Naombeni ushauri jamani

Naombeni ushauri jamani

Forget about wa kwanza, mzushi hana akili hata moja, kwa huyo wa pili tunahitaji kujua mengi? alishawahi oa akaacha? alifiwa mke? ana watoto? kama alifiwa mke go for him, kama aliacha mke, mwangalie huyo ni kizunguruka moto achana nae subiri Mungu akupe wako.

Fanya consultation na roho yako, na ufanye vile unavyofikiria.

All the best
 
thx kwa ushauri mzuri jamaa aliachana na mkewe wana watoto wawili wakubwa age 19,15,walifunga ndoa ya gvment
Caroline Danzi said:
Forget about wa kwanza, mzushi hana akili hata moja, kwa huyo wa pili tunahitaji kujua mengi? alishawahi oa akaacha? alifiwa mke? ana watoto? kama alifiwa mke go for him, kama aliacha mke, mwangalie huyo ni kizunguruka moto achana nae subiri Mungu akupe wako.

Fanya consultation na roho yako, na ufanye vile unavyofikiria.

All the best
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Kwanza kabisa mwambie anatatizo ambalo wasichana wengi wanalo la kutaka kuolewa tu bila kutaka kufanya utafiti na kujiridhisha na muoaji anayestahili. Pili yupo kwenye kundi la wasichana ambao hawana ujuzi wa kutambua muoaji huwa anavigezo gani (Tatizo hilo linawakabili wasichana wengi). kimsingi ni kuwa wote hao wawili hakuna muoaji, na yeye tayari ameshagundulika kuwa anahitaji kuolewa, hilo ni kosa kubwa ambalo wanawake/wasichana wanalifanyanya na ni mtego rahisi wa kuwanasa. Nasikitika kwamba kuna mambo kadhaa ambavyo siwezi kuyataja hapa kwenye JF ambavyo yangemsaidia kujua tabia za wanaume. mwambie awe mwangalifu na wanaume. hata hivyo mwambie bado hajapata mtu wa kumuoa!!!!! hao wote mambo yao ni.... :spit:
 
bacha said:
sasa hapo unaolewa kwasababu unalazimishwa na mazingira yaliyopo au kwasababu ya mapenzi?????so funny!
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hakuna swala la mazingira hapo, mdada yupo tayari kuolewa, mkaka(45yrs) yupo tayari kuoa, huyo anaem date hayupo serious, sasa kama kampata mwenye mapenzi, ana care, kampenda, karidhika nae kwanini asiolewe akae asubiri hao wa 30's ambae tayari anae lakini hana msimamo?...Pearl mwambie kabisa am face huyo asie na mcmamo amwambie straight kuwa amepata mtu mwenye future nae so anataka kusonga mbele na maisha, hakuna cha kuwaza atamwabmiaje wala nini... awe mkweli aendelee na mpango yake ya ndoa.
 
Anold said:
Kwanza kabisa mwambie anatatizo ambalo wasichana wengi wanalo la kutaka kuolewa tu bila kutaka kufanya utafiti na kujiridhisha. Pili yupo kwenye kundi la wasichana ambao hawana ujuzi wa kutambua muoaji huwa anavigezo gani (Tatizo hilo linawakabili wasichana wengi). kimsingi ni kuwa wate hao wawili hakuna muoaji, na yeye tayari ameshagundulika kuwa anahitaji kuolewa, hilo ni kosa kubwa ambalo wanawake/wasichana wanalifanyanya na ni mtego rahisi wa kuwanasa. Nasikitika kwamba kuna mambo kadhaa ambavyo siwezi kuyataja hapa kwenye JF ambavyo yanngemsaidia kujua tabia za wanaume. hata hivyo mwambie bado hajapata mtu wa kumuoa!!!!! hao wote mamabo yao ni.... :spit:
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mbona hayo mambo yangemsaidia bac, hebu yataje kumsaidie huyu mwenzetu....hapo kwenye kundi la wasichana ambao hawajui waowaje wana vigezo gani naomba unifaffanulie plz na unipe hivyo vigezo vya waoaji na nitamtambuaje kama yupo serious na vigezo vyake?
 
