Kwanini wadada (Females) Wanapenda Zaidi Ndoa Kuliko Mwoaji?

payuka · Dec 30, 2010

Kuna wadada ving'ang'anizi sana! Unakutana nae hata wiki haijaisha anaanza kuleta habari za ndoa. Hata hamjasomana vizuri kujuana tabia yeye anaweka ndoa mbele kuliko kukufahamu wewe mwoaji.

Katika ka-research kangu kadogo nimegundua mambo yafuatayo:

wadada wa aina hiyo mara nyingi huwa wanataka kuosha kwa wenzie na jamii kwa ujumla kwamba nao waliolewa kwa ndoa, potelea mbali hata kama itadumu kwa wiki moja.
pressure kutoka kwa wenzie walioolewa.
frequency ya kuachana na maboy-friend na yenyewe inachangia binti kutafuta permanent residence!

VoiceOfReason · Dec 30, 2010

I think its Just Security na Desire of Having a family.... kwa sisi wanaume is easy kuwa na partner huyu kesho yule, na kwenye society usionekane vibaya sana kama mwanamke akiwa na partners wengi kwa society anaonekana hafai na sio heshima. Pia who wants to be played.

payuka · Dec 30, 2010

VoiceOfReason said:
I think its Just Security na Desire of Having a family.... kwa sisi wanaume is easy kuwa na partner huyu kesho yule, na kwenye society usionekane vibaya sana kama mwanamke akiwa na partners wengi kwa society anaonekana hafai na sio heshima. Pia who wants to be played.

Ni sawa mkuu, lakini najiuliza kipi kinatangulia kabla? kati ya kumpenda mwanaume wako atakayekuwa mumeo na kuipenda ndoa?

VoiceOfReason · Dec 30, 2010

payuka said:
Ni sawa mkuu, lakini najiuliza kipi kinatangulia kabla? kati ya kumpenda mwanaume wako atakayekuwa mumeo na kuipenda ndoa?

Ndoa is like "an offer very hard to be refused".......... kwahiyo kwa yule atakayeiweka offer hii on the table ni bora kuliko yule anayetaka matanuzi - anyway ngoja kina dada wenyewe wajibu nisiwajibie

pauline · Dec 30, 2010

ni kwa sababu ya ile kitu yetu,the more you have partners the more inachakaa and less chances of finding someone who will be interested na hio bidhaa...so we always pray tunayempata ndio huyo atayeclose deal!!!:redfaces::redfaces:

bacha · Dec 30, 2010

pauline said:
ni kwa sababu ya ile kitu yetu,the more you have partners the more inachakaa and less chances of finding someone who will be interested na hio bidhaa...so we always pray tunayempata ndio huyo atayeclose deal!!!:redfaces::redfaces:

the more inavyochakaa, the more kama njemba zipo nyingi!
oraiti, kumbe bora ichakae kweye permanent residence au sio Pauline?

VoiceOfReason · Dec 30, 2010

pauline said:
ni kwa sababu ya ile kitu yetu,the more you have partners the more inachakaa and less chances of finding someone who will be interested na hio bidhaa...so we always pray tunayempata ndio huyo atayeclose deal!!!:redfaces::redfaces:

With all this Chiniese products na cosmetic surgeries bado inachakaa???? I doubt it. Lakini what I think kinachochakaa zaidi ni heshima, na status katika Jamii.

payuka · Dec 30, 2010

pauline said:
ni kwa sababu ya ile kitu yetu,the more you have partners the more inachakaa and less chances of finding someone who will be interested na hio bidhaa...so we always pray tunayempata ndio huyo atayeclose deal!!!:redfaces::redfaces:

Asante dada Pauline nimekuelewa! Lakini sidhani kama ni wote wenye mtizamo huo.

Eng. Smasher · Dec 30, 2010

Wapo wengi sana wa dizaini hii hapa hata hamjafahamiana fresh anataka NDOA!!
Lakini na sisi wanaume inatakiwa 2siwachezee 2 lakini kutangaza ndoa......!!!
Commitment kama hiyo inabidi u THINK IN 3 DIMENSIONS ucje ukajitia kitanzi!!

payuka · Dec 30, 2010

Eng. Smasher said:
Wapo wengi sana wa dizaini hii hapa hata hamjafahamiana fresh anataka NDOA!!
Lakini na sisi wanaume inatakiwa 2siwachezee 2 lakini kutangaza ndoa......!!!
Commitment kama hiyo inabidi u THINK IN 3 DIMENSIONS ucje ukajitia kitanzi!!

ndo hofu yangu injinia, Ukiona mtu anataka ufanye jambo fulani kwa haraka inabidi uwe mwangalifu sana! bila hivo utakayokuja kuyasikia baada ya kufunga pingu za maisha utatamani ardhi ipasuke uingie usionekane tena.

