Samahani nimeweka ndefu kufidia.
Part Twelve: I am depressed.
💓 Ethiopia's lady
2006 - 2007
Flashback
Rosemary: " nimesema hapa kwangu big no, usinizarau kiasi hicho. Hilo usije kujaribu maana tutagombana."
Edson : "sasa nisije jaribu kwani nimekubali ombi lako?,
anyway nimekusikia ila nitakujibu siku nyingie, hasa nikishajua msimamo wa Violet kuhusu hili.
Rosemary: " Eti msimamo? Haya, dada Violet hawezi kataa maana ni mwizi mzoefu, atafurahi kupata ruhusa. Yule mwananke anakupenda, hata anavyokuangali kuna ujumbe machoni kwake, sema tu huwa humfatilii au unazuga nikiwepo.
Tulipia soga na mke wangu, moyoni nilikuwa na furaha kupewa ruhusa, ingawaje nilimkazia kama sitaki.
Nilimdadisi Violet ili nione kama nimetegwa, alionyesha kutofahamu chochote. Nikaamua sitasema neno, ila siku nikikutana nae nitamjaribu nisikie atasemaje.
Rosemary aliamua ku risk penzi lake kwa ajili ya watoto, mwanamke ni mtu wa ajabu sana.
Hatabiriki, leo Rosemary anampigia debe Violet kwa sababu tu ya kutamani watoto wake waishi ulaya.
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Flashforward
After my mother died, I went through a depression. This situation was due to the fact that I could not agree with my mother's death and that I would not see her again..
{Mtu hupata msongo wa mawazo pale anaposhindwa au kukosa namna ya kukabiliana na jambo linalomsumbua.}
Rosemary alijaribu kunirudisha normal lakini ikashindikana, ikabidi ampe taarifa kaka maana hali yangu haikuwa ya kibinadamu, sikutaka ku - socialize na mtu yoyote.
Kaka alinishauri nibadilishe mazingira, nisingeweza kukaa sawa huku nayaona makaburi ya baba na mama kila siku.
Aliamua kunitafutia kazi ili niwe busy, mbali na nyumbani, Rosemary alikubali bila shaka yoyote maana alishaona hali ni mbaya.
Kupitia marafiki wa kaka , aliambiwa na rafika yake alikuwa unicef kipindi hicho, kuna shirika la kimataifa limetangaza nafasi za kazi.
Akanitumia link ili nione vigezo kama nina kidhi ni apply. Nilisoma lile tangazo nikaona ninazo sifa, walitaka vigezo vya ziada ujue matumizi sahihi ya computer hasa baadh ya programs waliainisha pale kama Tally nk.
Nilituma maombi yangu rasmi, baada ya miezi mitatu nikawa short listed, nikatakiwa kwenda nairobi kufanyiwa interview.
{wate waliokuwa africa mashariki walienda kenya.}
Tulifaninyiwa interview, wakenya 7, waganda 4, watanzania 3 . Baada ya majibu ya interview, walichukuliwa wakenya 2, uganda 2 na Tanzania 2 nikiwemo mimi.
Kituo cha kazi mkenya 1, mganda 1 na Mtanzania 1 tulipelekwa Ethiopia.
Wale wengine walipelekwa Djibouti.
Nilirudi nyumbani kwa ajiri ya maandalizi ya safari. Nilifanya maandalizi ya kwenda kuanza kaizi, lengo niweve kuushinda ule msongo wa mawazo kwa kuwa mbali na nyumbani.
Rosemary alinisisitiza nijitunze sana, wanawake hawaishi.
Rosemary: "I'm so bummed about your deception. I gave it all to you and you took me for granted. You lied when you said you didn't have a choice, and you never had any intention of cheating. You could have told me of your temptations, or at least prevented the situation.
all together."
Edson: "Know that I am the one who destroyed everything beautiful that we built. I also want to make sure that everything stays the same, if possible. I have no excuses for my actions.
Rosemary:" You made a lot of mistakes in the relationship, but I let them slide because I thought you didn't mean them. I understand that your love was somewhere else, that's why you're making me shit. "
" So it is true that people can't change; they can only hide who they truly are for a while. Thanks for letting me know, but it's too late for me."
Edson: "Forgive me for the things I've done to you. I know it's hard. Love and trust don't come easily, and I still don't know why I damaged them. But after all the great memories we made together, I ask you, please, let's give this marriage another chance. I don't want you to regret it.