thx dia will do that,yooote mnayoandik na copy na kumtumia,thx kwa ushauri,yani yule mkaka wa 30 hata harusi za marafiki zetu wengine huwa haendi,za marafiki /ndugu zake hasemi kabisa mm pia simuelewi kwakweli
Nyamayao said:
hakuna swala la mazingira hapo, mdada yupo tayari kuolewa, mkaka(45yrs) yupo tayari kuoa, huyo anaem date hayupo serious, sasa kama kampata mwenye mapenzi, ana care, kampenda, karidhika nae kwanini asiolewe akae asubiri hao wa 30's ambae tayari anae lakini hana msimamo?...Pearl mwambie kabisa am face huyo asie na mcmamo amwambie straight kuwa amepata mtu mwenye future nae so anataka kusonga mbele na maisha, hakuna cha kuwaza atamwabmiaje wala nini... awe mkweli aendelee na mpango yake ya ndoa.
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Pearl said:
thx dia will do that,yooote mnayoandik na copy na kumtumia,thx kwa ushauri,yani yule mkaka wa 30 hata harusi za marafiki zetu wengine huwa haendi,za marafiki /ndugu zake hasemi kabisa mm pia simuelewi kwakweli
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huyo ana wake mwenye malengo nae, hapo kwa rafiki yenu anapotezea muda tu.
 
Mwambie huyo rafiki yako achape 'lapa' kwa huyo jamaa wa kwanza. Ni mzushi. Kama huyo jamaa wa pili yuko tayari na kama mnapendana basi....kila la heri. Hata kama hampendi huyo jamaa waoane kwanza 'watapendana tu wakishaoana'....
 
A girls always deep down in prayers pleading to the Almighty God for the Super Loving Husband.... Mimi naona hapa tatizo ni mwanamke kumpenda mwanamme ambaye hakupendi. Ni rahisi kugundua! If a man can't even call you once in a day let alone meeting you in month (nafikiri binti atatafutwa wakati jamaa atataka kumaliza shida zake za ulijali) jua kwamba hauko moyoni mwake, tafuta hamsini nyingine.

Sasa katokea njemba nyingine ni 45 yrs old.. what in the name of God was this man waiting for in order to get married? Miss / Mrs Right? Au alikuwa shule ndo kamalizia Phd yake. a lot has to be scrutinised au ndo kafiwa na wanawake labda wengi ambao hakuwahi kuzaa nao? There must be a very good convincing reason as to his delay to get married.

Ila ukichunguza saana kuku hutomla. Don't let this new man get what it takes to be the 'nuclei of marriage happiness' (msibanjuane) before marriage. Jitangazeni koote na uone if this new mchumba doesn't 'chicken out' of the uchumba. OTHERWISE age doesn't count in marriage.

I got married at 48 to the girl of 30. We have three children now and we are happy.
 
mmh thats gud jamaa si kama alikuwa anasoma yy ni gold digger ndo kazi yake anamigodi yake kibao,alikuwa na mke na wana watoto 2 but wameachana walioana gvment si unajua wenzetu ndoa zao za mikataba?thats it.
Wambandwa said:
A girls always deep down in prayers pleading to the Almighty God for the Super Loving Husband.... Mimi naona hapa tatizo ni mwanamke kumpenda mwanamme ambaye hakupendi. Ni rahisi kugundua! If a man can't even call you once in a day let alone meeting you in month (nafikiri binti atatafutwa wakati jamaa atataka kumaliza shida zake za ulijali) jua kwamba hauko moyoni mwake, tafuta hamsini nyingine.

Sasa katokea njemba nyingine ni 45 yrs old.. what in the name of God was this man waiting for in order to get married? Miss / Mrs Right? Au alikuwa shule ndo kamalizia Phd yake. a lot has to be scrutinised au ndo kafiwa na wanawake labda wengi ambao hakuwahi kuzaa nao? There must be a very good convincing reason as to his delay to get married.

Ila ukichunguza saana kuku hutomla. Don't let this new man get what it takes to be the 'nuclei of marriage happiness' (msibanjuane) before marriage. Jitangazeni koote na uone if this new mchumba doesn't 'chicken out' of the uchumba. OTHERWISE age doesn't count in marriage.