Kumbuka ndoa ya Mkristo ni moja tu, Golden chance never come twice!

pauline · Dec 30, 2010

VoiceOfReason said:
With all this Chiniese products na cosmetic surgeries bado inachakaa???? I doubt it. Lakini what I think kinachochakaa zaidi ni heshima, na status katika Jamii.

cosmetic surgeries wanaoaford ni macelebrity tu,typical mdada wa kitanzania sidhani km hili lipo kichwani mwake...hizo chinese products mie sijui km zipo zinazosaidia ni vyema tukaelimishana hapa LOLS!

i just think heshima na status zinachakaa lkn haya ni matokeo tu,na sio causes....ile kitu ikiwa imechakaa noone will be interested kukuoa and as a result heshima inapungua na hivyo kukufanya kuwa desperate!(its the other way of putting it...:redfaces::redfaces:😛arty:

VoiceOfReason · Dec 30, 2010

payuka said:
ndo hofu yangu injinia, Ukiona mtu anataka ufanye jambo fulani kwa haraka inabidi uwe mwangalifu sana! bila hivo utakayokuja kuyasikia baada ya kufunga pingu za maisha utatamani ardhi ipasuke uingie usionekane tena.

Kumbuka ndoa ya Mkristo ni moja tu, Golden chance never come twice!

Nimesikia Stories kwa wale ambao huwa ni wagumu kukubali ndoa mara nyingi kuna mabinti wachache (I mean wachache sio wengi) huwa wanawatrap kwa kubeba mimba ili mwisho wa siku mtu hakose cha kufanya bali kuoa

Dijina40 · Dec 30, 2010

pauline said:
ni kwa sababu ya ile kitu yetu,the more you have partners the more inachakaa and less chances of finding someone who will be interested na hio bidhaa...so we always pray tunayempata ndio huyo atayeclose deal!!!:redfaces::redfaces:

Mwe! 😛op2:

pauline · Dec 30, 2010

Digna37 said:
Mwe! 😛op2:

lucky you kama ulionwa kabla hujawa desperate!:A S-rap:

VoiceOfReason · Dec 30, 2010

pauline said:
ile kitu ikiwa imechakaa noone will be interested kukuoa and as a result heshima inapungua na hivyo kukufanya kuwa desperate!(its the other way of putting it...:redfaces::redfaces:😛arty:

Mpaka hiyo kitu ichakae to that extent basi shughuli lazima itakuwa ilikuwa ni ya hatari sana.... lakini as far as I know the thing being elastic after some time itarudi katika hali ambayo sio mbaya... pia nimesikia of some traditional means za kudeal na hiyo issue although sina uhakika na ufanyaji wake kazi

Eng. Smasher · Dec 30, 2010

Lakini umetoa fundisho jinsi ya KUIBANA au inachakaa kivp hapo??!!!:A S-confused1:

pauline said:
ni kwa sababu ya ile kitu yetu,the more you have partners the more inachakaa and less chances of finding someone who will be interested na hio bidhaa...so we always pray tunayempata ndio huyo atayeclose deal!!!:redfaces::redfaces:

Mama Big · Dec 30, 2010

:hungry:

Eng. Smasher · Dec 30, 2010

Acha hasira ni swali 2 Mama BIG!!!

Mama Big said:
:hungry:

pauline · Dec 30, 2010

Eng. Smasher said:
Lakini umetoa fundisho jinsi ya KUIBANA au inachakaa kivp hapo??!!!:A S-confused1:

hahahaa sio wote wenye acess na internet... i just assume lile somo litakuwa limewafikia wanawake wachache saaana kinyume na ambavyo ningependa...so kuna uwezekano kabisaaa kwa bahati mbaya wanawake wengine wakakosa lile darasa na kwa bahati mbaya nanihii zao zikachakaa kwa kutokujua!😛arty:

Eng. Smasher · Dec 30, 2010

Hivi huko kuchakaa zinachakaa vipi??!!:A S-confused1:

pauline said:
hahahaa sio wote wenye acess na internet... i just assume lile somo litakuwa limewafikia wanawake wachache saaana kinyume na ambavyo ningependa...so kuna uwezekano kabisaaa kwa bahati mbaya wanawake wengine wakakosa lile darasa na kwa bahati mbaya nanihii zao zikachakaa kwa kutokujua!😛arty:

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