Part Twelve B: I am depressed.
[emoji105]Finns vs Ethiopians.
Flashback
Violet hakuongea kitu, alibaki ananiamgalia tu.
Violet: "Why have you been torturing me for all this time, tell me the truth."
Edson: "I didn't offend you, I wanted to stop working and return to my schedule when I get better."
Violet: "You banned me from drinking, and then you went into drinking?"
Edson: "I don't like drinking alcohol, I drink it so that I can sleep, if I don't drink, I have many thoughts, I can't sleep."
Tukiwa tunaongea, mlango ukagongwa, nikaenda kufungua namkuta Jamilla Nugus.
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Flashforward
Edson: "Welcome Jamilla."
huku Nampa ishara kwa macho, maana alitaka kunikumbatia.
Jamila:" Thank you."
Aliingia ndani, alivyomuona Violet akasita, nikamuwahi..
Edson: "Welcome Sis Jamilla"
Violet: "Thank you very much Ed"
Edson: My wife, this is Jamila Nugus, this is my co-worker. Jamila Nugus, I want you to meet Violet, my wife.
Jamilla: "Thank you so much, thank you for meeting Sister Violet, welcome to Ethiopia."
Violet: "Thanks a lot, Jamilla."
Violet alijibu bila uchangamfu, alishahisi jambo
Edson: "I'm sorry Jamilla Nugus, today I left without saying goodbye, I got a visit from my wife here, came to greet me."
Jamilla: "There is no problem, I thought perhaps there is a problem because it is not your usual way. So I had to stop by to find out if you were okay."
Edson: "My wife, this is my host, it is she who received us when we came to begin work.
Violet: "Alright, no problem."
Aliongea akimwangalia Jamilla Nugus usoni. Mara ghafla akanyanyuka akafunga mlango.
"Edson, I want to know the truth, who is she?"
Edson: "I just told you, didn't you hear what I said?"
Violet: I'm no little girl, what is your colleague doing here in your room? Remember, you're not speaking with a child."
Edson: "Cut the panic on my wife, who do you think she is now?
Violet: "Yes, I look forward to a quick response."
Edson: This is Jamilla Nugus, this is my co-worker, she came from the office to see how I was doing, because I left without saying goodbye.
Violet: "I need to see your identity card, you bastard."
Edson: Wife, why are you being rude to me? How come you won't believe me?
Violet: "You don't know much about me, I want the truth, how many times have you slept with her?"
Violet aliongea akiwa anatoa hereni na saa na kuvitupa kitandani.
Edson: "I never slept with her, what makes you think that?
Violet: "Jamilla, how come you're sleeping with my husband? He didn't tell you he had a wife?
{Eti violet akaamua kuvaa uhusika wa Rosemary, wakati na yeye anaiba.}
Violet: "Jamila is not responding to anything. Violet, I'm asking you something, you talk to me, if this is a fight, I'm in charge, let Jamilla Nugus go."
Jamila: "How confident are you that I slept with him? So what did we do?
Lile jibu likapandisha hasira za Violet, akamfata nikakaa katikati yao.
{Tangu tukio la Violet kunitolea bastola, alikuwa ananiogopa hata awe na hasira vipi, hawezi taka kupambana na mimi.}
Edson: Look, everybody, you were in my room, I'm your host. I say that, I don't want any kind of mess. You are my wife {Violet} and you are my coworker {Jamila}. There's no argument here, let's sit down and talk, if either of you think she's a boss, let her, touch her partner and I'll show her who I am.
Nilifoka, nikakaa kitandani nikataka wote wakae kwenye viti waniangalia mimi.
Edson: Sit down, all of you, look in my eyes.
Edson: Jamila, thank you for coming to see me, I'm sorry for what happened, forgive me, it's my fault, you can leave and I'll see you at work.
Violet: "Nobody gets out of here, until I find out the truth, why are you fucking my guy?"
Jamila: "Look, sister, I respect you because you're Edson's wife, if you keep insulting me, I'll scold you. This is my country, I'll do something to you that you'll never forget in your life, dummy.
Violet alichachamaa, akataka amvamie, nikamshika na kumtuliza kwa makofi mawili ya usoni, akakaa chini analia.
{Ilikwa ni bora nimpige Violet kuliko Jamila. Violet ananpenda sana ni rahisi kunisamehe, Jamila ananipenda ila anajua sina malengo nae.}
Edson: "Jamila, please take off.
Jamila: "I'm not leaving this place, your wife can't call me a hooker, does that mean I'm selling myself to you?
Edson: "If you bring conflict, what are you going to gain?"
Jamila: Look, your husband seduced me himself, I didn't catch him or find me selling my body."
