venusians/women have different values.they value love, communication beauty and relationships.
they spend a lot of time supporting, helping, and nurturing one another. Their sense of self is defined through their feelings and the quality of their relationships. they experience fulfillment through sharing and relating.
everything on venus reflects these values. Rather than building highways and tall buildings,the venusians are more concerned with living together in harmony, community, and loving cooperation. Relationships are more important than work and technology. In most ways their world is the opposite of mars.
They do not like to wear uniforms like the martians (to reveal their competence). On the contrary, they enjoy wearing a different outfit every day, according to how they are feeling. Personal expression, especially of their feelings, is very important. They may even change outfits several times a day as their mood changes.
Communication is of primary importance. To share their personal feelings is much more important than achieving goals and success. Talking and relating to one another is a source of tremendous fulfillment.
This is hard for a man to comprehend. He can come close to understanding a woman's experience of sharing and relating by comparing it to the satisfaction he feels when he wins a race, achieves a goal, or solves a problem.
Instead of being goal oriented, women are relationship oriented; they are more concerned with expressing their goodness, love, and caring. Two martians go to lunch to discuss a project or business goal; they have a problem to solve. In addition, martians view going to a restaurant as
an efficient way to approach food: No shopping, no cooking, and no washing dishes.
For venusians/women, going to lunch is an opportunity to nurture a relationship, for both giving support to and receiving support from a friend. Women's restaurant talk can be very open and intimate,
almost like the dialogue that occurs between therapist and patient.
On venus/women, everyone studies psychology and has at least a master's degree in counseling. They are very involved in personal growth, venusians/women have different values. They value love, communication, beauty, and relationships.
They spend a lot of time supporting, helping, and nurturing one another. Their sense of self is defined through their feelings and the quality of their relationships. They experience fulfillment through sharing and relating.
Everything on venus reflects these values. Rather than building highways and tall buildings,the venusians are more concerned with living together in harmony, community, and loving cooperation.
Relationships are more important than work and technology. In most ways their world is the opposite of mars/men.
They do not like to wear uniforms like the martians (to reveal their
competence). On the contrary, they enjoy wearing a different outfit
every day, according to how they are feeling. Ppersonal expression,especially of their feelings, is very important.
They may even change outfits several times a day as their mood changes.
Communication is of primary importance. To share their personal feelings is much more important than achieving goals and success. Talking and relating to one another is a source of tremendous fulfillment.
This is hard for a man to comprehend. He can come close to understanding a woman's experience of sharing and relating by comparing it to the satisfaction he feels when he wins a race, achieves a goal, or solves a problem.
Instead of being goal oriented, women are relationship oriented; they
are more concerned with expressing their goodness, love, and caring.
Two martians/men go to lunch to discuss a project or business goal; they have a problem to solve. In addition, martians view going to a restaurant as an efficient way to approach food: No shopping, no cooking, and no washing dishes.
For venusians/women, going to lunch is an opportunity to nurture a
relationship, for both giving support to and receiving support from a
friend. Women's restaurant talk can be very open and intimate,
almost like the dialogue that occurs between therapist and patient.
On venus/women, everyone studies psychology and has at least a master's degree in counseling. They are very involved in personal growth, spirituality, and everything that can nurture life, healing,and growth.
venus is covered with parks, organic gardens, shopping centers, and
restaurants.venusians are very intuitive. They have developed this ability through centuries of anticipating the needs of others. They pride themselves in being considerate of the needs and feelings of others. a sign of great love is to offer help and assistance to another venusianwithout being asked.
because proving one's competence is not as important to a venusian,
offering help is not offensive, and needing help is not a sign of
weakness. A man, however, may feel offended because when a woman offers advice he doesn't feel she mists his ability to do it himself.
a woman has no conception of this male sensitivity because for her it is another feather in her hat if someone offers to help her. It makes her feel loved and cherished. But offering help to a man can make him feel incompetent, weak, and even unloved.on venus it is a sign of caring to give advice and suggestions.
venusians firmly believe that when something is working it can always
work better. Their nature is to want to improve things. When they care about someone, they freely point out what can be improved and suggest how to do it. Offering advice and constructive criticism is an act of love.
when a woman tries to improve a man. He feels she is trying to fix him.he receives the message that he is broken. She doesn't realize her caring attempts to help him may humiliate him. She mistakenly thinks she is just helping him to grow.
