Kaunga
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Kwanini lkn? Si bora kuchagua kind of marriage mtu anayotaka kuliko kuumizana?
I wish ningekuwa nimezaliwa karne iliyopita labda haya nisingeona na kuyasikia,labda pengine pia siku za mwisho ndio hizi,ngoja nikeshe na kuomba maana sijui siku wala saa mwana wa adamu atakapo kuja
Ndio nimeamua kuolewa at last……but at my own conditions. Kwa kweli nimechoshwa na masharobaro wa hapa mjini, yaani uwizi mtupu, usanii and too many heart breaks, I have to come to conclusion love is not meant for me.
Niko katika mchakato lakini nataka hii ndoa iwe purely of benefits more or less marriage of convenience. Sitaki kuolewa kwa love cause it doesn't and never worked with me, sitaki kuwa nyumba ndogo, sitaki kuzaa na mume wa mtu, sitaki kuzaa nje ya ndoa, sitaki kulea mume, sitaki kuruka ruka kila siku.
Ninachotaka ni kukidhi matamanio ya mwili, kuendeleza kizazi (tukijaliwa), awe responsible dad to his kids kwasababu sitaki niwe single parent at same wakose mapenzi ya baba yao. Tutasaidiana maisha half half hasa yanayohusu watoto wetu. LOL
Now the challenging part, nataka mawazo yenu, nini nifanye ili hii marriage ionekana attractive kwa mume mtarajiwa. Naomba brainstorming zenu kabla sijaweka bandiko. Maana its like contract and going to be renewable see if we fit, au precaution gani nichukue......
Mtambuzi , Kongosho , Kaunga , The Boss , ndyoko , Preta , Eiyer , King'asti , na Nyani Ngabu na wengineo wote naombeni busara zenu.
Kwanini lkn? Si bora kuchagua kind of marriage mtu anayotaka kuliko kuumizana?
ah sasa wewe unasema love is not ur thing na sole purpose ya kupata kidume ni ili usatisfy ur sexual needs na kupata mtoto. so mie sio kutakuwa na tatizo kama mie nitakuwa responsible father na bado nakupata utamu kamilifu even tho nionja pengine....lol
Kwanini siikubali open marriage ni kwa ajili ya maradhi, naona kama yatakuwa ni yale yale au?
MadamX hujatuambia michango tuanze lini? sisi ambao hatukuombwa busara zetu
Kwahiyo.....mbio zangu zitaishia sakafuni
Hujanisoma vizuri mtarajiwa 🙂 bali nilitaka sana kuwepo na mapenzi lakini naona siku hizi hicho kitu ni dreams tu.