Mpaka June usiporudi Naoa mwanamke mwingine!

Jamani nimeona nishee nanyi mawasiliano yangu ya skype na rafiki yangu from Lusaka!
Kifupi, mwanaume alimnyanyasa sana huyo dada hadi akaondoka na kupanga sehemu nyingine, sasa anafanya masters huku akitunza watoto. Ililazimu kumshtaki mumewe ndipo alipoanza kuprovide kwa matunzo ya watoto; sijamuuliza kama anaendelea. Iwill na nitaupdate!

Michango yenu tafadhali.

[3/28/2012 9:45:57 AM] Me: hi; love ur new photo!
[3/28/2012 9:46:13 AM] Me: how r u doing by the way?
[3/28/2012 10:32:00 AM] B musonda: hey, im doing great love. is it a nice one, thout to change it thou its fake, not my colour.
[3/28/2012 11:15:05 AM] Me: i was not looking at the color; but the features.
[3/28/2012 11:15:31 AM] Me: l am in the workshop, l will get back to you later!
[3/28/2012 11:22:48 AM] B musonda: ok,love, but listen, i received a threat from hubby, saying, if i dont go home by June, he is marrying another woman.
[1:22:48 PM] Me: waoh, that is an interesting one!
[1:22:55 PM] Me: what do u think?
[1:25:02 PM] B musonda: hey, i told mum, she ddint have any empathy, she just told me to concentrate on my studies and let him marry. but for me, i started feeling pity for him, i ve to learn to live with that and listen to what most people are song, they have all told me to forget and move on. tell you, not easy.
[1:25:46 PM] Me: R u sure its pity u r feeling and not loneliness?
[1:30:44 PM] Me: you think he is lonely?
[1:31:15 PM] Me: can somebody marry by June if he hasn’t have someone already?
[1:31:32 PM] B musonda: Gee, i dont know
[1:31:57 PM] Me: do u think he will leave whoever he is seeing right now just because he get back with you
[1:33:56 PM] Me: I understand u; u have to be just strong; coz he is not going to change; that is the fact. So if you are going back to him just know that you are going back to the very same guy u left. N that you will have to live with that.
[1:36:13 PM] B musonda: yes, the issue is living with the issue. i ve honey, never gone thru it, so i ve to just start learning.i ii just keep calm for now, i dont think i can manage this.
[1:39:44 PM] B musonda: i mean manage to fight here and there, no, i ii just keep calm, i gues with time, it will heal. i ve stayed with kids now seven months alone, so i ve to soldier on whats coming
[3/28/2012 9:45:57 AM] Me: hi; love ur new photo!
[3/28/2012 9:46:13 AM] Me: how r u doing by the way?
[3/28/2012 10:32:00 AM] B musonda: hey, im doing great love. is it a nice one, thout to change it thou its fake, not my colour.
[3/28/2012 11:15:05 AM] Me: i was not looking at the color; but the features.
[3/28/2012 11:15:31 AM] Me: l am in the workshop, l will get back to you later!
[3/28/2012 11:22:48 AM] B musonda: ok,love, but listen, i received a threat from hubby, saying, if i dont go home by June, he is marrying another woman.
[1:22:48 PM] Me: waoh, that is an interesting one!
[1:22:55 PM] Me: what do u think?
[1:25:02 PM] B musonda: hey, i told mum, she ddint have any empathy, she just told me to concentrate on my studies and let him marry. but for me, i started feeling pity for him, i ve to learn to live with that and listen to what most people are song, they have all told me to forget and move on. tell you, not easy.
[1:25:46 PM] Me: R u sure its pity u r feeling and not loneliness?
[1:30:44 PM] Me: you think he is lonely?
[1:31:15 PM] Me: can somebody marry by June if he hasn’t have someone already?
[1:31:32 PM] B musonda: Gee, i dont know
[1:31:57 PM] Me: do u think he will leave whoever he is seeing right now just because he get back with you
[1:33:56 PM] Me: I understand u; u have to be just strong; coz he is not going to change; that is the fact. So if you are going back to him just know that you are going back to the very same guy u left. N that you will have to live with that.
[1:36:13 PM] B musonda: yes, the issue is living with the issue. i ve honey, never gone thru it, so i ve to just start learning.i ii just keep calm for now, i dont think i can manage this.
[1:39:44 PM] B musonda: i mean manage to fight here and there, no, i ii just keep calm, i gues with time, it will heal. i ve stayed with kids now seven months alone, so i ve to soldier on whats coming