Rosemary:" I used to think that meeting you was a blessing. I used to think I was with you. I know it expired around the time you slept with Violet. Everyone might have made that mistake, but not you.
Edson:" I know I risked your health, our happiness, and especially your heart. I've shattered your faith. Forgive me for all of this."
"I deceived you." I don't know why, especially since I thought so when I said you have a special place in my heart. I may have given another woman my affection and my time, but my love lies with you.
Rosemary:" I love you now and for evermore. I'll love you until I die, and if there's life after that, I'll go on loving you then. I'll pray to God for your safety and your trip until you get back in my arms. Bon voyage, my husband.
Edson: "I'll miss you, my sweet wife. I have found meaning in my life because of you, and I promise to love you forever."
Rosemary:" I don't need the skies and the stars. I'm not in need of gold or wealth. I won everything I could desire the day I met you. I won a firm hand, a good soul, and someone that I'm going to sleep with and wake up next to for the rest of my life. You're my heart beat, you mean the world to me, Edson.
life. You are my heartbeat, you're my everything Edson."
" Loving you was a great dream that I never want to wake up from. You are a unique and beautiful soul. I'm so in love with you."
Edson: "Thank you so much for loving me, Rosemary. "
Rosemary: "May this voyage freshen you up, my love! Have a safe and wonderful trip, but come back soon as I will miss you dearly!"
Love you!
Edson: "I will, darling."
Rosemary: "Would you put me in your suitcase, honey? Without you, I'm going to be bored here.
Edson: "You don't need to sit in the suitcase my wife, your seat is in my heart."
"Kuhusu utaratibu wa hapa inabidi uwaite wale wadogo zako, waje kuendesha yale maduka, wewe baki kusimamia tu."
{Kuna wadogo zake wawili walikuwa wamemaliza chuo wanasubiri ajira}
Ongea nao, utaniambia mshahara wao, nitawalipa mimi nje ya biashara, mpaka nitakaporudi.
Rosemary:" Sasa mshahara wa nini dad, waleni ni kama watoto wako, umewasomesha, wanashindwa kufanya hiyo kazi mpaka walipwe?, mimi naona tuwape posho tu maana watakuwa wanaishi hapa, tunawadumia."
Edson: " Hapana mke wangu, wale wako kwenye rika la kujiandaa na maisha yao ya baadae, sio sawa wafanye kazi ya kuingiza pesa halafu wasilipwe, ndio maana nimesema nitawalipa nje ya biashara, sawa.: "
Rosemary: "Sawa mume wangu, asante sana kwa kuijali familia yangu."
Edson: "sitaki uteseke na kazi nyingi, yule Edina naona ametulia sana, akasimamie mambo ya utalii washirikiane na Bosco.
{Bosco anawajibika kwa Edina, Edina anawajibika kwa Rosemary, Rosemary anawajibika kwangu.}
{Bosco alikuwa meneja wa kampuni, ila kutokana na alichofanya Alfred kwenye biashara ya madini, niliamua bora awepo mtu wa kumsimamia, akae kwenye nafasi yangu.}
Edson: "Na Joan asimamie maduka ya nguo, kule restaurant nafikiri yule Mwanaidi anafaa kusimamia maana ameanza siku nyingi na mama, ni mwaminifu, na kwa umri wake hawezi fanya uhuni. Wewe kazi yako ni kuwasimamia wote kwa karibu."
Rosemary: "sawa mume wangu, asante kwa kunijali na kunipunguzia majukumu."
Edson: " nataka ufurahie maisha, sitaki uzeeke kwa kazi nyingi, mwangalie tu jr hapo anakutosha, sawa mrembo wangu."
Rosemary: "I'm the luckiest human being out there. Every time you look me in the eye, I see pure and beautiful love. I am filled with joy. I am so blessed with your love, Edson. "
Tuliongea muda mrefu, vicheko vikatawala, hatiamae tukalala.
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Baada ha kumaliza taratibu zote za kuomba vibari vya kazi, na taratibu za kujua nitaishie Addis Ababa, nikifanya booking kwenye hotel iliyokuwa jirani na kituo changu cha kazi.
Utaratibu ulikuwa, tunajilipia kika kitu mpaka tutakapo ripoti na kuanza kazi, tukianza kazi tunarudishiwa gharama zetu na tunapewa accommodation allowance kila mwezi kama mkataba unavyosema.
