Marriage is not for everyone

Marriage is not for everyone

Vintage1q said:
I have come to realize that marriage is not for everyone, and I have accepted that it may not be the right path for me. After going through multiple relationships and experiencing heartbreak, I have learned that trust can be fragile and love can be fleeting.

Being a father to my two children has shown me the true meaning of unconditional love and responsibility. My daughter, Mercy, brings me immense joy, and watching her grow into a beautiful young girl has been a blessing. My son, Seth, is a constant reminder of the commitment and sacrifice required to be a parent. Despite the challenges I have faced, my children are the light in my life.

Last year was one of the toughest periods of my life. My wife, whom I had trusted and loved deeply, betrayed me by running away with everything I had worked hard for. It was a devastating blow, both emotionally and financially. I felt broken and lost, unsure of how to pick up the pieces.

However, I refused to let despair consume me. I fought courageously to rebuild my life and find happiness within myself. I sought therapy to help heal the wounds and regain my self-worth. Slowly but surely, I started to overcome my depression and regain a sense of purpose. Thanks to Brother Mshana Jr. and others who were there for me during that difficult moment. May God bless you abundantly [emoji3531]

As I reflect on my journey, I have come to the realization that marriage is not the sole definition of happiness and success. It is not the only path to fulfillment. I have learned to find joy in other aspects of my life – my career, my hobbies, and most importantly, the love I have for my children.

I have accepted that I may not have achieved everything I had hoped for at this age, but I am grateful for the strength and resilience I have developed. I have learned to prioritize my own well-being and happiness, for the sake of myself and my children.

While marriage may no longer be my interest, I am open to the possibility of finding love and companionship in other forms. Perhaps, in time, I will stumble upon a meaningful and fulfilling connection that aligns with my values and aspirations.

For now, I am focusing on being the best father I can be and building a life that brings me purpose and contentment. I am Vintage, a man who has learned that true happiness lies in embracing oneself and finding joy in the journey of life, regardless of societal expectations.
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Vintage1q nafurahi kukuona ukiwa live tena! Natambua safari ya miba na iliyojaa mbigili na giza nene! Kikubwa hukukata tamaa na hukupoteza imani yako kwa Mungu wako.. Kumepambazuka sasa! Ashukuriwe Mungu mkuu

Ulichoandika hapa ni tone tu ya yale uliyopitia na sijui ni wangapi wanaweza kuvaa viatu vyako.. Wengi havitawatosha, nina hakika! Vitawabana na watavivua na kuvitupa

Zile zilikuwa ni nyakati ngumu sana kwako but daima Mungu huwa hamtupi mja wake... Umesimama imara na sasa uko imara zaidi
Wewe kwasasa ni jambia lenye makali kuwili.. Jambia ni zao la chuma, lakini chuma hakigeuki jambia bila kula nyundo za kutosha na kupitishwa kwenye moto mkali sana!
Wengi walipitishwa njia uliyopitia lakini wakashindwa, wakaishia njiani na leo hii hawapo tena duniani..Mungu ana neno nawe ishike sana imani

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Mshana Jr said:
Vintage1q nafurahi kukuona ukiwa live tena! Natambua safari ya miba na iliyojaa mbigili na giza nene! Kikubwa hukukata tamaa na hukupoteza imani yako kwa Mungu wako.. Kumepambazuka sasa! Ashukuriwe Mungu mkuu

Ulichoandika hapa ni tone tu ya yale uliyopitia na sijui ni wangapi wanaweza kuvaa viatu vyako.. Wengi havitawatosha, nina hakika! Vitawabana na watavivua na kuvitupa

Zile zilikuwa ni nyakati ngumu sana kwako but daima Mungu huwa hamtupi mja wake... Umesimama imara na sasa uko imara zaidi
Wewe kwasasa ni jambia lenye makali kuwili.. Jambia ni zao la chuma, lakini chuma hakigeuki jambia bila kula nyundo za kutosha na kupitishwa kwenye moto mkali sana!
Wengi walipitishwa njia uliyopitia lakini wakashindwa, wakaishia njiani na leo hii hawapo tena duniani..Mungu ana neno nawe ishike sana imani

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Asante sana Brother. Mungu mkuu azidi kukutunza. Wengi walinikimbia na kunikana kabisa katika kipindi hicho lakini uliamua kunishika mkono. Huwa ninakosa lugha ya kukuelezea wewe pamoja na familia yako zaidi ya machozi ya furaha. Nakukumbuka sana Brother.
 