Kaunga said:

Jamani nimeona nishee nanyi mawasiliano yangu ya skype na rafiki yangu from Lusaka!
Kifupi, mwanaume alimnyanyasa sana huyo dada hadi akaondoka na kupanga sehemu nyingine, sasa anafanya masters huku akitunza watoto. Ililazimu kumshtaki mumewe ndipo alipoanza kuprovide kwa matunzo ya watoto; sijamuuliza kama anaendelea. Iwill na nitaupdate!

Michango yenu tafadhali.

[3/28/2012 9:45:57 AM] Me: hi; love ur new photo!
[3/28/2012 9:46:13 AM] Me: how r u doing by the way?
[3/28/2012 10:32:00 AM] B musonda: hey, im doing great love. is it a nice one, thout to change it thou its fake, not my colour.
[3/28/2012 11:15:05 AM] Me: i was not looking at the color; but the features.
[3/28/2012 11:15:31 AM] Me: l am in the workshop, l will get back to you later!
[3/28/2012 11:22:48 AM] B musonda: ok,love, but listen, i received a threat from hubby, saying, if i dont go home by June, he is marrying another woman.
[1:22:48 PM] Me: waoh, that is an interesting one!
[1:22:55 PM] Me: what do u think?
[1:25:02 PM] B musonda: hey, i told mum, she ddint have any empathy, she just told me to concentrate on my studies and let him marry. but for me, i started feeling pity for him, i ve to learn to live with that and listen to what most people are song, they have all told me to forget and move on. tell you, not easy.
[1:25:46 PM] Me: R u sure its pity u r feeling and not loneliness?
[1:30:44 PM] Me: you think he is lonely?
[1:31:15 PM] Me: can somebody marry by June if he hasn't have someone already?
[1:31:32 PM] B musonda: Gee, i dont know
[1:31:57 PM] Me: do u think he will leave whoever he is seeing right now just because he get back with you
[1:33:56 PM] Me: I understand u; u have to be just strong; coz he is not going to change; that is the fact. So if you are going back to him just know that you are going back to the very same guy u left. N that you will have to live with that.
[1:36:13 PM] B musonda: yes, the issue is living with the issue. i ve honey, never gone thru it, so i ve to just start learning.i ii just keep calm for now, i dont think i can manage this.
[1:39:44 PM] B musonda: i mean manage to fight here and there, no, i ii just keep calm, i gues with time, it will heal. i ve stayed with kids now seven months alone, so i ve to soldier on whats coming
[3/28/2012 9:45:57 AM] Me: hi; love ur new photo!
[3/28/2012 9:46:13 AM] Me: how r u doing by the way?
[3/28/2012 10:32:00 AM] B musonda: hey, im doing great love. is it a nice one, thout to change it thou its fake, not my colour.
[3/28/2012 11:15:05 AM] Me: i was not looking at the color; but the features.
[3/28/2012 11:15:31 AM] Me: l am in the workshop, l will get back to you later!
[3/28/2012 11:22:48 AM] B musonda: ok,love, but listen, i received a threat from hubby, saying, if i dont go home by June, he is marrying another woman.
[1:22:48 PM] Me: waoh, that is an interesting one!
[1:22:55 PM] Me: what do u think?
[1:25:02 PM] B musonda: hey, i told mum, she ddint have any empathy, she just told me to concentrate on my studies and let him marry. but for me, i started feeling pity for him, i ve to learn to live with that and listen to what most people are song, they have all told me to forget and move on. tell you, not easy.
[1:25:46 PM] Me: R u sure its pity u r feeling and not loneliness?
[1:30:44 PM] Me: you think he is lonely?
[1:31:15 PM] Me: can somebody marry by June if he hasn't have someone already?
[1:31:32 PM] B musonda: Gee, i dont know
[1:31:57 PM] Me: do u think he will leave whoever he is seeing right now just because he get back with you
[1:33:56 PM] Me: I understand u; u have to be just strong; coz he is not going to change; that is the fact. So if you are going back to him just know that you are going back to the very same guy u left. N that you will have to live with that.
[1:36:13 PM] B musonda: yes, the issue is living with the issue. i ve honey, never gone thru it, so i ve to just start learning.i ii just keep calm for now, i dont think i can manage this.
[1:39:44 PM] B musonda: i mean manage to fight here and there, no, i ii just keep calm, i gues with time, it will heal. i ve stayed with kids now seven months alone, so i ve to soldier on whats coming