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Tulikubaliana na wale wenzangu, tuanzie safari kenya ili tuwe pamoja kwa vile hata hotel tuli book ni moja.
Baada ya kumalizana na familia, nilienda Nairobi kupitia namanga, nikaungana na wenzangu, tukaondoka.
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We landed safely at Bole International Airport, Addis Ababa,
The Golden Tulip Addis Ababa hotel offers free shuttle service from and to the airport.
It is ideally located in Addis Ababa, one kilometer from Bole International Airport and only a few minutes away from many international organizations and embassies.
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Ofisi ilikuwa karibu na round about inayokutanisha barabara / mitaa ya ya cameroon st, Namibia st, Djibout st.
Tulifika Ethiopia siku mbili kabla ya siku ya kuripoti kazini, tukautumia huo muda kuuzoea mji.
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Siku ya kuripoti kazini, tuliwahi kwenda, tukakutana na supervisor wetu, tukakamilisha taratibu zote, tukapangiwa kazi na ofisi kwa kila mmoja wetu.
Tuakapewa siku tatu za kutafuta makazi tunayoona yanafaa kisha jumatatu tukaanze kazi.
Tulilipwa ile accommodation allowance kwenye account zetu siku ile ile, wale wenzangu wakasema hawawezi kukaa hotelini ni gharama. Wakataka tutafute nyumba ya kukodi, nikakataa, wakaniacha hapo hotel.
{I'm stressed, I didn't want to add to the problem by staying with people I don't know their behavior, they're drunker.}
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Nilijitahidi sana kufata ushauri wa wataalamu wa afya mitandaoni, ili niweze kuishinda ile hali, bila mafanikio.
Nilikuwa nikitulia tu nikamkumbuka mama hata kama niko kazini nashtukia machozi yanatiririka mashavuni, ile hali ilinila sana.
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Baada ya miezi mitatu kazini, niligombana na Violet, nilisitisha utaratibu wa kumfata uturuki. Alipo taka kujua sababu nilimwambia siko sawa kiafya, akasema niende anipeleke kwa wataalamu nikakataa.
Hatimae nikaamua kunywa pombe labda sitakuwa na mawazo ya mama na huyu chizi wa mapenzi. Katika hali ya pombe, nikawa naenda club kucheza mziki, nilewe nikalale, bila hivyo sipati usingizi.
Violet hakunipa nafasi, Rosemary hakuwa na shida na mimi, alikuwa akinitia moyo kila siku. Mchepuko unanikoromea mpaka nikatamani nimwambie wife, ila nikakumbuka yuko na watoto wa Rosemary.
Katika hizo harakati siku moja niko club, nimeanza kulewa, nikaenda
washroom, kurudi nakuta kuna wadada wamekaa meza niliyokuwa nimekaa, wako wawili, kikabaki kiti changu tu
Edson: "Hello"
Girl: "Hi,"
akajibu mmoja, mwingine akaniangalia tu akanyamaza.
Niliamua kuchukua jacket niliyokuwa nimeweka kwenye kiti ili nihame.
Girl: "I'm sorry, did we kick you out? Would you like to sit down or would you rather not share a table?"
Edson: "No, nothing to worry about, I'm fine."
Nikaenda kukaa meza ya mbali kidogo. Baada ya kama dakika 20, nikaamua kuondoka. Kufika nje nakutana na wale wadada mlangoni, nje kuna vijana wawili wamesimama wameegemea gari.
Girl: "Brother, I'm sorry, we need your help."
Edson: "What can I help you with?"
Girl: "These young people are thieves, and they want to steal from us."
Edson: "What makes you think they're thieves?"
Girl: "We don't know any of them brother, we want to leave, we saw them there in front of our car. The moment they saw us, they started following us" .
Niliwaangalia wale vijana, ni vibaka wakwapuaji tu, sikuona hatari yoyote. Nikatoka, nikawa naelekea ule upande wa lile gari, wale vijana kuniona nawafata wakasogea pembeni, wale wadada wakawa wanakuja.
Nikasimama mbele ya gari, wale vijana wananiangalia tu, wadada wakapanda kwenye gari yao.
Girl: "Thank you, brother, where are you going, let us drop you off or you got a car."
Edson: "No, I'm not driving, I'm going to the Golden Tulip."