Vintage1q said:
Asante sana Brother. Mungu mkuu azidi kukutunza. Wengi walinikimbia na kunikana kabisa katika kipindi hicho lakini uliamua kunishika mkono. Huwa ninakosa lugha ya kukuelezea wewe pamoja na familia yako zaidi ya machozi ya furaha. Nakukumbuka sana Brother.
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[emoji1545]kumepambazuka sasa hata kiza kikija tena kutakuwa na mwanga na si giza totoro

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Joannah said:
Am having four kids,three boys and single girl,and if I give you one total number of them will b 5,are u ready to be the father of five?[emoji16][emoji16][emoji16][emoji16]
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Definitely yes, i will be glad to have such number of kids, in fact mimi nipe watatu ili tuwe nao saba kabisa kama siku za week[emoji4]
Mengine tutamaliza PM, isijekuwa kama mkataba wa bandari kila kitu hadharani
 
Basi Nenda said:
Definitely yes, i will be glad to have such number of kids, in fact mimi nipe watatu ili tuwe nao saba kabisa kama siku za week[emoji4]
Mengine tutamaliza PM, isijekuwa kama mkataba wa bandari kila kitu hadharani
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Basi sawa,..tuutunze mkataba watanzania Wana nongwa
 
Offshore Seamen said:
Una ujuzi wa fani ipi mkuu?

Na deal na hayo mambo ila sipo sehemu maalumu panapokucha naamkia kokote.
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Nina degree ya Human resource management na driving license class A,B,D (sina uzoefu professional, ninaendesha tu gari ndogo binafsi ) Offshore Seamen.

Ila hata ikipatikana kazi ya field tofauti na hizo nafanya, cha msingi pesa tu Mkuu
 
Vintage1q said:
I have come to realize that marriage is not for everyone, and I have accepted that it may not be the right path for me. After going through multiple relationships and experiencing heartbreak, I have learned that trust can be fragile and love can be fleeting.

Being a father to my two children has shown me the true meaning of unconditional love and responsibility. My daughter, Mercy, brings me immense joy, and watching her grow into a beautiful young girl has been a blessing. My son, Seth, is a constant reminder of the commitment and sacrifice required to be a parent. Despite the challenges I have faced, my children are the light in my life.

Last year was one of the toughest periods of my life. My wife, whom I had trusted and loved deeply, betrayed me by running away with everything I had worked hard for. It was a devastating blow, both emotionally and financially. I felt broken and lost, unsure of how to pick up the pieces.

However, I refused to let despair consume me. I fought courageously to rebuild my life and find happiness within myself. I sought therapy to help heal the wounds and regain my self-worth. Slowly but surely, I started to overcome my depression and regain a sense of purpose. Thanks to Brother Mshana Jr. and others who were there for me during that difficult moment. May God bless you abundantly ♥️

As I reflect on my journey, I have come to the realization that marriage is not the sole definition of happiness and success. It is not the only path to fulfillment. I have learned to find joy in other aspects of my life – my career, my hobbies, and most importantly, the love I have for my children.

I have accepted that I may not have achieved everything I had hoped for at this age, but I am grateful for the strength and resilience I have developed. I have learned to prioritize my own well-being and happiness, for the sake of myself and my children.

While marriage may no longer be my interest, I am open to the possibility of finding love and companionship in other forms. Perhaps, in time, I will stumble upon a meaningful and fulfilling connection that aligns with my values and aspirations.

For now, I am focusing on being the best father I can be and building a life that brings me purpose and contentment. I am Vintage, a man who has learned that true happiness lies in embracing oneself and finding joy in the journey of life, regardless of societal expectations.
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Naona mmbo yashakua gumzo duniani kote
Vintage1q said:
I have come to realize that marriage is not for everyone, and I have accepted that it may not be the right path for me. After going through multiple relationships and experiencing heartbreak, I have learned that trust can be fragile and love can be fleeting.

Being a father to my two children has shown me the true meaning of unconditional love and responsibility. My daughter, Mercy, brings me immense joy, and watching her grow into a beautiful young girl has been a blessing. My son, Seth, is a constant reminder of the commitment and sacrifice required to be a parent. Despite the challenges I have faced, my children are the light in my life.

Last year was one of the toughest periods of my life. My wife, whom I had trusted and loved deeply, betrayed me by running away with everything I had worked hard for. It was a devastating blow, both emotionally and financially. I felt broken and lost, unsure of how to pick up the pieces.

However, I refused to let despair consume me. I fought courageously to rebuild my life and find happiness within myself. I sought therapy to help heal the wounds and regain my self-worth. Slowly but surely, I started to overcome my depression and regain a sense of purpose. Thanks to Brother Mshana Jr. and others who were there for me during that difficult moment. May God bless you abundantly ♥️

As I reflect on my journey, I have come to the realization that marriage is not the sole definition of happiness and success. It is not the only path to fulfillment. I have learned to find joy in other aspects of my life – my career, my hobbies, and most importantly, the love I have for my children.

I have accepted that I may not have achieved everything I had hoped for at this age, but I am grateful for the strength and resilience I have developed. I have learned to prioritize my own well-being and happiness, for the sake of myself and my children.

While marriage may no longer be my interest, I am open to the possibility of finding love and companionship in other forms. Perhaps, in time, I will stumble upon a meaningful and fulfilling connection that aligns with my values and aspirations.

For now, I am focusing on being the best father I can be and building a life that brings me purpose and contentment. I am Vintage, a man who has learned that true happiness lies in embracing oneself and finding joy in the journey of life, regardless of societal expectations.
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