Usianze. Do you want me to break down your name (Journal Pape) for you?
Being an engineer ( or a professional in any other field) does not necessarily mean you are dead to the world. I have many interests....including playing the clarinet (an instrument I am sure YOU have never heard of let alone seen!!). Start thinking outside the box!
Mtu unaulizwa kwa uzuri unaanza ku hate. Hilo vazi inategemea lilivaliwa katika mazingira/mandhari gani. Kama ni katika fashion show/ talent show tutasema ni zuri, kama ni katika shughuli nyingine maoni yatakuwa tofauti.
Stop being paranoid.