Marriage is not for everyone

Marriage is not for everyone

I have come to realize that marriage is not for everyone, and I have accepted that it may not be the right path for me. After going through multiple relationships and experiencing heartbreak, I have learned that trust can be fragile and love can be fleeting.

Being a father to my two children has shown me the true meaning of unconditional love and responsibility. My daughter, Mercy, brings me immense joy, and watching her grow into a beautiful young girl has been a blessing. My son, Seth, is a constant reminder of the commitment and sacrifice required to be a parent. Despite the challenges I have faced, my children are the light in my life.

Last year was one of the toughest periods of my life. My wife, whom I had trusted and loved deeply, betrayed me by running away with everything I had worked hard for. It was a devastating blow, both emotionally and financially. I felt broken and lost, unsure of how to pick up the pieces.

However, I refused to let despair consume me. I fought courageously to rebuild my life and find happiness within myself. I sought therapy to help heal the wounds and regain my self-worth. Slowly but surely, I started to overcome my depression and regain a sense of purpose. Thanks to Brother Mshana Jr. and others who were there for me during that difficult moment. May God bless you abundantly [emoji3531]

As I reflect on my journey, I have come to the realization that marriage is not the sole definition of happiness and success. It is not the only path to fulfillment. I have learned to find joy in other aspects of my life – my career, my hobbies, and most importantly, the love I have for my children.

I have accepted that I may not have achieved everything I had hoped for at this age, but I am grateful for the strength and resilience I have developed. I have learned to prioritize my own well-being and happiness, for the sake of myself and my children.

While marriage may no longer be my interest, I am open to the possibility of finding love and companionship in other forms. Perhaps, in time, I will stumble upon a meaningful and fulfilling connection that aligns with my values and aspirations.

For now, I am focusing on being the best father I can be and building a life that brings me purpose and contentment. I am Vintage, a man who has learned that true happiness lies in embracing oneself and finding joy in the journey of life, regardless of societal expectations.
I have gone through your writing extremely carefully,with a lot of patience,understanding and concern.It would be suicidal for me to try to convince you ,contrary to what you believe now,as the trauma which you have passed through is privy to yourself.What I can tell,is give yourself time to heal,and use your subconscious mind to rebuild your conscious mind to find a place in your mind to forgive
 
Mi huwa nashangaa Yaan vitu viskiharibika katika mahusiano Ndio uchukie ndoa ukiona vitu vimeshindikana huyo sio wako,mtu mmoja anakufanya uchukie ndoa
Na Bado mtasemaa
Umetoa ushauri fulani hivi kana kwamba hautakuja kuwa kwenye mahusiano ya mapenzi au ndoa au kuishi na mwenzi angalia. Angalia mkuu.
 
Ukitaka ndoa ikuperekeshe wewe ichukulie tu serious

Lkn ukiichukilia as a pray utawini sana

Wale wanaochukulia lzm hiki , iwe vile , sitaki hiki ndiyo wanavunjwa mioyo sana

Nawakumbusha , uwe changeable time to time

Kumbuka uliyenaye ni kiumbe cha tofauti na wewe just create your own happiness na aman yako


Uwe na kiasi ktk yote , usipende kujihukumu Wala kumhukumu mwenzako

Uwe na uwezo wa kutokutabilika kbs
 
Ukitaka ndoa ikuperekeshe wewe ichukulie tu serious

Lkn ukiichukilia as a pray utawini sana

Wale wanaochukulia lzm hiki , iwe vile , sitaki hiki ndiyo wanavunjwa mioyo sana

Nawakumbusha , uwe changeable time to time

Kumbuka uliyenaye ni kiumbe cha tofauti na wewe just create your own happiness na aman yako


Uwe na kiasi ktk yote , usipende kujihukumu Wala kumhukumu mwenzako

Uwe na uwezo wa kutokutabilika kbs
Asante kwa ushauri tunaoendelea kuchukua maoni tukishaingia tuwe changeable
 
Drone upo mkuu! Maana hizi ndoa tunapigwa tu wanaume kila siku maumivu. Ndoa is for women benefits. Utapeli tu drone!!
 
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