I got married at 48 to the girl of 30. We have three children now and we are happy.
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Wambandwa said:
A girls always deep down in prayers pleading to the Almighty God for the Super Loving Husband.... Mimi naona hapa tatizo ni mwanamke kumpenda mwanamme ambaye hakupendi. Ni rahisi kugundua! If a man can't even call you once in a day let alone meeting you in month (nafikiri binti atatafutwa wakati jamaa atataka kumaliza shida zake za ulijali) jua kwamba hauko moyoni mwake, tafuta hamsini nyingine.

 Sasa katokea njemba nyingine ni 45 yrs old.. what in the name of God was this man waiting for in order to get married? Miss / Mrs Right? Au alikuwa shule ndo kamalizia Phd yake. a lot has to be scrutinised au ndo kafiwa na wanawake labda wengi ambao hakuwahi kuzaa nao? There must be a very good convincing reason as to his delay to get married.

Ila ukichunguza saana kuku hutomla. Don't let this new man get what it takes to be the 'nuclei of marriage happiness' (msibanjuane) before marriage. Jitangazeni koote na uone if this new mchumba doesn't 'chicken out' of the uchumba. OTHERWISE age doesn't count in marriage.

 I got married at 48 to the girl of 30. We have three children now and we are happy.
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msome vizuri Pearl hayo yote kayaelezea....sasa hapo mbona unataka kama kumshangaa mwenzio wakati wewe ulioa na age kubwa zaidi yake?
 
Nyamayao said:
msome vizuri Pearl hayo yote kayaelezea....sasa hapo ona unataka kama kumshangaa mwenzio wakati wewe ulioa na age kubwa zaidi yake?[/QUOTE]

Nyamayao; at 50 I was still an un engaged bachelor and my wife was was still a spinster at 30. I waited for so long to start a family because I had a young ones to support kwa mengi by then (although this is another story altogther).

Mchumba mpya ana familia tayari, ndoa alifunga governemnt.... apprehension has to be carefully in making a take or no take decision.
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Inaonyesha na huyo dada nae hayupo serious.
 
NOOOOOOO. NO.

Kabla ya kuwa convinced hebu kwanza jibu haya;
Huyo 45 aliachana na mkewe lini? Wana watoto? Alishinndwaje kumshawishi mkewe akaishi naye migodini? Huyo mkewe yuko hapa Tz? Waliishi mda gani kabla ya kuachana? Kama sio mtanzania ana mpango gani baada ya biashara zake kwisha? Ana biashara sehemu nyingine? Atamhakikishiaje kama huko kwao hana mke?
 
Pearl said:
thx kwa ushauri mzuri jamaa aliachana na mkewe wana watoto wawili wakubwa age 19,15,walifunga ndoa ya gvment
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Waliachana lini? Anathibitishaje kuwa kweli waliachana?
 
its klike mwaka na miezi kadhaa since waachane,wanawatoto 2,alimshawishi sana (according to mwanaume)hapa hana mke wala hajui chochote yani huyu rafiki yangu ndo anamzungusha kila sehem etckwao hana mke pia huwa anaongea na watoto wake na kawaambia amepata gfiend anataka kumwoa(si unajua mila za wenzetu)?
Tuko said:
NOOOOOOO. NO.

Kabla ya kuwa convinced hebu kwanza jibu haya;
Huyo 45 aliachana na mkewe lini? Wana watoto? Alishinndwaje kumshawishi mkewe akaishi naye migodini? Huyo mkewe yuko hapa Tz? Waliishi mda gani kabla ya kuachana? Kama sio mtanzania ana mpango gani baada ya biashara zake kwisha? Ana biashara sehemu nyingine? Atamhakikishiaje kama huko kwao hana mke?
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Pearl said:
nimemuuliza yoooote hayo,huyu wa pili anamgodi wake so anataka akaishi nae huko kwenye migodi na yy anasema hana neno maisha popote.wa kwanza hajaoa but mm nahisi ana madem
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Usituzuge bana,huyo bint atakuwa wewe tu,usione Noma.
Kabla hujamkubalia huyo wa pili fanya hesabu hii ndogo.
45-27=18.
huyo wa pili atazeeka haraka sana na kukuacha bado bint mbichi,hivyo basi ashakumu si matusi,dada ujiandae kukaa EDA NA KUOLEWA KWA MARA YA PILI
 
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