tofauti yetu ni kuwa nimemwambia kile anachotaka kusikia na anapenda iwe hivyo ila me najua ni UJINGA.Unamshangaa kwa utaahira wake kisha na wewe unampa ushauri wa kitaahira! Tofauti yenu nini sasa??
I said this to my heart Mara nyingi Sana but still sauti inaniambia emoj Maisha Ni Sasa. Hili ndio naoga kumwambia maana naogopa ataniacha.Mwanamke mpumbavu huvunja ndoa yake mwenyewe kwa mikono yake. Itoshe kusema Mimi ningekuwa huuyo kijana wako, siku ukiniambia tu nakupiga chini. Wewe n mwanamke anayeongozwa na hisia si akilia
Asante kwa ushauri dear nitalifanyia kazi. Ukweli Ni kwamba sikuwahi kuwaza Ipo Siku itanitokea hili.Aisee
Wewe dada sitamani kukuhukumu as sijakamilika ila unavunja ndoa yako kwa mikono yako mwenyewe.
Hao watoto wako wanne watateseka na ndoa utaikosa na kijana utamkosa
Nimeumia
Pls achana na huyo kijana
Inawezekana, labda kuna pacha hapo au alianza zaa mapema.Watoto wanne still 32 hiyo ni chai
Hii ni chai kama chai zingine tuHabarini wanajamvi . Natumaini mko poa and mnaenjoy this Long weekend.
Naomba kushare na nyingi story yangu then mtanishauri Nini Cha kufanya.
Mimi Ni mwanamke Nina miaka 32 Nimeolewa ndoa ya kanisani na tumebahatika kupata watoto wanne kwenye ndoa yetu hii takatifu. Kiukweli so far my marriage is good sisemi kwamba hatugombani no sometimes tunapishana tunaombana msamaha yanaisha, Inshort sijawahi kujuta kuolewa na mume wangu, he is a caring man, anapenda Sana watoto wake, for sure he is the best husband and the best daddy to our four beautiful children.
Mwaka Jana nilipata kazi somewhere mbali kidogo so ikanilazimu kuacha familia na kwenda kufanya kazi, Mume wangu alikubali Mimi kwenda kufanya kazi mbali ukizingatia pia hatukuwa vizuri kiuchumi maana Covid 19 iliyumbisha kidogo uchumi wetu, so I came this side kufanya kazi.
Ukweli sikuwahi kumcheat mume wangu tangu anioe na sikuwahi kuwaza kama kuna Siku itatokea maana ukweli ananitreat like a queen, baada ya kufika huku kazini, kweli Nilikuwa Ni mtu wa kuchapa kazi na kurudi home kusettle na kuwaza about my family and my personal issues.
Sikupata kuwaza like sex nimtafute mtu noo, tho as a woman kule kutongozwa kupo but sikuwahi kuipea time kabisa kabisa infact nilikuwa naona ni ujinga Sana kucheat na nimeolewa na my husband is awesome. Not uqntil this day hapa kazini Kuna project tulikuwa tunafanya so tukawa connected na this firm ambayo Sasa ndo hapa nilibadilika.
Katika hii project niliunganishwa na Kijana (28 years) ambaye ndo tutafanya nae hiyo project pamoja. Kweli at the beginning it was a normal talk about the project na sikuwa like kufeel chochote Wala kuwaza chochote out of work. Hadi hii Siku moja ambayo I asked him something about the project hakujibu kwa message badala akatuma Voice note ooh my God hiii voice note ndo ilinimaliza mimi, the man was smart( I like men with brain), voice yake nzuri.
His voice note turned me on kwa kweli nikaanza kufall in love with him from that day, hatukuwahi kuonana before but Ile voice note ilinipa hamu ya kumuona nakuwish awe mtu wangu wa karibu. From that day nikaanza like kumtumia tu message ambazo sio za kazi, like Hi, how was your night blah blah, long story short tukawa wapenzi na hatukuwahi kuonana live[emoji23][emoji23].
For sure mapenzi yalikuwa motomoto Mpaka this day tukaja kuonana and wow I felt sweet seeing this handsome man smelling like a snack[emoji39], amepanda hewani, smart one, kweli moyo ulikuwa unanienda mbio na kujiona wa Bahati Sana katika hii dunia, the date went well and tulifurahi kuonana for the first time[emoji7], hapa ndipo mapenzi yetu yalizidi kuwa motomoto like like like heaven...
He told me his background and his future plans, but ukweli Mimi sikuwa muwazi kwake maana Kwanza Ile tumeenda kuonana for the first time nilivua Pete na sikuwahi muambia nimeolewa na Nina watoto all this long. Nilikuwa Namuambia I am single.
Now mahali ambapo Sasa ndugu zangu naomba mnishauri kwa hekima zenu ni hivi Kijana amenikolea mwenzenu, yaani he is deep in me, sometimes hata napitiliza vituo kwa sababu mawazo yangu yako kwake, sometimes I just smile when I think of him, Juzi namuita boss wangu jina la kijana and I was like God!. I am drunk in Love with Kijana Hadi najuta why sikumjua mapema, He is great kwenye sex, sijawahi enjoy sex like the way I enjoy with him jamani, His kiss is heaven, in short he is a Pro[emoji7].I am confused ndugu zangu.
Sasa Kijana anataka tufanye mchakato anioe and he is very serious, but Sasa hajui nimeshaolewaga na Nina watoto wanne, nilimuambia tu Nina mtoto mmoja na amesema hakuna shida kabisa yeye amenipenda na haoni shida kunioa hata Kama Nina mtoto.
