Mwanamke: Namna ya kujiondoa kutoka katika hisia za usaliti wa mapenzi…………….!

Mwanamke: Namna ya kujiondoa kutoka katika hisia za usaliti wa mapenzi…………….!

Mtambuzi said:

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

One-sided Conversations Sandra's conversations were generally one-sided. She would try to get him to talk first by asking him a string of questions. Then, before she could share what she wanted to talk about, she would become upset with his short answers. When she finally did share her feelings, they were always the same. She was upset that he was not open, loving, and sharing. A one-sided conversation might go like this:

SANDRA: How was your day?
LARRY: OK.
SANDRA: What happened?
LARRY* The usual.
SANDRA: What do you feel like doing this weekend?
LARRY. I don't care. What do you want to do?
SANDRA: Do you want to invite our friends over?
LARRY: I don't know. Do you know where the TV schedule is?
SANDRA: (upset) Why don't you talk to me?
LARRY: (Stunned and silent.)
SANDRA: Do you love me?
LARRY: Of course I love you. I married you.
SANDRA: How could you love me? We never talk any more. How can you just sit there and say nothing. Don't you care?

At this point, Larry would get up and go for a walk. When he came back he would act as though nothing had happened. Sandra would also act as though everything was fine, but inside she would withdraw her love and warmth. On the surface she would try to be loving, but on the inside her resentment increased. From time to time it would boil up and she would begin another one-sided interrogation of her husband's feelings. After twenty years of gathering evidence that he did not love her, she was no longer willing to be deprived of intimacy.
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Why does this sound familiar? Tatizo la wanaume huwa hamtaki kubadilika na mnaishia kusifia udhaifu wenu. Niliwahi kuambiwa 'im not gonna apologise for that coz I'm gonna do it again sooner than later'. The next time he did the mistake naambiwa sorry, nikajibu wala sijajali, I was expecting that. Akaishia kuchukia yeye. Nikisema happy by choice, namaanisha!
 
King'asti said:
Why does this sound familiar? Tatizo la wanaume huwa hamtaki kubadilika na mnaishia kusifia udhaifu wenu. Niliwahi kuambiwa 'im not gonna apologise for that coz I'm gonna do it again sooner than later'. The next time he did the mistake naambiwa sorry, nikajibu wala sijajali, I was expecting that. Akaishia kuchukia yeye. Nikisema happy by choice, namaanisha!
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Nilikuwa najaribu tu kuuonyesha mfano wa jinsi mimi baba yako nilivyo..............................LOL
Lakini nashukuru mama Ngina wangu keshanizoea na sasa maisha yanasonga mbele...........................Ha ha ha haaaaaa, naamini kama ningekuwa hivyo angekwisha kufa kwa presha
 
Wachumba jf?!....ngoja nisikoment ila tu Mtambuzi jua kwamba kama we hupendi wanawake serious kuna wenzako wanakufa na kuoza kwa ajili ya userious wa mwanamke.Si unaufahamu ule msemo simba mkali lakini......
 
jeneneke said:
Wachumba jf?!....ngoja nisikoment ila tu Mtambuzi jua kwamba kama we hupendi wanawake serious kuna wenzako wanakufa na kuoza kwa ajili ya userious wa mwanamke.Si unaufahamu ule msemo simba mkali lakini......
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Kuna mada nakuandalia kuhusu huo u-serious wako................................LOL
 
jeneneke said:
He yamekuwa hayo?kesho nakuja na ID mpya
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Halafu nimeipenda sana hiyo ID yako.................LOL
Tafadhali usiitelekeze..............................................
 
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