Marriage is not for everyone

Ujumbe heavy sana huu
 
So sad.! You're a very strong man, Mr. Vintage.
 
A great message for those
Real, marriage is not for everyone

Marriage is a win / loose contract and always we expect to win but accidentally we loose
 
Ifike mahali watu watambue kua ndoa sio drama,fashen wala jambo la mzaha.
Linapokuja swala la ndoa unatakiwa kutuliza akili na kumuuliza Mungu.

Sio kukurupuka na kufanya mambo ilimradi kisa umri unaenda, kisa nimempata mwenye pesa, mwenye shepu au kisa wenzangu wote wameoa na kuolewa.

Wengi mnakurupuka bila kufikiri wala kumhusisha Mungu, Mambo yakienda ndivyo sivyo mnaanza kusema kama mnavyosema.

Kila mtu amepangiwa mtu wake "wa kufanana nae" ila utulivu ndio sifuri.

"If you're interested in someone, pray first. Stop throwing your self out there only to be hurt when you realize it's wasn't God's will"
 
Pole sana sana
 
What you have narrated is daily life cycle/routine for many of us men, not every man can handle marriage, gentlemen are few in marriage many are boys, such scenario occurred in my life more than twice I didn't give up and I will never give up, but I learnt a lot from such events I will never give up marriage conjugal relations/sex are some of my favourites that make me relax but I will never ever trust a woman in life..........,
 
Kulikuwa na ulazima gani wa kutudanganya kwamba 'english is your mother tongue' mkuu
 
We are on the same path..... i've never been in a relationship since birth and i am 26 heading 27.....
And i dont feel the need to be in a relationship....

Consequential commitments like marriage and relationships are not for everyone.
 
Hapo neno pekee nililoweza kuelewa ni Mshana Jr
Tafsiri
Nimegundua kuwa ndoa si ya kila mtu, na nimekubali kwamba inaweza isiwe njia sahihi kwangu. Baada ya kupitia mahusiano mengi na kupata huzuni, nimejifunza kwamba uaminifu unaweza kuwa dhaifu na upendo unaweza kuwa wa muda mfupi.

Kuwa baba kwa watoto wangu wawili kumenionyesha maana halisi ya upendo na uwajibikaji usio na masharti. Binti yangu, Mercy, huniletea furaha kubwa, na kumuona akikua msichana mzuri imekuwa baraka. Mwanangu, Seth, ni ukumbusho wa mara kwa mara wa kujitolea na kujitolea kunahitajika kuwa mzazi. Licha ya changamoto nilizokutana nazo, watoto wangu ndio nuru katika maisha yangu.

Mwaka jana ilikuwa moja ya vipindi ngumu zaidi maishani mwangu. Mke wangu niliyemwamini na kumpenda sana, alinisaliti kwa kutoroka na kila kitu nilichokuwa nimefanyia kazi kwa bidii. Lilikuwa pigo lenye kuhuzunisha, kihisia-moyo na kifedha. Nilihisi kuvunjika na kupoteza, sijui jinsi ya kuchukua vipande.

Hata hivyo, nilikataa kuruhusu kukata tamaa kunilemea. Nilipigana kwa ujasiri kujenga upya maisha yangu na kupata furaha ndani yangu. Nilitafuta matibabu ili kusaidia kuponya majeraha na kurejesha thamani yangu ya kibinafsi. Polepole lakini kwa hakika, nilianza kushinda mshuko-moyo wangu na kupata tena hisia ya kusudi. Shukrani kwa Ndugu Mshana Mdogo na wengine waliokuwepo kwa ajili yangu katika wakati huo mgumu. Mungu akubariki sana [emoji3531]

Ninapotafakari safari yangu, nimegundua kuwa ndoa sio tafsiri pekee ya furaha na mafanikio. Sio njia pekee ya utimilifu. Nimejifunza kupata furaha katika vipengele vingine vya maisha yangu - kazi yangu, mambo ninayopenda, na muhimu zaidi, upendo nilionao kwa watoto wangu.

Nimekubali kuwa huenda sikufanikiwa kila kitu nilichotarajia katika umri huu, lakini ninashukuru kwa nguvu na ustahimilivu ambao nimekuza. Nimejifunza kutanguliza ustawi na furaha yangu, kwa ajili yangu na watoto wangu.

Ingawa ndoa huenda isinipendeze tena, niko wazi kwa uwezekano wa kupata upendo na mwenzi wa aina nyinginezo. Labda, baada ya muda, nitajikwaa juu ya uhusiano wa maana na utimilifu ambao unalingana na maadili na matarajio yangu.

Kwa sasa, ninaangazia kuwa baba bora zaidi ninayeweza kuwa na kujenga maisha ambayo huniletea kusudi na uradhi. Mimi ni Vintage, mwanamume ambaye amejifunza kwamba furaha ya kweli inategemea kujikumbatia na kupata furaha katika safari ya maisha, bila kujali matarajio ya jamii.


Mfasiri: Jr[emoji769]

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We are on the same path..... i've never been in a relationship since birth and i am 26 heading 27.....
And i dont feel the need to be in a relationship....

Consequential commitments like marriage and relationships are not for everyone.
At 26yrs I would advice you just keep reading people's comment so that you can get to learn more from experienced gentlemen, there is nothing significant you have ever witnessed you are still novice in social relations
 
At 26yrs I would advice you just keep reading people's comment so that you can get to learn more from experienced gentlemen, there is nothing significant you have ever witnessed you are still novice in social relations
Novice means what?
 
Love to the wife is transferred to a daughter .
Aisee its also not good, your daughter she will remain your daughter can't substitute to faience or a wife........don't misunderstand me here please,
 
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