Ni Nini Wanaume Wanataka Toka Kwa Wanawake?

Ni Nini Wanaume Wanataka Toka Kwa Wanawake?

LD mi mwenyewe nimechoka na watu wanaolazimisha kwamba Infii ikubalike!Wanafanya kama vile ni hitaji!As if uaminifu unaua!
 
Lizzy said:
All this men want..men want is driving me nuts!What about what we want?If men don't want to be manipulated how come they manipulate us?If they want to be respected how come they don't respect us and our feelings?Infidelity is not something that should be accepted just because some silly research says so!Can't walk around knowing and accepting that a man that i call mine is OURS!Science or not it's a load of nonsense!Watakaokubali wakubali ila mimi nakataa!
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Here we go . . . food for thought:

  1. 22 percent of married men have strayed at least once during their married lives.
  2. 14 percent of married women have had affairs at least once during their married lives.
  3. Younger people are more likely candidates; in fact, younger women are as likely as younger men to be unfaithful.
  4. 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men did not know of their spouses' extramarital activity.
  5. 5 percent of married men and 3 percent of married women reported having sex with someone other than their spouse in the year1997.
  6. 22 percent of men and 14 percent of women admitted to having sexual relations outside their marriage sometime in their past.
  7. 90 percent of Americans believe adultery is morally wrong.
  8. 50 percent of Americans say President Clinton's adultery makes his moral standard "about the same as the average married man,'' according to a Time-CNN poll.
  9. 61 percent of Americans thought adultery should not be a crime in the United states; 35 percent thought it should; 4 percent had no opinion.
  10. 17 percent of divorces in the United States are caused by infidelity.
Source: Infidelity Statistics
 
Mimi nahisi anachohitaji mwanaume ndicho anachohitaji mwanamke, kama ukizingatia signature ya Michelle!
 
More facts:

Facts and Statistics About Infidelity

Given the secretive nature of infidelity, exact figures about cheating and extra-marital affairs are nearly impossible to establish. But, listed below are some of the most well-supported facts about cheating. All cited sources can be found on our reference page.
  1. It is estimated that roughly 30 to 60% of all married individuals (in the United States) will engage in infidelity at some point during their marriage (see, Buss and Shackelford for review of this research). And these numbers are probably on the conservative side, when you consider that close to half of all marriages end in divorce (people are more likely to stray as relationships fall apart; also see, who is likely to cheat).
  2. Research consistently shows that 2 to 3% of all children are the product of infidelity (see, Anderson). And most of these children are unknowingly raised by men who are not their biological fathers. DNA testing is finally making it easy for people to check the paternity of their children (see, paternity issues).
  3. Infidelity is becoming more common among people under 30. Many experts believe this increase in cheating is due to greater opportunity (time spent away from a spouse) and young people developing the habit of having multiple sexual partners before they get married (see, young and restless - Wall Street Journal).
  4. There are no definitive "signs of cheating." But, in hindsight you will always find them (see, signs of infidelity).
  5. Some cultures have adopted extreme measures to combat infidelity: female circumcision, allowing only limited contact between the sexes, and death as a punishment. While many other cultures view infidelity as more of a nuance, not a serious marital problem (see, cultural perspectives - Msn).
  6. Men are more likely to cheat than women. But, as women become more financially independent, women are starting to act more like men with respect to infidelity (also see, cheating wives and cheating husbands).
  7. In many cases, infidelity never gets discovered (see, cheating spouse quiz).
  8. Emotionally, it is possible to have feelings for more than one person at a time. Pragmatically, loving more than one person is difficult to do (see, polyamory - Truth, Lies, and Romance Blog).
  9. As more and more women enter the work force, "office romances" are becoming more common. Spouses often spend more time with coworkers than with each other.
  10. The internet, e-mail, and chat rooms are making it easier for people to engage in infidelity (see, online cheating).
  11. The initial decision to be unfaithful is rarely ever a rational choice; instead infidelity is usually driven by circumstances and one's emotions. In fact, most people are surprised by their own behavior at the start of an affair (see, decision to cheat).
  12. Emotional infidelity, compared to just physical infidelity, can inflict as much, if not more, hurt, pain and suffering. And to make matters worse, most infidelity involves both physical and emotional betrayal (see, what counts as cheating).
  13. Unfortunately, many people find a more suitable mate (someone they love more than their spouse) after they are already married.
  14. Biological evidence (i.e., research on biology and reproduction) indicates that long-term monogamy is difficult for humans to achieve - NOT impossible, but difficult (see, Barash and Lipton or the myth of monogamy - Salon.com).
  15. Almost everyone admits to having fantasies that involve someone other than a spouse (see, Hicks and Leitenberg).
  16. Jealousy is such a fundamental, universal emotion because infidelity has been a part of our human nature for a very long time (see, Buss).
 