Girl: "We're heading in the same direction."
Nilifungua gari nikaingia tukaondoka.
Nilishushwa hotelini kwangu, tukapeana mawasiliano, wakaahidi kunipeleka sehemu nzuri zaidi tukacheze mziki.
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Ilipofika ijumaa nikapewa ujumbe kuwa nijiandae, jioni watanipita twende club, nikawambia hakuna shida, wakifika niko chumba namba flani.
Mida ya saa 1 na nusu, nikapigiwa siku pale hotelini nina wageni. Nikaenda kuwachukua waje kwanza chumbani kwangu maana nilikuwa bado sijaoga.
Kuwakaribisha, wakakaa kwenye viti, nikaingia kuoga. Nilibeba nguo kabisa ili nikitoka bafuni niwe tayari. Baada ya mda Nikatoka niko tayari kwa safari, tukaondoka.
Tulienda Beaka night club, ni umbali wa 7km kama dakika ishirini flani hivi kutoka hotelini kwangu.
I was hosted by the beautiful ones. We started drinking and dancing.
The one who didn't greet me on the first day, she was much nicer than her partner.
At that time I didn't want to dance , I just sat and drank. The cheerful one went to the dancing floor and I stayed with this beautiful one.
Edson: "I want to know your name. She's the only one I know."
I said pointing to her partner.
Girl: "My name is Jamilla Nugus."
Edson: "That's a pretty name, I'm Edson "
Jamilla Nugus: "Thank you Edson ."
Edson: " What language do you speak among the Amharics, the Tigrinas, the Somalis, the Oromo?"
Jamilla Nugus: "I come from the Somali regional state, a regional state in eastern Ethiopia. It has the largest territory after the Oromia area."
Edson: " Cool, so you can speak Somali."
Jamilla Nugus: "Yes, I know, it's my mom's tongue"
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Edson: "Tell me, if I want to say Jamilla, I like you a lot in somali.
Jamilla Nugus: "Jamilla aad baan kuu jeclahay."
Edson: " So what's your response?"
Jamilla Nugus : "adigana waan ka helay {I like you too }
Nilitumia huo ujanja kumuonyesha Jamilla namtaka.
Edson: "Are you really calm, or is it because you don't care about me?"
Jamilla Nugus: "I'm not very talkative."
Edson: "I thought you were scared of me."
Jamilla Nugus: "No, that's not how I am."
Tuliongea mengi sana, tukawa tumelewa, yule mwenzetu akakutana na mtu wake wakahama meza .
I thought this was the perfect time to sleep with an Ethiopian.
Edson: "You have a boyfriend, right?"
Jamilla Nugus: "That's right, I have ."
Edson: "Why haven't you brought him?"
Jamilla Nugus: "He doesn't like to come to the club. We had an appointment to take you out today, if he would have come you wouldn't be free."
{Kwa uzoefu wangu mpaka hapa nikajua jimbo liko wazi au mmiliki wa jimbo analega lega.}
Edson: " Why should I not be free?"
Jamilla Nugus:" Men don't like sitting down together when they don't know each other. I mean, even he wouldn't. So, how are you going to be free, your colleagues have their lovers and you don't?"
{Nikaamua kujilipua, tu pombe imekolea}
Edson: "What are you going to do now? I need you to come with me tonight."
Jamilla Nugus:" Where are we off to?
"Edson: "In my hotel room, you gave me a drink and you just want to let me sleep alone?" If I'm so drunk I can't sleep alone, you'll go home tomorrow."
Akaniangalia usoni, hakujibu, kanywa wine yake. Halafu akanyanyuka kumfata rafiki yake.
Wakarudi wote na yule jamaa yake yule rafiki, tukasalimiana, akanishika mkono kuniinu
Jamilla Nugus : "Come on, let's go back to your hotel."
Nikanyanyuka nikamfata, yule rafiki yake akatanguali na jamaa yake nje
Tuliingia kwenye gari, nikajifanya nimelewa sana, nikaweka mkono kiunoni kwa Jamilla Nugus akautoa, nikaweka mapajani akauacha.
Tulifika hotelini, nikashuka na Jamilla Nugus akashuka, akaongea na rafiki yake kwa ki somali, wakatupungia mkono wakaondoka.
Nikajifanya niko hoi, ikabidi anikumbatie ili anisaidie kutembea, tulipofika chumbani nikafunga mlango, pombe zikaisha.