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Married is a matter of mind,if you don't mind it doesn't matter.

Mkichelewa mimi nampa ushauri ninaoujua mimi!

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[1:50:32 PM] Me: what issue exactly?
[1:53:17 PM] b musonda: kids, me asking why, him writng me terrible.
[1:54:06 PM] Me: Lucky dear l think you havent gone over him yet!
[1:54:41 PM] b musonda: sounds so, my cousin almost opened my brain to tell me, its over move on alone.
[1:55:11 PM] Me: Kids shouldnt be a problem and him writing you that letter is not an issue at all if you were over him
[1:56:06 PM] b musonda: gee talk, i want to listen, i might learn from someone's experrinence
[1:56:19 PM] Me: ur cousin is right; you have to get over him. If l were you, l would give him all my blessing and ask for divorce so that you could also be free to marry when you fell in love
by the way, does he still provide for the boys?
[2:00:26 PM] b musonda: little, just for food in one week
[2:01:09 PM] Me : and the school fees; l remember he was supposed to pay a certain amount monthly
[2:02:57 PM] b musonda: he just paid it once, the next to was half, for sku boy, i ve been paying since 2010.
[2:03:14 PM] b musonda: i feel pain for the time i wasted on him and i ve to go caring for the kids alone and him just giving excuses.
[2:03:53 PM] Me: Rnt u seing someone?
[2:04:18 PM] b musonda: me, no one, u cant jump so quickly.
[2:04:48 PM] Me: so how do u have to jump?
[2:05:37 PM] Me: by seeing not necessarily going all the way. You can start even with online flirting; it helps a lot forgetting someone
[2:06:29 PM] b musonda: ok, gud advise, may be TZ men, can be ok. u remember my dumb personality, i need to learn now, dear, i just lock myself in the house and play with kids.
[2:07:23 PM] Me: and start thinking about hubby and all those juicy moments eeh!
[2:07:51 PM] Me: you have to go out hny; connect with people!

kiagata said:

Married is a matter of mind,if you don't mind it doesn't matter.

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Is it?

Nahisi hiyo Master bado haijamsaidia kimaamuzi sahihi, mwambie aendelee na PhD labda itamkomboa kwenye kutafakari

MadameX said:

Nahisi hiyo Master bado haijamsaidia kimaamuzi sahihi, mwambie aendelee na PhD labda itamkomboa kwenye kutafakari

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Nitajaribu kucopy comments zote halafu nitamtafsiria na kumtumia jioni au kesho. She is kind of naive; but very sweet!

Raha za Huyo jamaa Amazonia yy,kwahiyo mamuzi yote afanye mwenyewe ....

Kaunga said:

Nitajaribu kucopy comments zote halafu nitamtafsiria na kumtumia jioni au kesho. She is kind of naive; but very sweet!

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Kaunga, NIFASIRIE basi, mie hiyo lugha MUINGEREZA nikiiona nasikia kizunguzungu................
Nasubiri PM yako.................LOL

Mtambuzi said:

Kaunga, NIFASIRIE basi, mie hiyo lugha MUINGEREZA nikiiona nasikia kizunguzungu................
Nasubiri PM yako.................LOL

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Si useme tu unataka PM yenye contact za shosti wangu! LOL

ahhhh ukiona ultimatum ujeu kuna plan tayari
probably jamaa anachokitaka ni huyo mwanamke akatae kurudi ili aoe bila 'lawama'
ionekane alimpa nafasi ya kurudi akakataa.....

