Maelezo binafsi ya Emmanuel Adebayor kuhusu mgogoro wake na Familia yake

Baada ya waandishi wa Africa, and Ghana haswaa kumwandama sana, kafunguka jambo ambalo naamini ni somo kwangu, kwako na kwa yule... TAKE TIME TO GO THROUGH THE LINES, TOUCHING LINES!

'SEA, I have kept these stories for a long time but I think today it is worth sharing some of them with you. It's true that family matters should be solved internally and not in public but I am doing this so that hopefully all families can learn from what happened in mine. Also keep in mind that none of this is about money.

At the age of 17, with my first wages as a footballer, I built a house for my family and made sure they are safe. As you all know, I have received the trophy of African Player of the Year in 2008. I also brought my mother on stage with me to thank her for everything. In that same year, I brought her to London for various medical check ups. When my daughter was born, we contacted my mum to inform her but she immediately hung up the phone and didn't wanna know hear about it. Reading your recent comments, some people said my family and I should consult T.B Joshua. In 2013, I gave my mother money so she could consult him in Nigeria.

She was supposed to stay for 1 week; but 2 days into her stay, I received a call saying she left. Apart from all that l also gave my mother a great amount of money to start a business of cookies and different items. Naturally, I allowed them to put my name and picture on them so they can sell more. What else can a son do in his power to support his family?

A couple years ago, I bought a house in East Lagon (Ghana) for $1.2 million. I found it normal to let my older sister, Yabo Adebayor stay in that house. I also allowed my half brother (Daniel) to stay in the same house. A few months later, I was on vacation and decided to go to that house. At my surprise, I saw many cars in the driveway. In fact, my sister decided to rent out the house without me knowing.

She also kicked Daniel out of that house. Note that the house had about 15 rooms. When I called her and asked for explanation, she took about 30 minutes to abuse and insult me over the phone. I called my mother to explain the situation and she did the same as my sister. This same sister says I am ungrateful. Ask her about the car she is driving or anything she is selling today?

My brother Kola Adebayor, has now been in Germany for 25 years. He travelled back home about 4 times, at my expense. I fully cover the cost of his children's education. When I was in Monaco, he came to me and asked for money to start a business. Only God knows how much I gave him. Where is that business today?

When our brother Peter passed away, I sent Kola a great amount of money so he could fly back home. He never showed up at the burial. And today that same brother (Kola) is telling people that I am involved in Peter's death. How? He is the same brother who went and told inaccurate stories about our family to "The Sun" in other to take some money. They also sent a letter to my Club when I was in Madrid so I could get fired.

When I was in Monaco I thought it would be good to have a family of footballers. So I made sure my brother Rotimi gets into a football academy in France. Within a few months; out of 27 players, he stole 21 phones.

I would not say any anything about my brother Peter Adebayor because he is not here today. May his soul rest in peace.

My sister Lucia Adebayor keeps telling people that my dad told me to bring her to Europe. But what would be the purpose to bring her to Europe ? Everyone is here for a reason.

I was in Ghana when I received the news about my brother Peter being seriously ill. I drove the fastest I could to Togo in order to meet him and help. When I arrived, my mother said I could not see him and I should just give the money and she would solve everything. Only God knows how much I gave her that day. People are saying I didn't do anything to save my brother, Peter. Am I a fool to drive 2 hours to Togo for nothing?

I organized a meeting in 2005 to solve our family issues. When I asked them about their opinion, they said I should build each family member a house and give each of them a monthly wage.

Today I am still alive and they have already shared all my goods, just in case I die.

For all these reasons, it took very long for me to set up my foundation in Africa. Every time I try to help the people in need, they had to question me and all of them thought it was a bad idea.

If I am writing this, the main purpose is not to expose my family members. I just want other African families to learn from this. Thank you.

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Nyani Ngabu na ule usemi wake miafrica ndivyo tulivyo unahusika hapa

General8 said:

Nyani Ngabu na ule usemi wake miafrica ndivyo tulivyo unahusika hapa

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Yani daaa! binafsi nipo bado speechless,zaidi sioni kama jamaa ana haki yakuexplain coz still lawama na vingine vyote watampa tu,na kimsingi inaumiza...mbaya kuna mwandishi ndio alivalia njuga swala hili kama anafahm in and out juu ya maisha ya Emma kumbe mweupe tu,lakini upande fulani ndio kasababisha Emma kufunguka na kutupa somo juu ya bin-Adam hasa sisi Africans.

Muumini Mwinjuma (double M sounds)-NDUGU LAWAMA

Tatizo yeye aliwaachia sana na kuwa mtu wa ndiyo mzee, sasa pesa zimepungua wao wanaona kama zipo vilevile na anawanyima tu, ndo matokeo haya, pole zake.