Nikamwambia tukaoge, akasema anataka wine, nikapiga simu ikaletwa wine, anapenda sana screaming eagle {Wine Type Red, Bottle Size 75cl, Pack Size 3x75cl, Alcohol Percentage 14.80. }
Tukaoga kisha akaanza kunywa wine yake taratibu, mimi ilitosha sikuongeza. Niliamua kunywa maji.
After a short while, {she was drinking slowly, looking at me, as if she was saying what you're waiting for} .
I had her drink, I put it on the table, I gave her my tongue and she accepted.
We had a romance for a while, she started gasping for breath. she felt that I was too drunk, I wouldn't want to bother her, but I was actin'.
Nilimnyonya shingo nikawa nashuka taratibu, akawa anahema kama vile ameona jini, nikamvua blauzi aliyokuwa amevaa.
I didn't find her in a bra. She has erect nipples, small breasts. I began to suck her slowly as she growled with pleasure. Nikamwagia wine kwa breasts nikaramba sana.
Kisha nikashuka mbavuni na kitovuni kwa ulimi akanivutia kwake, nikajua tayari, ila ngoja kwanza akolee zaidi.
{Huwa nachukua kama dakika 60 kumuandaa mwanamke ninapokutana nae mara ya kwanza, lengo nimalize mchezo siku ya kwanza, sisubiri marudiano, akinielewa atanitafuta mwenyewe, asiponielewa hatakuja nielewa kamwe, huyo ni mbobevu zaidi }
I put my hand down, she was sore, I licked her navel first, she was now screaming with pleasure, my hand was on her clit.
I took off her underwear, she was helpless and she was pulling me, I put on a condom and then I started to rub her clit with the head of my phallus, it didn't take long for her to pour out the porridge, and now she is ready for use.
{Mkitaka mfurahie mapenzi, na dawasa ipatikane, hakikisha mwanamke anafika kileleni kabla hujaingia ndai, hapo anakuwa tayari yuko kwenye high level. Dawasa haiangalii tango wala karoti, maandalizi na juhudi ya mfunguliaji tu.}
{Usiwe na tabia ya kusukuma gari kabla halijawaka unapanda kwa madai kuwa litawaka mbele ya safari kisa uko mteremkoni.}
I know one of the ways to please a woman is to let her take over. So I tell her that she is in charge and I'm just going to follow her lead. I asked her to tell me where she wants me to be.
She led me to the edge of the Bed Sex Position, I like this position is a common favorite for both men and women, as it encourages deep penetration.
She was lying on her back, her hips were at the edge of the bed, and I went in on her.
She was placing her feet on my chest, options that allow her to control what angle feels best..
{One of the best tricks to give pleasure to women in bed is to keep whispering something nice and sweet in their ears.}
We take about 20 minutes in this position, slowly and deeply. Then she reached her pick once again.
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We moved into the standing doggy sex position. She was standing with her feet shoulder-width apart and leaning forward towards her waist. Resting her hands on a table for support.
So I was standing up and I came in through the back, holding her hips for support.
This position is ideal for deep penetration, as the inlet angle allows the rooster to reach the G point.
She adjusted the angle of her hips to raise and lower the level of stimulation on her clitoris. she would turn her head to look back at me and keep eye contact while having sex."
This time she reached her climax for the third time, she pleaded with me to let her rest, I wasn't ready for that. This time I made it tougher and deeper, then I reached my trip.
{Being a gentleman in bed, understanding the distinction between passion and violence. Do not cross the line and hurt her sentiments.}
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Alikuwa anahema tua, hana nguvu, nikamsaidia kulala kitandani, na mimi nikalala pembeni. Baada ya dakika kumi ndio akanisemesha
Jamilla Nugus: "What have you been up to for me?"
Edson:"Why?"
Jamilla Nugus: "You look good in bed."
Edson:"Just some, I'm still learning,"
Jamilla Nugus: " My friend, you're a pro in bed, I have seen your stuff." You can kill sweetly without knowing it,"
Edson:"Why should I kill you now?
Jamilla Nugus:" Your stuff is so sweet, I wish it hadn't come out, but I was tired."
Edson:" Sorry, you are so sweet. So you inspired me."
Tuliongea kidogo tukalala, pombe alizokunywa zikamchukua mpaka asubuhi, mimi kama kawaida yangu, sikulala mapema, nilihakikisha usalama kwanza.
