moja ya udhaifu mkubwa wa mwanamke!

moja ya udhaifu mkubwa wa mwanamke!

kingxvi:
Can you pls advise why?

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I totally disagree with you because:
  • In this day and age Marriage is not everything nor is it for everyone.
  • Besides If a lady has it together, ataweza "kuoa" yeye instead !Na jinsi kaka zetu wa siku hizi mlivyo kama.............................
 
Wanaume c ndio washenzi,2nawazalisha afu hatuwaoi,unawaondolea ndoto yako,wanawake wanapenda sana kuolewa.
 
sikubaliani! na asipoolewa je na yeye anataka kuzaa, asizae kwa hofu ya kuonekana mdhaifu? actually mimi nadhani hiyo ni strength waliyonayo wanawake against us. sisi hata iweje, huwezi kupata mtoto bila kupita kwa mwanamke fulani na ambaye inabidi akubali kuzaa nawe. but kwa wenzetu wanaweza pata mtoto bila ya hata sisi kujua. na with the coming of the sperm banks, wanaenda tu hospitali na kupata mtoto.

ndoa na mtoto ni vitu viwili tofauti na sio lazima viambatane mara zote
 
kulalwa bila condom huwa wanakuwa na udhaifu wa kumwamini kila mwanaume anapokuwa amemlalia juu ya kifua
 
Inategemea huyo alozaa kama alipanga au bahati mbaya. Kuna makabila nayajua mwanaume aruhusiwi kuoa mwanamke mwenye mtoto. Kuna mengine pia nayajua mwanaume akioa mwenye mtoto basi mtoto anakuwa wake. Kwa hiyo inategemea unaongea from which point of view.

Ila kama mtoto hakuwa kwenye plan I agree kuwa kuna uwezekano mwanaume utakayekuwa naye next akakutreat the same. Kuna ile hali ya kusema kama wenzangu walimzalisha hawakumwoa why me? It is all about African culture. Ila hata wadhungu wapo wasopenda watoto wasio wao. Yaani aliyekupitia amehacha stamp.
 
Naomba ku defer. Wanawake asilimia kubwa Tz bado wanapenda sana kuolewa. Na ambao hawajaolewa wengi ukiwauliza watakwambia hawajabahatika kupata Mr right!

Nemo said:
kingxvi:
Can you pls advise why?

NOTE:





I totally disagree with you because:
  • In this day and age Marriage is not everything nor is it for everyone.
  • Besides If a lady has it together, ataweza "kuoa" yeye instead !Na jinsi kaka zetu wa siku hizi mlivyo kama.............................
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kingxvi said:
ni kuzalishwa huku hajaolewa!
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(kuzalishwa au kuzaa), anyway hilo sio tatizo, tatizo nipale mwanamke anapomtega mwanaume akidhani kuzaa ndio loop ya kuolewa, ukimkosa huyo bwana, you need an extra quality to get married. lakini kama mko open na serious, that is what we need nowadays. Tunasema mbuzi hauzwi kwenye gunia mkuu
 
nyumba kubwa said:
Naomba ku defer. Wanawake asilimia kubwa Tz bado wanapenda sana kuolewa. Na ambao hawajaolewa wengi ukiwauliza watakwambia hawajabahatika kupata Mr right!
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Kupenda kuolewa does not make ones lack of marriage a weakness. Further more, I personally think If not for our culture and society "Ndoa ni Heshima", then Im sure they could've just been fine!!!!!!!!!!

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Hata mimi napenda kuolewa but that does not mean
  • I think anyless of single mothers. Come to think of it I actually do admire some of them!
  • I'll just settle for any tom, dick or harry so I can walk down the muchly awaited/longed for aisle
  • I value life/self anyless than any of my married friends
 
Nemo said:
Kupenda kuolewa does not make ones lack of marriage a weakness. Further more, I personally think If not for our culture and society "Ndoa ni Heshima", then Im sure they could've just been fine!!!!!!!!!!

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Hata mimi napenda kuolewa but that does not mean
  • I think anyless of single mothers. Come to think of it I actually do admire some of them!
  • I'll just settle for any tom, dick or harry so I can walk down the muchly awaited/longed for aisle
  • I value life/self anyless than any of my married friends
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That's my girl....Superb.....You have spoken my mind!!:A S-rose:
 
Nemo said:
Kupenda kuolewa does not make ones lack of marriage a weakness. Further more, I personally think If not for our culture and society "Ndoa ni Heshima", then Im sure they could've just been fine!!!!!!!!!!

NOTE:


Hata mimi napenda kuolewa but that does not mean
  • I think anyless of single mothers. Come to think of it I actually do admire some of them!
  • I'll just settle for any tom, dick or harry so I can walk down the muchly awaited/longed for aisle
  • I value life/self anyless than any of my married friends
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You are right! I believe this is from you, strong woman. This is what we need from women.
 
Elia said:
(kuzalishwa au kuzaa), anyway hilo sio tatizo, tatizo nipale mwanamke anapomtega mwanaume akidhani kuzaa ndio loop ya kuolewa, ukimkosa huyo bwana, you need an extra quality to get married. lakini kama mko open na serious, that is what we need nowadays. Tunasema mbuzi hauzwi kwenye gunia mkuu
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Hii mitego bado ipo sana.Ukisema nitalea mwanangu,lakini sitaki kuoa,familia yote itakuchukia!Miye nikiona demu 'macho juu',anataka kufosi kingi,kila nikimaliza kupiga bao,namuonyeshea ndomu.Unaona ndomu;ehhh,Unaona uji ulivyojaa ndani:eehhh,kwahiyo haikutoboka siyo:eehhh.Ok poa
Nilijifunza kwa demu mmoja-nilikuwa nagonga kwa ndomu muda wote.Heh siku akanijia eti i have missed my period.Bibiye kulikoni mbona tunatumia kinga?Ndiyo hivyo tena,but you will be a good dad..
Shiit nilitamani nimmeze mzima mzima!
 
Unaposema kudhalishwa unaongelea wale ambao hawakuwa wamepanga kuzaa, wapo wanawake wanaozaa kwa kupenda na wenye uwezo wa kulea na kutunza na hawana mpango wa kuolewa wala kushirikiana malezi na mwanaume.....!!

Sioni tabu wala kuwa ni udhaifu kuzaa kabla ya ndoa as long as nina uwezo na nguvu ya kulea mwanangu!
 
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