Jamila alikua na hasira sana, akaamua kusema ukweli. Violet aliposikia ile kauli aliinua uso akaniangalia huku machozi yana shuka mashavuni.
Edson: Jamila, please, get out of here, you're a very civilized woman, don't complicate things.
Jamila: "I'm going, but I realize this isn't just your husband, he's for us all. I wanted to be calm, but you offended me by telling me that I'm a prostitute.
Jamila aliongea huku anafungua mlango, Violet akataka kuinuka nikamzuia, mlango ukafungwa kwa nguvu. Nika lock.
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Edson: "Now Violet, listen to me carefully, from now on you and I we have done, you can't be rude in front of my colleague, her mistake is to come to me? I'm sorry you're getting used to me, I don't need you any more because I told you not to despise me. Rosemary won't be as rude to me as you are, do you think she doesn't love me?
Violet: "Did you want me to enjoy it? You bring your bitch before me and you want me to laugh?
Edson: "You know nothing, she's not my bitch and I've never slept with her, she's just my co-worker. Your impoliteness and calling her a whore is the reason for all this. She's making false statements. Tomorrow, we go to the office, if you find that Jamila is an employee there, you come back here and pick up your suitcases and leave. I'll be gone forever.
Violet: "The truth is that she is your lover, you reached the point of betraying me, which is why you avoided me. Why would she start trembling like that when there's nothing wrong with you two? Don't mess with me.."
Edson: "If it's my bitch, it's okay. Let me fvck that bitch, that's the end of you."
Violet: "I will never try to be your ex. I hope you realize I love you. My past mistakes have taught me to love and hold onto a gentleman like you."
Edson "Your love made me believe that we are a happily married fish in a pond living together happily. It was later that I became aware that you were selfish.
Violet:" What do you mean, my love. "
Edson: "Because you don't want to give me a chance to make my own decisions. Do you think your money will stop me? You know why Rosemary knows you're dating me, but she still loves you as a sister to her? What are you trying to make me mad for?
Violet: 'You did not cheat on me, you cheated on us. You didn't just break my heart, you broke ours. Isn't it magic that you ended up being the person you said you were never in your life? I appreciate your disappointment.”
Edson: "You're messing with yourself."
Violet: "How much time does your contract last?"
Edson : "Three months."
Violet: "How much will you be paid by the time you finish the contract?"
Nikamtajia kiasi.
Violet: "I'll pay you three times in the morning, get ready, we're all going to Finland."
Edson: "Do you think your money is what makes me feel like being with you? Why should you disturb me?
Violet: "Look Edson, I love you, I promised you would stay with me at all costs, you want me to tell your wife about this betrayal you're doing."
Edson: " "Rosemary, trust me, unlike you, there is no betrayal.
Violet: "You want me to prove to you she's your lover and not your coworker?"
Edson: "Yeah, 'cause you think I'm an idiot."
Violet: "Tomorrow we all go to your workplace, I'll find out the truth there.."
Nilishtuka kwa uamuzi ule, angefika kazini angeniharibia kazi na sifa yangu. Alipanga kuonana na mkuu wangu, amweleze kuwa yeye ni mke wangu, nimemtelekeza na watoto, anaomba asaidiwe. Boss ni mzungu, lazima angemwamini haraka tu, ningejiharibia kazi.
Edson: "Listen to me my wife, if you make fun of me at work, we're separating completely, are you ready?"
Violet: "In the meantime, I'm sure you really dated her, we're leaving, you won't see her again."
Edson: "You bully me so much that I have no right to decide my own business?"
Violet: "I love you, I need you and your children need you, all I do is protect you, not abuse you."
Edson: "Loving me is not a criterion for deciding my affairs. Give me some time, this work was found for me by my brother, it would be an insult if I left it for no reason.
Violet: "You want to look after your bitch?"
Edson: "Please respect me, I will beat you right now, I don't want to hear your words."
Tuliongea, nikapewa wiki niandike barua ya kusitisha mkataba, malipo napewa na Violet mara tatu zaidi. Nilikaa na Violet siku tatu kisha akaondoka.
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Nilimpigia simu Jamila kabla ya kwenda kazini, hakuwa amenichukia, anakumbuka ninachomfanya nikiwa nae.
Edson: "I'm so sorry Jamilla Nugus, I didn't have time to inform you, she came without notice."
Jamila: "Is she really your woman? She's so fierce at home, you'll have trouble.
Edson: she is very jealous."
Jamila: "She offended me by calling me a whore, or you told her I was a hooker?"
Edson: "You women have problems, even if you listened to me and remained silent, you would have avoided much."
Jamila: "Since I love and respect you, Edson, you didn't hurt me, without you I would have taught the woman to be polite someday."
