who messed up somewhere, si unajua tatizo la one sided stories? Whatever happened happened.

[emoji848]i heard somewhere that there are three sides in every story in this case it is
Your side
Her side and
The truth
Maybe i should not judge her

ISO M.CodD · Sep 22, 2020

jkipaji said:
Mwanamke akimpenda Mwanaume anakua hana visababu vya kumnyima Mpenzi wake kitu chochote ili mradi anauwezo na hicho kitu, lakini ukiona unapewa visababu vingi visivyo kua na kichwa wala Miguu,hapo hakuna penzi kabisa ni zuga tu mradi yake yaende!!

This is common sense I believe

jkipaji · Sep 22, 2020

Dp800 said:
Usiombe kuingia kwenye hizo anga ndugu utatamani dunia ishuke.
Kuna mpuuzi mmoja nilimpenda akaja na kamsemo 'I want to be alone" sijui nimekuwa emotional dependant na bla bla kibao ukumbuke tuko kwenye mahusiano zaidi ya 2 years aisee nilihisi kuugua roho, mwili nafsi hadi akili.
Hadi nilifunga na kuomba shetani amuondoke lakini wapi sijui alikutana na vichaa gani wakamtapeli. Anyway nimejifunza wanawake wanaathirika sana na ushauri wa marafiki zao
Nilimuacha aende kwa shingo upande baada ya kufanya kila ninaloliweza kumbembeleza nashukuru Mungu nimekuwa sawa tena na nimepata chuma kipya maumivu nimeyasahau ila amini nakuambia kujitenga na mtu unayempenda ni zaidi ya maumivu unayoweza kuhadithia

Saa zingine unalindwa na Mizimu ya kwenu, maana inakua imeshaona huko mbele utakuja kuumizwa vibaya sana ndiyo maana inaingilaia kati japo itauma lakini tayari imesha kulinda!! Labda ungepewa Mimba ambayo siyo yako! Yote hayo huwezi jua!!

nadiegirlie · Sep 22, 2020

jkipaji said:
Mwanamke akimpenda Mwanaume anakua hana visababu vya kumnyima Mpenzi wake kitu chochote ili mradi anauwezo na hicho kitu, lakini ukiona unapewa visababu vingi visivyo kua na kichwa wala Miguu,hapo hakuna penzi kabisa ni zuga tu mradi yake yaende!!

Sijakataa kabisa uko sawa

ISO M.CodD · Sep 22, 2020

nadiegirlie said:
[emoji848]i heard somewhere that there are three sides in every story in this case it is
Your side
Her side and
The truth
Maybe i should not judge her

Fair enough, I am aware of that too ila it won't stop me from ranting as long as I keep it civil and anonymous.

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