mariages, mariages, mariages! ukiamua kuifanya iwe hell itakuwa kweli, na ukiamua kuifanya heaven itakuwa! the two of u are the once playing that game! but this game called mariage will never give us a winner in terms of dictatorship, there IS ONLY ONE WINNER BECAUSE BECAUSE OF RESPECT AND THATS A HUSBAND! Samahanini kama nitawakwaza fellow women coz kila ndoa na misingi,makubaliano na VISIONS zake! kamwe yangu haitakuwa yako, wala yako haitakuwa yangu! naishi kama mimi na simfuatilishi mtu never!
coming to the point ya kipato cha mwanamke! we are doing alot under carpet ambazo wanaume hawafahamu, eg costs ndogondogo kama sabuni, toothbrush, vyombo vitu vya jikoni kwa ujumla SIJUI KAMA MY HUBBY ANJUA VINATOKA WAPI, HUWA ANAONA SIKU ZINAKWENDA, am doing everything kuhusu nyumbani, nguo zangu na watoto na zake ni mimi. na yeye ana majukumu makubwa kunizidi eg skulfees, kujenga, service magari na fuel, etc wababa mnaelewa!
THEN WE HAVE A JOINT ACCOUNT! hiyo account iko kwa ajili ya ndugu zake na ndugu zangu! eg msiba umetokea kwetu tunachota laki 5 za mchango nk, msiba umetokea kwao we do the same, mama mkwe nakuja tunachota hapo, mama mkwe naumwa tunachota hapoi and vice versa! hii account we share kudeposit kila mwezi and we dont touch it kabisa! so hakuna anayeona anaonewa kwa misingi tuliyokubaliana!