Nyakati za sasa

DMmasi · 2024-10-28T07:52:54+00:00

Habari Wanajamvi, Naona utandawazi unatupeleka kwenye mambo ya "daddy it's my right" au "mama, nataka kuondoka nyumbani." Kwa sasa, mzazi anapata kesi kwa kumuadhibu mtoto! Leo nawakumbusha aina za vichapo tulivyokuwa navyo: Kichapo Chenye Maandalizi Hiki ni kile ambacho mzazi anapanga kabla. Mtoto anapokosea, mzazi anamwambia "Nitakuchapa jioni," na hivyo anapewa muda wa kujiandaa. Hii hufuatiwa na maneno ya lawama na maonyo, kama vile kumweleza kosa lake kabla ya adhabu. Kichapo cha Kushtukiza Hapa mtoto anachapwa na chochote kilicho karibu. Unaweza kukumbuka ulivyopigwa na lapa kama mende, au labda sahani, fagio, ngumi, mateke, au kwa mzazi mkorofi, hata kabati linaweza kurushwa! Kichapo cha Makubaliano Hiki ni kile ambacho mzazi anakusimamisha na kukuambia utafute fimbo inayokutosha mwenyewe ili upate kipigo. Kichapo cha Kikatili Hii ni hali ambapo mtoto anachapwa kama gaidi. Wapo wazazi wanaweza kumchoma mtoto mikono kwa sababu ndogo kama kudokoa chakula, kumwaga maji ya moto, na mengine yenye mateso makali. (Hii mimi siungi mkono hata kidogo.) Kichapo cha Mbuzi wa Kafara Hiki ni pale mtoto anapokutana na hasira za mambo ambayo hayamhusu. Mzazi anashusha hasira za masuala mengine kama kukosa marejesho, sponsor kasusa, au ugomvi na mzazi mwenza. Kwa kweli, kipigo ambacho mimi siwezi kukubali ni kile chenye kusababisha majeraha makubwa kwa makusudi au kinachomdhalilisha mtoto, kama vile kumchapa akiwa amevuliwa nguo au kwa maneno ya kashfa mbele ya wenzake. Hali hii inamfanya mtoto aishi kwa huzuni na hata kufanyiwa mzaha na wenzake, jambo linalomwathiri kisaikolojia. Mtoto asinyimwe fimbo pale inapohitajika, lakini mzazi anayempiga mtoto kila siku, hapo shida si mtoto, ni mzazi mwenyewe. Kichapo gani kingine unakijua? Au kipi kati ya hivi umewahi kukutana nacho?

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Start date Oct 28, 2024
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