Marriage is not for everyone

Marriage is not for everyone

Vintage1q said:
I have come to realize that marriage is not for everyone, and I have accepted that it may not be the right path for me. After going through multiple relationships and experiencing heartbreak, I have learned that trust can be fragile and love can be fleeting.

Being a father to my two children has shown me the true meaning of unconditional love and responsibility. My daughter, Mercy, brings me immense joy, and watching her grow into a beautiful young girl has been a blessing. My son, Seth, is a constant reminder of the commitment and sacrifice required to be a parent. Despite the challenges I have faced, my children are the light in my life.

Last year was one of the toughest periods of my life. My wife, whom I had trusted and loved deeply, betrayed me by running away with everything I had worked hard for. It was a devastating blow, both emotionally and financially. I felt broken and lost, unsure of how to pick up the pieces.

However, I refused to let despair consume me. I fought courageously to rebuild my life and find happiness within myself. I sought therapy to help heal the wounds and regain my self-worth. Slowly but surely, I started to overcome my depression and regain a sense of purpose. Thanks to Brother Mshana Jr. and others who were there for me during that difficult moment. May God bless you abundantly [emoji3531]

As I reflect on my journey, I have come to the realization that marriage is not the sole definition of happiness and success. It is not the only path to fulfillment. I have learned to find joy in other aspects of my life – my career, my hobbies, and most importantly, the love I have for my children.

I have accepted that I may not have achieved everything I had hoped for at this age, but I am grateful for the strength and resilience I have developed. I have learned to prioritize my own well-being and happiness, for the sake of myself and my children.

While marriage may no longer be my interest, I am open to the possibility of finding love and companionship in other forms. Perhaps, in time, I will stumble upon a meaningful and fulfilling connection that aligns with my values and aspirations.

For now, I am focusing on being the best father I can be and building a life that brings me purpose and contentment. I am Vintage, a man who has learned that true happiness lies in embracing oneself and finding joy in the journey of life, regardless of societal expectations.
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Ujumbe heavy sana huu
 
Vintage1q said:
I have come to realize that marriage is not for everyone, and I have accepted that it may not be the right path for me. After going through multiple relationships and experiencing heartbreak, I have learned that trust can be fragile and love can be fleeting.

Being a father to my two children has shown me the true meaning of unconditional love and responsibility. My daughter, Mercy, brings me immense joy, and watching her grow into a beautiful young girl has been a blessing. My son, Seth, is a constant reminder of the commitment and sacrifice required to be a parent. Despite the challenges I have faced, my children are the light in my life.

Last year was one of the toughest periods of my life. My wife, whom I had trusted and loved deeply, betrayed me by running away with everything I had worked hard for. It was a devastating blow, both emotionally and financially. I felt broken and lost, unsure of how to pick up the pieces.

However, I refused to let despair consume me. I fought courageously to rebuild my life and find happiness within myself. I sought therapy to help heal the wounds and regain my self-worth. Slowly but surely, I started to overcome my depression and regain a sense of purpose. Thanks to Brother Mshana Jr. and others who were there for me during that difficult moment. May God bless you abundantly ♥️

As I reflect on my journey, I have come to the realization that marriage is not the sole definition of happiness and success. It is not the only path to fulfillment. I have learned to find joy in other aspects of my life – my career, my hobbies, and most importantly, the love I have for my children.

I have accepted that I may not have achieved everything I had hoped for at this age, but I am grateful for the strength and resilience I have developed. I have learned to prioritize my own well-being and happiness, for the sake of myself and my children.

While marriage may no longer be my interest, I am open to the possibility of finding love and companionship in other forms. Perhaps, in time, I will stumble upon a meaningful and fulfilling connection that aligns with my values and aspirations.

For now, I am focusing on being the best father I can be and building a life that brings me purpose and contentment. I am Vintage, a man who has learned that true happiness lies in embracing oneself and finding joy in the journey of life, regardless of societal expectations.
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So sad.! You're a very strong man, Mr. Vintage.
 