And more still:

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Below are compiled statistics on infidelity and marriage:
  1. Percentage of marriages that end in divorce in America: 53%
  2. Percentage of "arranged marriages" (where parents pick their sons or daughters spouses) that end in divorce: 3%
  3. Medical field(s) with the highest divorce rate: psychiatrists and marriage counselors
  4. Percentage of marriages where one or both spouses admit to infidelity, either physical or emotional: 41%
  5. Percentage of men who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they've had: 57%
  6. Percentage of women who admit to committing infidelity in any relationship they've had: 54%
  7. Percentage of men and women who admit to having an affair with a co-worker: 36%
  8. Percentage of men and women who admit to infidelity on business trips: 36%
  9. Percentage of men and women who admit to infidelity (emotional or physical) with a brother-in-law or sister-in-law: 17%
  10. Average length of an affair: 2 years
  11. Percentage of marriages that last after an affair has been admitted to or discovered: 31%
  12. Percentage of men who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught: 74%
  13. Percentage of women who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught: 68%
 
SM i don't need statistics..to me those are just numbers and they mean absolutely nothing to!I won't accept someone elses' problem and make it my own!Siwezi kuanza kunywa pombe kwasababu tu kuna watu wanaisifia na kuikubali!I've got a mind of my own so I believe in what I believe in...not what you think I should!
 
Lizzy said:
LD mi mwenyewe nimechoka na watu wanaolazimisha kwamba Infii ikubalike!Wanafanya kama vile ni hitaji!As if uaminifu unaua!
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Lizz mimi binafsi silazimishi wala si shabiki; ila namwaga data za research ili ukweli ujulikane. Kunaweza kuwa na mitazamo tofauti lakini ukweli ni huo.

bado tunaweza kuanzisha thread ya WHAT WOMEN NEED FROM MEN na bado tukapata facts vile vile.
 
muhosni said:
Mimi nahisi anachohitaji mwanaume ndicho anachohitaji mwanamke, kama ukizingatia signature ya Michelle!
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Soon tutaanzisha thread ya Ni Nini Mwanamke anahitaji toka kwa Mwanaume?

May be tutapata majibu.
 
Lizzy said:
SM i don't need statistics..to me those are just numbers and they mean absolutely nothing to!I won't accept someone elses' problem and make it my own!Siwezi kuanza kunywa pombe kwasababu tu kuna watu wanaisifia na kuikubali!I've got a mind of my own so I believe in what I believe in...not what you think I should!
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Thats fine with us. Wakorintho 13 says it all if your religious.

We are agree that there are exception cases and thats where your argument comes in. But scientific and researched data cannot be disputed.

Tuko pamoja.

Respect!
 
Superman said:
Lizz mimi binafsi silazimishi wala si shabiki; ila namwaga data za research ili ukweli ujulikane. Kunaweza kuwa na mitazamo tofauti lakini ukweli ni huo.

bado tunaweza kuanzisha thread ya WHAT WOMEN NEED FROM MEN na bado tukapata facts vile vile.
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Kwa ulivyoanza thread yako inaonyesha ushawishi wa kukubali kwamba infidelity ipo na inasaidia kuimarisha mahusiano!
 
Superman said:
Soon tutaanzisha thread ya Ni Nini Mwanamke anahitaji toka kwa Mwanaume?

May be tutapata majibu.
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Poa, nitafurahi kuisoma kama post zako zitakuwa fupi fupi. Lakini umecheki signature ya michelle?
 
Lizzy said:
Kwa ulivyoanza thread yako inaonyesha ushawishi wa kukubali kwamba infidelity ipo na inasaidia kuimarisha mahusiano!
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Du, Lizzy umenikumbusha marehemu profesa Chachage
 
Lizzy said:
LD mi mwenyewe nimechoka na watu wanaolazimisha kwamba Infii ikubalike!Wanafanya kama vile ni hitaji!As if uaminifu unaua!
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Natamani kujua hivi, kuna watu ambao hawaamini uwepo wa Mungu kabisa na kazi zake?? Kama unaweza kujifunza kufanya jambo la kidunia ukaweza kwa nini tusijifunze kuishi maisha matakatifu??

Hizi statistics hazisemi ni kwa nini kuna hio kitu?
Tupate source ya infidelity halafu tudili nayo.
 
LD said:
kuna watu ambao hawaamini uwepo wa Mungu kabisa na kazi zake?? Kama unaweza kujifunza kufanya jambo la kidunia ukaweza kwa nini tusijifunze kuishi maisha matakatifu??
Tupate source ya infidelity halafu tudili nayo.
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Yani wanadamu tunajipoteza wenyewe!Kuna sehemu amesema wanaume wanapenda sex ila pia wanataka familia!Kwahiyo mmoja anakua mama na small haus kwaajili ya sex!Sijui hawaamini au hawawezi kujipanga wakapata vyote kwa mmoja!Tamaa tu zinawasumbua!
 
Lizzy said:
Mmh kwanini tena?
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Alikuwa na theory yake aliyokuwa anaiamini pasi na shaka kwamba infidelity ndiyo nguzo kuu ya ndoa zilizokaa muda mrefu. Hasa alikuwa anawapongeza ma housegirl kwamba wanamsaidia sana mama mwenye nyumba kudumisha ndoa yake (socialogically). Lakini sina uhakika kama yeye alikuwa ana practice hiyo theory.
 
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