Mke wangu amenisaliti kwa ushahidi wa mazingira, nifanye nini?

GAZETI · Sep 5, 2011

Huwezi sema hujaamua lolote wakati umeshatembeza Kichapo kikali,
Kwa kuwa umetembeza kichapo yameisha! Lakini sijapenda ulichokifanya
Huyo hakuhitaji kichapo ni KUACHWA tu halafu unaleta kitu kingine
si unajua STOCK ni kubwa sana, sasa hivi uiano uko hivi wanaume:Wanawake
1:10 hapo nimechanganya na wale ambao majongoo hayapandi Mtungi.

MESTOD · Sep 5, 2011

kipusy said:
bado sijaamua ndugu, naumiza kichwa sana, yaani naumia sana, ndio maana nimeweka hapa mnishuri

Rudi chuoni haraka sana. Kapige shule huko utapata relief nyingi sana. Then ukitulia utakuwa kwenye mda mzuri wa kufanya maamuzi.

Once again, pole mkuu.

StaffordKibona · Sep 5, 2011

Mpe Red Card. Period!

Gaga · Sep 5, 2011

Hata mie ningesema hatujafanya lol, pole sana mkuu ila umbali umemponza mkeo, kuna wengine hawawezi hata kukaa mwezi mzima bila mwanaume labda na wako yuko hivyo, ila plus na kiburi na kukukwepa wakati umeenda tu kwa likizo fupi? kweli akili ni mali kila mtu ana yake, kashindwa kukaa kwa amani na wewe kwa mda tu huo mfupi, atakuwa hakupendi tena, pole sana uamuzi ni wako

vivian · Sep 5, 2011

Let me not fall into this kind of sin!!!.

too bad. pole dadiito

GAZETI · Sep 5, 2011

vivian said:
Let me not fall into this kind of sin!!!.

too bad. pole dadiito

Kama kweli vileleee!!!!

MzeePunch · Sep 5, 2011

Huyo inabidi arudie kiapo cha uaminifu halafu baada ya hapo mpige mkwara: kwamba utafuatilia nyendo zake, na siku ukigundua kuwa anakusaliti utamwangamiza. Hakika hawezi kurudia tena. Jipe moyo kwamba haja-sex na huyo jamaa. Ila ningekuwa mimi ningemsaka huyo 'mwizi' na kumshikisha adabu. Tuliza munkari, endelea na mkeo mpenzi.

kipusy · Sep 5, 2011

X-PASTER said:
Msamehe!

nipe hadith au haya ya Quraan

Mike 1234 · Sep 5, 2011

hapo ndoa kwishine

BPM · Sep 5, 2011

kipusy said:
bado sijaamua ndugu, naumiza kichwa sana, yaani naumia sana, ndio maana nimeweka hapa mnishuri

kwanza mshukuru mungu kukuwezesha kugundua kinachoendelea au kuhisi nini kinaendelea.. unatakiwa uwe mtulivu sana katika kipindi hiki na huna haja ya kukimbilia maamuzi au kusukumwa katika maamuzi na hisia.. na usilipe nafasi ya kuwaza sana suala hilo . kaa chini ongea na mkea kiustaarabu na taratibu na kama unafeel mapenzi yako kwake basi mweleze na yeye akuambia wazi (angalizo: usimlazimise akuambie au akuonyeshe huyo mwanaume) ...

kipusy · Sep 5, 2011

MzeePunch said:
Huyo inabidi arudie kiapo cha uaminifu halafu baada ya hapo mpige mkwara: kwamba utafuatilia nyendo zake, na siku ukigundua kuwa anakusaliti utamwangamiza. Hakika hawezi kurudia tena. Jipe moyo kwamba haja-sex na huyo jamaa. Ila ningekuwa mimi ningemsaka huyo 'mwizi' na kumshikisha adabu. Tuliza munkari, endelea na mkeo mpenzi.

Nipe concept zaidi, hapo highlighted red front and italic. Unamaanisha nimpige hadharani au nimshushe kishipa....

Nyani Ngabu · Sep 5, 2011

kipusy said:
Nikawasha moto nyumbani hapo, amekili kua ni mpenzi wake ila hawaja sex.....

Hilo jibu ni standard. Binafsi siliamini lakini hapo uamuzi ni wako. Unaweza ukaamini kuwa kweli hajatiana na huyo jamaa (huenda wakawa wapo kadhaa na si mmoja tu) au unaweza usiamini.

To me that's a deal breaker right there. I don't need to catch her red handed. I don't need to be with someone who gives that queasy feeling all the time. That in and of itself is torture. So based on that I'd move on happily.

But, we are all different.

TIMING · Sep 5, 2011

kipusy said:
Jamani naitaji msaada mkubwa sana, wa mawazo na saikolojia. Mimi nina mke nimezaa nae. Tangu tufunge ndoa ni miaka 4 sasa.
yeye yuko Mkoani mimi niko chuoni Dar es Salaam kimasomo elimu ya juu. Wiki za nyuma kabla ya sikukuu ya Idd mawasiliano na mke wangu yaliyumba sana, yalitawaliwa na kiburi sana.