Vintage1q said:
I have come to realize that marriage is not for everyone, and I have accepted that it may not be the right path for me. After going through multiple relationships and experiencing heartbreak, I have learned that trust can be fragile and love can be fleeting.

Being a father to my two children has shown me the true meaning of unconditional love and responsibility. My daughter, Mercy, brings me immense joy, and watching her grow into a beautiful young girl has been a blessing. My son, Seth, is a constant reminder of the commitment and sacrifice required to be a parent. Despite the challenges I have faced, my children are the light in my life.

Last year was one of the toughest periods of my life. My wife, whom I had trusted and loved deeply, betrayed me by running away with everything I had worked hard for. It was a devastating blow, both emotionally and financially. I felt broken and lost, unsure of how to pick up the pieces.

However, I refused to let despair consume me. I fought courageously to rebuild my life and find happiness within myself. I sought therapy to help heal the wounds and regain my self-worth. Slowly but surely, I started to overcome my depression and regain a sense of purpose. Thanks to Brother Mshana Jr. and others who were there for me during that difficult moment. May God bless you abundantly ♥️

As I reflect on my journey, I have come to the realization that marriage is not the sole definition of happiness and success. It is not the only path to fulfillment. I have learned to find joy in other aspects of my life – my career, my hobbies, and most importantly, the love I have for my children.

I have accepted that I may not have achieved everything I had hoped for at this age, but I am grateful for the strength and resilience I have developed. I have learned to prioritize my own well-being and happiness, for the sake of myself and my children.

While marriage may no longer be my interest, I am open to the possibility of finding love and companionship in other forms. Perhaps, in time, I will stumble upon a meaningful and fulfilling connection that aligns with my values and aspirations.

For now, I am focusing on being the best father I can be and building a life that brings me purpose and contentment. I am Vintage, a man who has learned that true happiness lies in embracing oneself and finding joy in the journey of life, regardless of societal expectations.
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A great message for those
Vintage1q said:
I have come to realize that marriage is not for everyone, and I have accepted that it may not be the right path for me. After going through multiple relationships and experiencing heartbreak, I have learned that trust can be fragile and love can be fleeting.

Being a father to my two children has shown me the true meaning of unconditional love and responsibility. My daughter, Mercy, brings me immense joy, and watching her grow into a beautiful young girl has been a blessing. My son, Seth, is a constant reminder of the commitment and sacrifice required to be a parent. Despite the challenges I have faced, my children are the light in my life.

Last year was one of the toughest periods of my life. My wife, whom I had trusted and loved deeply, betrayed me by running away with everything I had worked hard for. It was a devastating blow, both emotionally and financially. I felt broken and lost, unsure of how to pick up the pieces.

However, I refused to let despair consume me. I fought courageously to rebuild my life and find happiness within myself. I sought therapy to help heal the wounds and regain my self-worth. Slowly but surely, I started to overcome my depression and regain a sense of purpose. Thanks to Brother Mshana Jr. and others who were there for me during that difficult moment. May God bless you abundantly ♥️

As I reflect on my journey, I have come to the realization that marriage is not the sole definition of happiness and success. It is not the only path to fulfillment. I have learned to find joy in other aspects of my life – my career, my hobbies, and most importantly, the love I have for my children.

I have accepted that I may not have achieved everything I had hoped for at this age, but I am grateful for the strength and resilience I have developed. I have learned to prioritize my own well-being and happiness, for the sake of myself and my children.

While marriage may no longer be my interest, I am open to the possibility of finding love and companionship in other forms. Perhaps, in time, I will stumble upon a meaningful and fulfilling connection that aligns with my values and aspirations.

For now, I am focusing on being the best father I can be and building a life that brings me purpose and contentment. I am Vintage, a man who has learned that true happiness lies in embracing oneself and finding joy in the journey of life, regardless of societal expectations.
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Real, marriage is not for everyone

Marriage is a win / loose contract and always we expect to win but accidentally we loose
 
Ifike mahali watu watambue kua ndoa sio drama,fashen wala jambo la mzaha.
Linapokuja swala la ndoa unatakiwa kutuliza akili na kumuuliza Mungu.