Vitu vyangu vile vya muhimu kama passport, hela, na document za thamani nikaweka kwenye begi dogo kisha uvunguni.
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Jamilla Nugus aliniamsha saa 1 asubuhi, nikakuta amesha agiza breakfast (room service), chakula kinaitwa enkulal firfir.
{Is essentially simply scrambled eggs, which might not sound all that fascinating, it is a dish you should not miss out on trying at breakfast.
It is cooked with niter kibbeh, and then further enhanced with a mixture of green and red peppers, chiles, tomatoes, and onions. All of this is then scooped up with fresh, delicious bread rolls that are frequently still warm from the bakery.
With a drink called Beso. Is a shake of lightly roasted barley flour with honey or sugar. It is very famous among runners.}
Chakula kilikuwa na radha nzuri sana, nilikipenda, rafiki yangu akasema ni kizuri, kitarudisha ile nguvu iliyopote usiku.
Baada ya breakfast, tulioga kisha tukaanza maongezi ya hapa na pale, ilikua ni jumamosi, hatuendi kazini.
Jamilla Nugus: "Honey, are you married?"
I want to hear in Somali
Jamilla Nugus: "Malab, ma guursatay?"
Edson: "No, not yet."
Jamilla Nugus: "Run maaha ee runta ii sheeg {It's not true, tell me the truth}"
Aliamua kuongea kisomali na kutafsiri kwa Kiingereza.
Nikahisi huyu nikimletea masihara atakuwa Violet wa pili.
Edson: "I'm kidding, I'm married with five children."
Jamilla Nugus: "Hal xaas?{For one wife?}"
Edson: "Yes."
Jamilla Nugus: "Your wife has a lot of luck, you know how to please a woman, you're in no hurry."
Edson: "Why would I, there's no rush in Africa."
Jamilla Nugus: "That's right, I've had a man like you, but you're more than him, you're calm during love, you're not in a hurry or impatient."
Edson: "I really like slow movements, I always like to watch my woman take a nap, when it comes to speed I tend to miss certain things."
Jamilla Nugus: "Your sweetness is never boring, I want to appreciate your sweetness again, and then I'm off."
Edson: "Pick him up, he's here for you."
{Always respect your partner's desires during sexual relations. Stop what you're doing if she asks you, and don't try to force her to do something she's uncomfortable with. Don't be afraid to talk about your own needs, desires and limits, neither}
So we take a lotus sex stance,
She was sitting in my lap, facing me with her legs rolled around.
This gives a lot of close contact with the body, the ability to embrace deeply, and the ability to grind against body parts while engaging in sex,
When she gets the combination of deep emotional connectedness and external clitoral stimulation, she reaches her climax.
Then I put her in the Serpent's position, she lay on her belly, and made me lie on top of her and slipped from behind..
This position provides ultra-deep penetration, and a comfortable fit that may feel good for both of us.
She leaned back and wrapped her hand around the sleeve to help control the depth they get or change the angle of her bum for the same effect.
She squeezed her legs together to create a tighter feel and bent her hand around her vulva to create room to grind and squeeze against a vibrator for clitoral stimulation. We both hit the road together, we both made it to our peak.
Then we switched to the shell, she lay down with her legs lifted all the way up and her ankles crossed behind her own head. I was brought in as a missionary. Her hands could use her clitoris. She used to boost her G-spot with my cock's head. She reached her climax again.
Mchana aliaga akaondoka, ila ahadi ni kurudi tena kupata utamu wa bure.
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Speaking from experience, If you want to go out with Ethiopian women, take these.
{Males in Ethiopia are usually considered flirtations. It means that the girl you are going to meet will be greatly admired, approached and praised on a regular basis.
It can make you jealous, understandably so. However, you can be sure that once she has accepted you as her girlfriend, she will not leave you for someone else.
The girls here are very serious about their reputation. She will not take you to meet her parents unless she feels sure that you are the one for her or at least that your relationship will last for a considerably long time.
Many unmarried girls walk the streets of Addis Ababa and this does not bother them when men approach them and show a certain interest in them. Once you do it right, you'll be ready for a marvelous adventure.
The glances of Ethiopian women are as warm for foreign men as their natural beauty. In Ethiopia, girls love to wear feminine clothing to showcase their sexy body, long legs and beautiful breasts.
