MApenzi sio sumu, mapenzi ni furaha, na mapenzi ni amani. soma neno la 1 corinthian 13: mstari wa 4 hadi wa 7:
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
​Ukikuta kitu kinafanana mapenzi lakini hakifanani na maneno haya matakatifu basi ndio sumu yenyewe, hepukana nayo. Kweli sio hivo kila siku ila ni hivo most of the time.