sasa huyo mwanamke alivyo mjinga atarudi na 'kupata mateso zaidi'
why kwa sababu jamaa atakuwa upset plan haijaenda alivyotaka ...lol

Tatizo lako ni kwamba hujatupa picha halisi kwa pande zote mbili umetuonyesha kwamba huyo dada kanyanyaswa sana lakini tunapaswa kujua chanzo cha manyanyaso ni nini hasa, huenda huyo dada ndio mkorofi haishi kama inavyopaswa mume na mke kuishi, labda hatoi unyumba inavyotakiwa, labda anataka yeye ndio awe kichwa cha nyumba wakati mwanaume hataki kuwa miguu ya nyumba kuna mambo mengi kwenye ndoa sio mchezo mchezo tu, tunapoingia kwenye ndoa na makabila tofauti yenye mila zao za ajabu ajabu hayo ndio matokeo yake, unakuta mtu anataka afanyiwe kama mila zao zinavyotaka wakati wewe kwako ni kitu cha ajabu. Unakuta mtu anataka yeye afanyiwe kuliko mtoto mdogo.

The Boss said:

ahhhh ukiona ultimatum ujeu kuna plan tayari
probably jamaa anachokitaka ni huyo mwanamke akatae kurudi ili aoe bila 'lawama'
ionekane alimpa nafasi ya kurudi akakataa.....
sasa huyo mwanamke alivyo mjinga atarudi na 'kupata mateso zaidi'why kwa sababu jamaa atakuwa upset plan haijaenda alivyotaka ...lol

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Ungeandika kingereza ningekupenda mpaka basi, maana ningecopy na kupaste tu bila chenga!

Nitajaribu lkn kumtumia!

Ndetirima ndugu yangu; sina jinsi ya kujua upande wa pili!
I know my friend she is very nice n sweet lady, ya kitandani siwezi jua.

Namjua mumewe kutokana na mkewe!

life is too short, mwambe azingatie masomo na ajenge maisha yake ya baadae, alee wanae, huyo mwanaumw kama ameamua kuoa aoe tu, ina maana kuna mtu anaye anatafuta kuhalalisha tu.........

Mwanaume matunzo ya wanao hutoa hadi upelekwe mahakamani? Na huyo mdada atoke ajichanganye na watu asonge mbele

Thanks Badili Tabia!
Kupenda kubaya, si ajabu ndio mwanamume wake wa kwanza (ngoja nitamuuliza).
Yaani huyo baba ni mtu asiyechakarika, anapenda kazi za tai tu; kuna kipindi alienda SA, mdada wa watu akaangaika na bills na matunzo ya watoto. After a year he came back lkn ni mbaguzi wa kazi ile mbaya!

Mwanaume suruali!

Duh angekuwa mlevi ningesema labda ameshakuwa addicted,huyo sema tu kapata mwanamke wa kumpa kila kitu ndo maana.Si umesema anapenda kazi za tai,basi itakuwa labda mamaa mchakarikaji yuko mbali na mambo yashakuwa magumu na at the sametime kapata mwanamke mwenye mawe ya kutosha thus why anatafuta kisingizio ajitupie huko tu.

Huyo mdada aamuke ajifunze kuishi bila kumtegemea mumewe na asidhubutu kumrudia huyo bwana make akirudi mateso yatakuwa mara mbili zaid ya mwanzo na mwanaume atamuona kama hana msimamo na atakuwa anamchukulia kama hawezi kupata mwanaume mwingine ndo maana kamrudia.Na mwanaume kuja kumwambia kuwa asiporudi mwezi june anaoa ina maana tayari ana mtu kashamuandaa wakumuoa cha msing huyo dada aomb talaka, atafute kazi na atulie awalee wanae

Need background facts.

Mpaka anaomba ushauri that means anaconsider kurudi huko ambako "anadai" alinyanyanyaswa. Sasa mtu akishakua tayari kwenda sehemu ambayo "anadai" ali/hua ananyanyaswa sijui anataka nini tena.

Mwambie aende tu maana kuolewa ni 'bahati' asije akaikosa bureee.

nawasalimu katika upendwa tu.