Masikini hii ni sawa na wale wanaume wanaorubuni bila kusema kama wameoa au la! Pole sana Mentor ingawa limemkuta kaka yako naamini nawe pia limeitikisa imani yako juu ya mapenzi na ndoa pia. Maana kama mke wa ndoa anawezakudanganya hajaolewa wewe utapata wapi moyo kuwa mkeo wewe hatofanya hivyo?Jamani hv wanajamii hakuna researches zinazoweza kufanyika kwenye taasis hii angalau kuangalia trends za cheating, historical development, perceptions e.t.c pengine tunawezadevelop some indicators au causes za mvurugano huu!
Well kua na mtu miaka mitatu yote usijue ni mke wa mtu naweza kuuita haraka maana inaonekana hata familia na marafiki zake hawakua karibu.Kuna watu within a week wanakua wanafahamiana kama vile walikua pamoja wengine ndo kama hao miaka alafu unakuja kugundua you didnt know them at all.So tatizo sio urefu au ufupi wa muda bali ni kile kinachofanyika ndani ya muda wako....sipendi kusema hivi ila kaka yako ni mvivu...akishadanganywa anapendwa basi anatulia akidhani kazi ndio imeisha!!Mtu unaefikiria kua nae ndoani inabidi utumie muda zaidi kumchunguza bila yeye kujua....ni bora kujua mabaya ya mtu uamue kuyakubali kuliko kumkubali usijue ana mizigo gani ya yaliyopitaDuh..well said! sitaki kumtetea sana ila he knew the lady for like 3 years...mpaka sisi wadogo zake tukamfahamu huyo dada, sijui kama alifanya haraka!?? si tulikujashtukia tu binti ana mume. Well, langu somo nimelipata from your discussion....kuufungua moyo tena ndilo jambo ambalo nimemuusia, ila mi mdogo i hope alinisikia.Yeye kabaki kuhudhuria vikao vya harusi tu..namwonea huruma but kama wadada wenyewe ndo hivyo!???Haya huyo wa kwanza alikurupuka, huyu aliyepata mimba while they were in a relationship? kweli kaka alifanya haraka?? ama ndo his fate kuumizwa na wadada?
Dont make other peoples failure and bad luck your own!!(Wow...nice quote...nimejikubali)Nwy hata siku moja usiache kufanya kitu kwasababu ya fulani hakuweza...fulani hakupata...fulani alihivi au vile.Ukiamua kwamba hutokaa uoe au utapenda kuao iwe on your own terms...personal reasons na sio kwa kuangalia za wengine zilivyofaulu au kufeli!Haswaa hilo ndilo lilinonisukuma mpaka kuandika shairi hili. Nilikuwa natafakari juu ya hadithi ya kaka...been worried with the rate of disappointing stories from friends around me. Sijui kama ntapenda kweli...inawezekana kumpenda mtu with all your heart tena? Maana kila utayekutana naye..mzuri wa nje..kumbe ndani!!!!Inauma...lakini....
Well kua na mtu miaka mitatu yote usijue ni mke wa mtu naweza kuuita haraka maana inaonekana hata familia na marafiki zake hawakua karibu.Kuna watu within a week wanakua wanafahamiana kama vile walikua pamoja wengine ndo kama hao miaka alafu unakuja kugundua you didn‘t know them at all.So tatizo sio urefu au ufupi wa muda bali ni kile kinachofanyika ndani ya muda wako....sipendi kusema hivi ila kaka yako ni mvivu...akishadanganywa anapendwa basi anatulia akidhani kazi ndio imeisha!!Mtu unaefikiria kua nae ndoani inabidi utumie muda zaidi kumchunguza bila yeye kujua....ni bora kujua mabaya ya mtu uamue kuyakubali kuliko kumkubali usijue ana mizigo gani ya "yaliyopita"
Don‘t make other people‘s failure and bad luck your own!!(Wow...nice quote...nimejikubali)Nwy hata siku moja usiache kufanya kitu kwasababu ya fulani hakuweza...fulani hakupata...fulani alihivi au vile.Ukiamua kwamba hutokaa uoe au utapenda kuao iwe on your own terms...personal reasons na sio kwa kuangalia za wengine zilivyofaulu au kufeli!
Nae alifanya haraka kumuamini...inawezekana yeye kaka yako ndo alokua mlowezi wa penzi in this case as well.Ajichunguze kwanini anakua attracted na wanawake wa aina moja (WASIO WAKWELI that is)Sawa then...alifanya haraka. vipi huyo aliyepata mimba wakiwa pamoja!??
Learning is good....ila kuchukua makosa yao na kuyafanya yako kutakunyima wewe kuexperience mambo first hand....na huwezi jua matokeo yangekuaje kwako.THANKS!But i thot we learn from others' mistakes/experiences?!?Nimeikubali ur quote..tutakuongeza kwenye list ya wahenga.
Of koz haimaanishi wema wazuri wakweli hawapo!wengi tuliapa miungu yote kutopenda tena na tukajiset kuishi single forever but look where we are! Twatembea twacheka ka wendawazimu barabarani! Kakio atasahau na atampata wa kweli.Haswaa hilo ndilo lilinonisukuma mpaka kuandika shairi hili. Nilikuwa natafakari juu ya hadithi ya kaka...been worried with the rate of disappointing stories from friends around me. Sijui kama ntapenda kweli...inawezekana kumpenda mtu with all your heart tena? Maana kila utayekutana naye..mzuri wa nje..kumbe ndani!!!!Inauma...lakini....
Of koz haimaanishi wema wazuri wakweli hawapo!wengi tuliapa miungu yote kutopenda tena na tukajiset kuishi single forever but look where we are! Twatembea twacheka ka wendawazimu barabarani! Kakio atasahau na atampata wa kweli.
We bana...Mchagga gani hutaki kuanzisha biashara kwasababu ya jirani ilikufa?!I meant kupenda na mambo kama hayo...usiogope/kataa/jinyima kupenda kwasababu mwingine alijitoa akatendwa!Uwii..sitaki kuyaexperience hayo!!!! ote lanyoe...
We bana...Mchagga gani hutaki kuanzisha biashara kwasababu ya jirani ilikufa?!I meant kupenda na mambo kama hayo...usiogope/kataa/jinyima kupenda kwasababu mwingine alijitoa akatendwa!
Sasa kama wewe ni mfanyapiashara msuri...mpiganaji wa ukweli hata mapensi unayapigania!Haha dada...piashara na mapenzi ni fitu fiwili tofauti kapisa!
Sasa kama wewe ni mfanyapiashara msuri...mpiganaji wa ukweli hata mapensi unayapigania!
Hata siku moja siwezi mumwambia mtu asipende tena maana ntakua mbinafsi....kama mimi napenda kwanini nae asipende?hayang bana...sisemi sana, ngoja kesho nije na kitu kipya! na ni real life stories...inasikitisha ila utaniambia...niendelee kupenda kweli dada?? heri kufanya biashara nikafeli...ila kuumizwa moyo ni kitu kingine..
Uwii..sitaki kuyaexperience hayo!!!! ote lanyoe...