Sio kukurupuka na kufanya mambo ilimradi kisa umri unaenda, kisa nimempata mwenye pesa, mwenye shepu au kisa wenzangu wote wameoa na kuolewa.

Wengi mnakurupuka bila kufikiri wala kumhusisha Mungu, Mambo yakienda ndivyo sivyo mnaanza kusema kama mnavyosema.

Kila mtu amepangiwa mtu wake "wa kufanana nae" ila utulivu ndio sifuri.

"If you're interested in someone, pray first. Stop throwing your self out there only to be hurt when you realize it's wasn't God's will"
 
Vintage1q said:
have come to realize that marriage is not for everyone, and I have accepted that it may not be the right path for me. After going through multiple relationships and experiencing heartbreak, I have learned that trust can be fragile and love can be fleeting
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Pole sana sana
 
Vintage1q said:
I have come to realize that marriage is not for everyone, and I have accepted that it may not be the right path for me. After going through multiple relationships and experiencing heartbreak, I have learned that trust can be fragile and love can be fleeting.

Being a father to my two children has shown me the true meaning of unconditional love and responsibility. My daughter, Mercy, brings me immense joy, and watching her grow into a beautiful young girl has been a blessing. My son, Seth, is a constant reminder of the commitment and sacrifice required to be a parent. Despite the challenges I have faced, my children are the light in my life.

Last year was one of the toughest periods of my life. My wife, whom I had trusted and loved deeply, betrayed me by running away with everything I had worked hard for. It was a devastating blow, both emotionally and financially. I felt broken and lost, unsure of how to pick up the pieces.

However, I refused to let despair consume me. I fought courageously to rebuild my life and find happiness within myself. I sought therapy to help heal the wounds and regain my self-worth. Slowly but surely, I started to overcome my depression and regain a sense of purpose. Thanks to Brother Mshana Jr. and others who were there for me during that difficult moment. May God bless you abundantly [emoji3531]

As I reflect on my journey, I have come to the realization that marriage is not the sole definition of happiness and success. It is not the only path to fulfillment. I have learned to find joy in other aspects of my life – my career, my hobbies, and most importantly, the love I have for my children.

I have accepted that I may not have achieved everything I had hoped for at this age, but I am grateful for the strength and resilience I have developed. I have learned to prioritize my own well-being and happiness, for the sake of myself and my children.

While marriage may no longer be my interest, I am open to the possibility of finding love and companionship in other forms. Perhaps, in time, I will stumble upon a meaningful and fulfilling connection that aligns with my values and aspirations.

For now, I am focusing on being the best father I can be and building a life that brings me purpose and contentment. I am Vintage, a man who has learned that true happiness lies in embracing oneself and finding joy in the journey of life, regardless of societal expectations.
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What you have narrated is daily life cycle/routine for many of us men, not every man can handle marriage, gentlemen are few in marriage many are boys, such scenario occurred in my life more than twice I didn't give up and I will never give up, but I learnt a lot from such events I will never give up marriage conjugal relations/sex are some of my favourites that make me relax but I will never ever trust a woman in life..........,
 
Prakatatumba abaabaabaa said:
Ok well because you narrate in English let me advice you in English because it's my mother tongue...

The marriage needs perseverance, a lot of women they enter in a marriage as a trial. When they meet something devestating they run away, they have a lot of expectations in a marriage....

Listen, raise your child well, don't ever call or chat or texting your wife just focus with life, think positive, find a concubine just to fulfill you libido sometime it happen but don't expect too much from a women...

Best of luck welcome again.
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Kulikuwa na ulazima gani wa kutudanganya kwamba 'english is your mother tongue' mkuu
 
We are on the same path..... i've never been in a relationship since birth and i am 26 heading 27.....
And i dont feel the need to be in a relationship....

Consequential commitments like marriage and relationships are not for everyone.
 
