Nijuavyo mimi bikira ni yule ambaye hajawahi kufanya mapenzi. Sasa swali ni kwamba je hiyo ina-apply kwa mwanamke tu? Mwanaume ambaye hajawahi kufanya mapenzi anaitwaje? Je, ni mwanamke tu ndio anatakiwa kutunza bikra yake?
You have hit the point..I was just asking myself on how to respomd to this post
Virginity (in relation to humans) means that person who has never engaged in sexual intercourse, be it male or female..so in reality it does not apply and end to females only but even we, males are concerned
and virginity goes deeper than that layer on the women genitals but the very fact that such woman has never done sex is what matters most.
it is scientifically proved that there are various ways by which that layer can be destroyed..I am told that bicycle riding is among such ways, but I ain't sure..so if virginity is taken to be a physical thing then a person is apt to draw wrong conclusion when he finds that layer unavailable
When God created females he put put it there just as a sign but it is not conclusive
Think of the societies which have the customs of inspecting and checking girls to ensure that their virginity is intact...do you know what gals do?...they fall to practicing oral and annal sex..in such a way their "virginal" virginity is preserved but what about their "tigos?"..can anyone say that such gals are ok? I mean its like you think that your wife was a virgin when you first consummated your marriage but in reality several hooligans had already enjoyed her rear end to the maximum.
So the bottom line is what matters is that people should not indulge in per-marital sex but we men should stop judging women based on the absence of their so called virginity
And I am sorry for ancient people who used to murder their daughter because "they put them to shame" because of having no "bikira as a layer" and not as a state at the time of marrying!!!
Lastly to my fellow men..if you have already gone through legs of a legion of gals, can you by any means wish and pray to marry a virgin gal? what about those you fornicated? who is gonna marry them?