They seldom wear heels, but prefer mini skirts and shorts, tight tops and hairstyles where the beauty of their hair may be noticed. In addition, Ethiopian women love to wear vivid colors and fashionable outfits to look like fashionistas. If you like stylish women who like to dress up, you will find your partner among the beautiful women in Ethiopia.}
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Jamilla Nugus alinisaidia sana kupunguza upweke na ule msongo wa mawazo, alikuwa na kawaida kila ijumaa anakuja hotelini, tunaenda club kisha tunakuwa hapo mpaka jumapili jioni anaondoka.
Alikuwa anafanya kazi Bole International Airport, miaka 23 umri wake.
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Niligundua lengo la Violet kuwachukua watoto wa Rosemary, alitaka apate nafasi ya kuni control. Alijua atauteka moyo wa Rosemary, na atakuwa karibu zaidi na mimi.
Ulipoingia mwezi wa tisa kazini, Violet alienda kunitafuta Arusha, Sikuwa nimemkataza mke wangu asimwambie nilipo. Ningefanya hivyo angehisi kuna jambo.
Tulikua tunawasiliana vizuri, ila kukutana nikawa namkwepa, nilimwambia siko sawa kiafya, nina msongo wa mawazo.
Alitaka niende Finland anipeleke kwa psychologist, nikawa namkwepa ndio maana akaja bila kunitaarifu.
Rosemary alimpokea vizuri, akamwambia nafanya kazi na shirika fulani, niko Ethiopia. Alikaa siku tatu kwa Rosemary, kisha akamwambia anaenda kwa watoto, alikuwa na safari zake akaona sio vibaya kitusalimia.
{Rosemary hakujua lolote, alimuona ni dada mwema sana.}
Alikuja mpaka Ethiopia, kwenye ofisi za like shirika nilikuwa nafanya kazi, nikapigiwa simu nina mgeni, kwenda nakutana na Violet.
Alikuwa amechukia sana, ila akazuga kwa vile kuna watu. Tukasalimiana, kisha nikamuomba anisubiri guests waiting room nimalizie kazi, ilibaki saa moja tu muda wa kazi uishe, akakubali nikamsindikiza hapo, nikamuomba receptionist aniangalizie nikarudi ofisini.
Nilijiuliza sana lengo la yeye kuja bila kunitaarifu. Muda ulipofika nikaondoka nae mpaka hotelini kwangu. Alikuwa Off mood kabisa.
Violet: "Why did you choose to hide all this from me, Edson?"
Ni swali la kwanza baada ya kufika chumbani.
Edson: What am I keeping from you?
Violet: "You never said if you were working."
Edson: I'm sorry, I told you I had mental stress, my brother got me this job so that I could be away from home. I didn't think it was wise to inform you, I know you'd refuse.
Alianza kulia,
Violet: "Edson, I really like you, I should know what you're doing, don't hide it from me. If it's about money, I'm willing to give you whatever you want so that you don't suffer from people's work."
Edson: "I know you love me and take care of me, coming to work here is just part of the treatment and not about money. Please, trust me, Purple.
Alinikumbatia kwa nguvu huku bado analia,
Violet: "Look how thin you are now, looks like you're not eating well, sweetie."
Edson: "I eat well, I practice, which is why I'm like this."
Nilinyanyuka nikafata simu ili niagize vinywaji, akaona chupa ya wine chini ya meza pale chumbani.
{Jamilla Nugus alikuwa anaiweka hapo}
Violet: "Are you drinking liquor?
Edson: "why? ?"
Violet: "Respond to my question."
Edson: "Yes"
Violet: "Is it stress or is there anything else?"
Edson: Yes, I couldn't accept my mother's death, I always remembered her and I was in pain, so I drank alcohol even if I could sleep.
Violet hakuongea kitu, alibaki ananiamgalia tu.
"What have you been torturing me for all this time, tell me the truth."
Edson: "I didn't offend you, I wanted to stop working and return to my schedule when I get better."
Violet: "You banned me from drinking, and then you went into drinking?"
Edson: "I don't like drinking alcohol, I drink it so that I can sleep, if I don't drink, I have many thoughts, I can't sleep."
Tukiwa tunaongea, mlango ukagongwa, nikaenda kufungua namkuta Jamilla Nugus.
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Part Twelve B: I am depressed.
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