Mbwa dume said:
Hapo neno pekee nililoweza kuelewa ni Mshana Jr
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Tafsiri
Nimegundua kuwa ndoa si ya kila mtu, na nimekubali kwamba inaweza isiwe njia sahihi kwangu. Baada ya kupitia mahusiano mengi na kupata huzuni, nimejifunza kwamba uaminifu unaweza kuwa dhaifu na upendo unaweza kuwa wa muda mfupi.

Kuwa baba kwa watoto wangu wawili kumenionyesha maana halisi ya upendo na uwajibikaji usio na masharti. Binti yangu, Mercy, huniletea furaha kubwa, na kumuona akikua msichana mzuri imekuwa baraka. Mwanangu, Seth, ni ukumbusho wa mara kwa mara wa kujitolea na kujitolea kunahitajika kuwa mzazi. Licha ya changamoto nilizokutana nazo, watoto wangu ndio nuru katika maisha yangu.

Mwaka jana ilikuwa moja ya vipindi ngumu zaidi maishani mwangu. Mke wangu niliyemwamini na kumpenda sana, alinisaliti kwa kutoroka na kila kitu nilichokuwa nimefanyia kazi kwa bidii. Lilikuwa pigo lenye kuhuzunisha, kihisia-moyo na kifedha. Nilihisi kuvunjika na kupoteza, sijui jinsi ya kuchukua vipande.

Hata hivyo, nilikataa kuruhusu kukata tamaa kunilemea. Nilipigana kwa ujasiri kujenga upya maisha yangu na kupata furaha ndani yangu. Nilitafuta matibabu ili kusaidia kuponya majeraha na kurejesha thamani yangu ya kibinafsi. Polepole lakini kwa hakika, nilianza kushinda mshuko-moyo wangu na kupata tena hisia ya kusudi. Shukrani kwa Ndugu Mshana Mdogo na wengine waliokuwepo kwa ajili yangu katika wakati huo mgumu. Mungu akubariki sana [emoji3531]

Ninapotafakari safari yangu, nimegundua kuwa ndoa sio tafsiri pekee ya furaha na mafanikio. Sio njia pekee ya utimilifu. Nimejifunza kupata furaha katika vipengele vingine vya maisha yangu - kazi yangu, mambo ninayopenda, na muhimu zaidi, upendo nilionao kwa watoto wangu.

Nimekubali kuwa huenda sikufanikiwa kila kitu nilichotarajia katika umri huu, lakini ninashukuru kwa nguvu na ustahimilivu ambao nimekuza. Nimejifunza kutanguliza ustawi na furaha yangu, kwa ajili yangu na watoto wangu.

Ingawa ndoa huenda isinipendeze tena, niko wazi kwa uwezekano wa kupata upendo na mwenzi wa aina nyinginezo. Labda, baada ya muda, nitajikwaa juu ya uhusiano wa maana na utimilifu ambao unalingana na maadili na matarajio yangu.

Kwa sasa, ninaangazia kuwa baba bora zaidi ninayeweza kuwa na kujenga maisha ambayo huniletea kusudi na uradhi. Mimi ni Vintage, mwanamume ambaye amejifunza kwamba furaha ya kweli inategemea kujikumbatia na kupata furaha katika safari ya maisha, bila kujali matarajio ya jamii.


Mfasiri: Jr[emoji769]

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Mynd177 said:
We are on the same path..... i've never been in a relationship since birth and i am 26 heading 27.....
And i dont feel the need to be in a relationship....

Consequential commitments like marriage and relationships are not for everyone.
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At 26yrs I would advice you just keep reading people's comment so that you can get to learn more from experienced gentlemen, there is nothing significant you have ever witnessed you are still novice in social relations
 
Covax said:
At 26yrs I would advice you just keep reading people's comment so that you can get to learn more from experienced gentlemen, there is nothing significant you have ever witnessed you are still novice in social relations
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Novice means what?
 
Excel said:
Love to the wife is transferred to a daughter .
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Aisee its also not good, your daughter she will remain your daughter can't substitute to faience or a wife........don't misunderstand me here please,
 
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