Victoire said:

tatizo yeye aliwaachia sana,na kuwa mtu wa ndiyo mzee,sasa pesa zimepungua wao wanaona kama zipo vilevile na anawanyima tu,ndo matokeo haya,pole zake

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...lakini Victoire mimi binafsi sijaona kama hilo lilikuwa kosa lake,na zaidi naona Moyo wake bado unashangaaa na kuumia kwa watu ambao bado vipofu na viziwi juu ya ualisia,pole ni ao nduguzi ndio wanastaili maana ni zaidi ya wagonjwa wa kila kitu,how come human being ukaona sawa kabisa kumlaumu binadam mwenzio kwa nini hivi na kwa nini vile...play your own part,dunia inasonga,at last nimejifunza dunia hii no time yaku explain as long upo sawa,Mungu pekee ndio anafahamu juu ya yote.

Victoire said:

tatizo yeye aliwaachia sana,na kuwa mtu wa ndiyo mzee,sasa pesa zimepungua wao wanaona kama zipo vilevile na anawanyima tu,ndo matokeo haya,pole zake

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Mambo ya kawaida sana haya Africa.

kwa sie maskini kwa mwaka unaweza kuwa na list ya SIMU na LAPTOP na vikorombwezo flani visivyopungua $10,000 from family and extended family.

Siyo kuwa hauna uwezo wa kuwapa, shida ni pale expectation zinapokuwa ufanye hivyo kila mwaka, wakati wewe mhusika unatumia simu ya "bure" on contract na computer/laptop unayotumia ina miaka mitatu na ushehe na inafanya kazi vizuri tu.

Ukija kwenye gari,they assume every latest car should also be made available for them without regard for need. Kwa uzoefu wangu tatizo ni elimu.hawa ndio wanaitwa ndugu lawama.hawabebeki, hawaambiliki, hawashauriki. unaweza kuwalipia ada miaka 10 elimu ya sekondari au chuo na mtu akawa anafeli kila siku. Akikosa kazi simu ya kwanza kwako umsaidie.

hapo inabidi ukumbuke ule msemo wa ukubwa jalala.

'ujamaa nao ni mzigo,kama ilivyo mizigo mingine'.

Kimweri;1

mkuu nimetafuta like sijaiona kabisa,kula likes buku kwanza...

Inasikitisha sana.

Waswahili tunasema, tenda wema uende zako usingoje shukrani.

Uswahili, umasikini, ujinga na utoto ni tatizo kubwa Afrika.

Dalili za mirija kukata hizi sasa wanatafutwa wachawi wabebeshwe gunia la misumali

Kama ni kweli, we have a long way to go... uhuni hata kwa mama.

pole kk. achana nao. piga maisha

mzushi said:

Dalili za mirija kukata hizi sasa wanatafutwa wachawi wabebeshwe gunia la misumali

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He has a year left in a 100,000 pounds a week contract, He is very far away from being poor. He earns in a year what most will never earn in a lifetime even here in UK.

Huyu bro. Yuko sawa. Kwa sasa upande wangu na deal na watu niliowaleta duniani kwa 95%.zinazobaki ndiyo nafikilia anayehitaji .MUNGU aendelee kumjalia

naona imekaa upande mmoja zaidi

Gang Chomba said:

shenz kabisa... miafrika ndivyo ilivyo...
Ema kata mirija...bora pesa zako uhonge nyapu za kitasha tu usuuze jando

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Inawezekana kabisa hii

Hii inawezekana kabisa,hii nmeiona kwenye familia ya mzee wangu;mama yao yaan bb yangu alikua anaumwa,wale watoto wake wengi ni wasichana walikua wanaiba makanga yake na nguo zake nyingne yaan mpka anakuja kufariki,tulikua tunafanya kumnunuria nguo upya,as in kwenye familia yao babangu ndo kidgo unauwezo,bas ni kasheshe,kwa mfano juz kwenyr arobaini ya bibi mzee alimtumia shangaz hela na sisi tukachangia kwa ajili ya arobain,lakin cha kushangaza tulivyoenda kijiji kwenye arobaini hakuna kilichokuwa kimenunuliwa na hela walikula,yani ni aibu,waafrika hapana,yani kati ya vitu adebayp kaongea nmeviexperience kbsa kwa mashangazi zangu.

Amavubi said:

naona imekaa upande mmoja zaidi

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Mpka unaona jamaa kaamua kushare family matters kama hzi jua kabsa jamaa kachoka,waafrika tunamatatizo sana,inavyoonekana adebayo katoka kwenye familia ya kimaskin sana na walitegemea makubwa sana kutoka kwake lakn ikawa tofauti.