Nimeenda kwenye sikukuu ya Idd ndio nikagundua usaliti. Mke wangu alikua bize sana na simu, pia alikua anaificha sana tofauti na mwanzo, haitoki mkononi kila mara anaandika msg. Nikaiwinda nikashindwa.

Siku moja alitoka kazini akanisalimia akakaa kidogo sitting rum kisha akaenda chumbani mida ya saa 1 usiku. akazima taa kajifunika blanket. Mi nikaingia chumbani nikawasha taa. Nikamuuliza mbona umelala saa hizi, sio kawaida? akajibu' nilipokua natoka job nimejigonga mguu unauma...., nikamjibu poa. Nikamwambia ' naomba simu yako" akakataa katakata na sikujua iko wapi. akasema wewe ya nini si unayo yako? nikamwambia ninashida nayo, akasema nenda ntakuletea zima na taa...

nikatoka chumbani sikuzima taa, nikarudi nikakuta kazima tena na kajifunika kama mwanzo. Nikatumia nguvu nikampekua nikamnyang'anya simu. Baada ya kumnyang'anya nikawa nayo mimi, baada ya muda kidogo ikaingia msg inasema "Thanks hny"

Nikaandika msg kumuuliza ' nitakuona kesho dia?' akajibu hivi " tutapanga mpz". Nikawasha moto nyumbani hapo, amekili kua ni mpenzi wake ila hawaja sex..... Naombeni ushauri maana sijaamua kitu mpaka sasa, ingawa nimeshatembeza kichapo sana... kuendelea kuishi nae naona sitakua na amani maana hapa nilipo niko dar yeye yuko mkoani.... sina imani nae tena.....

Hizi za kuona thread nyingine na kuanzisha something similar zinakera sana siku hizi

Gaijin · Sep 5, 2011

MTM said:
Hizi za kuona thread nyingine na kuanzisha something similar zinakera sana siku hizi

MTM

Mbona ni rahisi sana kwako kukereka? Are you okay?

TIMING · Sep 5, 2011

AshaDii said:
aaisee Kipusi una hasira za maamuzi ya haraka saaana.... Yaani na kichapo tayari!! Dah! Enways...

Miaka mne ni mingi saana kukaa mbali na mwenza, ni hatari kwa afya ya ndoa. Kikubwa ilitakiwa usimtreat kama mtoto mdogo - Maamuzi ya kufanya inategemea saana wewe maamuzi yako kama bado unapenda awe katika maisha yako ama lah! Ukijua nini unataka inatakiwa nae pia ukae nae na kumuuliza na kumwambia kua Ok - Unaelewa kua ana mtu, sasa nini msimamo wake...

Siku nyingine hata kama una wasi wasi na mtu, akikuambia naumwa.... Toa walau hata pole jamani.. yaani unajibu 'pouwa' kweli... Alafu bana mkeo kisha lala na jamaa ni aibu tu anaona ku admit kwako; hivo chagua kusuka ama kunyoa...

kasoma ile sredi ya lasting relationship versus mobile phones mamii

open your eyes

TIMING · Sep 5, 2011

Gaijin said:
MTM

Mbona ni rahisi sana kwako kukereka? Are you okay?

very ok dear... jukwaa linayumba mazee

kipusy · Sep 5, 2011

MTM said:
Hizi za kuona thread nyingine na kuanzisha something similar zinakera sana siku hizi

sijakuelewa MTM

Edson · Sep 5, 2011

dah..mkuu pole sana..sio kwamba hawajasex ni kwamba wamesex.kama mkeo ni mkeli na hataki kukusaliti aangekwambia/angekuwa huru kwako...lakini kama ndo hiyo tabia yake basi jua hapo huna mke.....hata huo mguu una uhakika alijikwaa?? au alikuwa anaposa mashine baada ya kucharazwa sawa sawa.....huyo ni mwongo .....

kingine mkuu wala usijali...ndoa huwa haivunjwi na watu ila huwa inavunjwa na wanandoa wenyewe.wee ni mtu mzima kaa na utafakari .....kisha uchukue hatua.....

kipusy · Sep 5, 2011

MTM said:
kasoma ile sredi ya lasting relationship versus mobile phones mamii

open your eyes

Ndugu sikujui hunijui, usiniharibie..... haya maisha tunayoishi ni marudio ya watu waliotutangulia.... Hii imenitokea last week...

AshaDii · Sep 5, 2011

MTM said:
kasoma ile sredi ya lasting relationship versus mobile phones mamii

open your eyes

View yangu kuhusu maswala ya simu (which is part of one's Privacy) ipo hapo post # 5 LINK, ilishawahi ulizwa... Hata hivo ngoja nikacheck...

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