Edson: "Stop it, my love, I miss you so much, come at night and make me happy".
Jamila: "I mean, you've been banging your wife for three days, now you're saying" I missed you", you guys, you're a real problem. All right, get ready because I'm upset with you."
Edson: "Your love doesn't tire me, and you have to start teaching me Somali, I can leave soon."
Nilimjaza kidogo akajaa, nikaahidiwa kula mzigo jioni.
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Siku mbili baada ya kuachana na Violet, aliniwekea pesa kwenye account yangu mara nne zaidi ya ile ninayolipwa na ile tasisi.
Niliamua kumtumia emaila
Dear Violet.
It's about time you found out.
I f you want to live with me, you have to let me decide my own business. Don't use money as a remote control for me, don't want me to think about fvcking you without doing my personal job.
No matter how much money you give me, you can't buy my freedom. From here on out, don't interfere with my decisions. I'll do my own thing.
Speaking of love, I won't stop you because I know it has feelings. But reduce the scorn, and don't make me do anything you want.
I won't terminate the contract, I'll finish the three months and then I'll come. If you disagree with my decisions, you're free to walk away from me.
I brought back the money you sent me so I could quit. You are not allowed to come to me without informing me,
Say hello to mom and kids.
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Violet alijibu ile email siku hiyo hiyo, akasema amekubali masharti yangu ila asinikute na mwanamke tena. Niwe namruhusu aje nilipo. Pesa alizirudisha tena kwangu. .
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Baada ya ile miezi mitatu kuisha, tulitakiwa kusaini mkataba mpya kama tunaendelea.
{Mkataba ni wa mwaka, kila mwisho wa mwaka unatakiwa kusaini upya kama unataka kuendelea kufanya kazi.}
Nilikuwa nimetuma maombi kwenye shirika moja la umoja wa mataifa, muda wa kusubiri ni miezi mitatu mpaka sita, kusubiri wito wa interview .
Nilimtaarifu boss wangu kuwa sitaongeza mkataba, nina majukumu ya kifamilia nahitajika kuwa karibu ma familia.
Yule boss alikuwa mtu mwema sana, alinipa remark nzuri sana. Nikakaribishwa kufanya nao kazi wakati mwingine.
****"
Baada ya ile miezi mitatu, nikawa Short listed, nikatumiwa email ya kujiandaa kufanyiwa usahili.
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Nilimpeleka Jamilla Nugus kufanya shopping, tulienda mall inaitwa Dembel City Center iko mtaa wa Afrika Ave, Addis Ababa, Ethiopia
Located in the center of the city less than 3 mi from Bole International Airport, the twelve-floor structure has 123 spaces for shops and offices
Nikapata penzi mfululizo siku mbili bila kuondoka, nikampa pesa za asante kwa penzi lake, akazikataa kwa madai hajiuzi, na ile zawadi ya shopping inamtosha sana.
nilimshukuru kwa kunikarimu tangu nimemfahamu, kesho yake nikaondoka, nilienda Rovaniemi kwa wiki mbili.
Violet alinipeleka kwa psychologist, baada ya muda nilikaa sawa, nikaacha pombe kabisa. Nikajiapia sitakunywa tena pombe.
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Artist: Alan Jackson
Released: 1996
Album: Everything I Love
Genre: Country
Everywhere you look, you can write a book
On the trouble with a woman and a man
But you can not impose, you can't stick your nose
Into something that you don't understand
Still you wonder
Who's cheatin' who? Who's being true?
And who don't even care anymore?
It makes you wonder
Who's doing right with someone tonight?
And who's car is parked next door?
I thought I knew her well, I really couldn't tell
That she had another lover on her mind
You see it felt so right when she held me tight
How could I be so blind?
Still you wonder
Who's cheatin' who? Who's being true?
And who don't even care anymore?
It makes you wonder
Who's doing right with someone tonight?
Who's car is parked next door?
Guitar
A heart is on the line each and every time
Love is stolen in the shadows of the night
Though it's wrong all along, it keeps goin' on
As long as you keep it outta sight
Still you wonder
Who's cheatin' who? And who's being true?
And who don't even care anymore?
It makes you wonder
Who's doing right with someone tonight?
Who's car is parked next door?
Still you wonder
Who's cheatin' who? And who's being true?
And who don't even care anymore?
It makes you wonder
Who's doing right with someone tonight?
Who's car is parked next door?
Still you wonder
Who's cheatin' who? And who's being true?
Who don't even care anymore?
It makes you wonder
Who's doing right with someone tonight?
Who's car is parked next door?
Thank you Ethiopie, Thank you Jamila.
{Mahadsanid Itoobiya, Mahadsanid Jamiila}
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