Jamani nawaza kumkubalia anioe then tutajua mbele kwa mbele since I love him so much na I really don't want to loose him, sometimes nawaza ama niombe talaka niwe huru kuolewa na Kijana ,Saa zingine nawaza au tu nimuambie ukweli naona atanikimbia. Saa zingine nawaza au nimzalie tu mtoto nibaki na ndoa yangu? Lengo nataka tu niwe nae till my last breath, I know he is young na ukweli siko kumchuna ama kumuharibia maisha, I love him and kwelikweli I don't want to loose him .
Sometimes nawaza naona gharama ya kupoteza ndoa yangu takatifu ni rahisi Sana kuliko gharama ya kumpoteza huyu Kijana. Jana tulikuwa wote na Kijana akaniambia anataka kunipeleka kwa wazazi wake so nipange Siku tuende, jamani nihisi kupiga kelele Mimi jamani kwamba napoteza hii golden chance hivihivi jamani[emoji24][emoji24].
Nishaurini ndugu zangu nafanyeje wapendwa?, the best way ambayo nitabaki na Kijana pasipo kuathiri pande zote mbili au hata upande mmoja ukiathirika but Kijana awepo. I love him so much na Mungu shahidi, sijawahi penda hivi,. .... What can I do ndugu zangu?
Kijana anajua nimemzidi umri but Hana shida na hili, anajua Nina mtoto Ila Sasa anajua Nina mmoja na wakati ukweli Nina wanne, anajua Niko single wakati ukweli Nina ndoa ya kanisani . Jamani msinitukane please nishaurini maana Nimezama penzini sisikii Wala Nini nimekolea, I just can't imagine my life without Kijana[emoji24]. I feel him so deep jamani.
Asanteni
Nyie ndiyo mnafanya wengine tufikirie mara mbili mbili linapokuja swala la kuoa, lakini zaidi sana mnaliharibu sana hili taifa, linajaa watoto wenye majeraha ya kihisia na baadaye kupoteza muelekeo kwa sababu ya upumbavu wenu kama huu!Habarini wanajamvi . Natumaini mko poa and mnaenjoy this Long weekend.
Naomba kushare na nyingi story yangu then mtanishauri Nini Cha kufanya.
Mimi Ni mwanamke Nina miaka 32 Nimeolewa ndoa ya kanisani na tumebahatika kupata watoto wanne kwenye ndoa yetu hii takatifu. Kiukweli so far my marriage is good sisemi kwamba hatugombani no sometimes tunapishana tunaombana msamaha yanaisha, Inshort sijawahi kujuta kuolewa na mume wangu, he is a caring man, anapenda Sana watoto wake, for sure he is the best husband and the best daddy to our four beautiful children.
Mwaka Jana nilipata kazi somewhere mbali kidogo so ikanilazimu kuacha familia na kwenda kufanya kazi, Mume wangu alikubali Mimi kwenda kufanya kazi mbali ukizingatia pia hatukuwa vizuri kiuchumi maana Covid 19 iliyumbisha kidogo uchumi wetu, so I came this side kufanya kazi.
Ukweli sikuwahi kumcheat mume wangu tangu anioe na sikuwahi kuwaza kama kuna Siku itatokea maana ukweli ananitreat like a queen, baada ya kufika huku kazini, kweli Nilikuwa Ni mtu wa kuchapa kazi na kurudi home kusettle na kuwaza about my family and my personal issues.
Sikupata kuwaza like sex nimtafute mtu noo, tho as a woman kule kutongozwa kupo but sikuwahi kuipea time kabisa kabisa infact nilikuwa naona ni ujinga Sana kucheat na nimeolewa na my husband is awesome. Not uqntil this day hapa kazini Kuna project tulikuwa tunafanya so tukawa connected na this firm ambayo Sasa ndo hapa nilibadilika.
Katika hii project niliunganishwa na Kijana (28 years) ambaye ndo tutafanya nae hiyo project pamoja. Kweli at the beginning it was a normal talk about the project na sikuwa like kufeel chochote Wala kuwaza chochote out of work. Hadi hii Siku moja ambayo I asked him something about the project hakujibu kwa message badala akatuma Voice note ooh my God hiii voice note ndo ilinimaliza mimi, the man was smart( I like men with brain), voice yake nzuri.
His voice note turned me on kwa kweli nikaanza kufall in love with him from that day, hatukuwahi kuonana before but Ile voice note ilinipa hamu ya kumuona nakuwish awe mtu wangu wa karibu. From that day nikaanza like kumtumia tu message ambazo sio za kazi, like Hi, how was your night blah blah, long story short tukawa wapenzi na hatukuwahi kuonana live[emoji23][emoji23].
For sure mapenzi yalikuwa motomoto Mpaka this day tukaja kuonana and wow I felt sweet seeing this handsome man smelling like a snack[emoji39], amepanda hewani, smart one, kweli moyo ulikuwa unanienda mbio na kujiona wa Bahati Sana katika hii dunia, the date went well and tulifurahi kuonana for the first time[emoji7], hapa ndipo mapenzi yetu yalizidi kuwa motomoto like like like heaven...
He told me his background and his future plans, but ukweli Mimi sikuwa muwazi kwake maana Kwanza Ile tumeenda kuonana for the first time nilivua Pete na sikuwahi muambia nimeolewa na Nina watoto all this long. Nilikuwa Namuambia I am single.
Now mahali ambapo Sasa ndugu zangu naomba mnishauri kwa hekima zenu ni hivi Kijana amenikolea mwenzenu, yaani he is deep in me, sometimes hata napitiliza vituo kwa sababu mawazo yangu yako kwake, sometimes I just smile when I think of him, Juzi namuita boss wangu jina la kijana and I was like God!. I am drunk in Love with Kijana Hadi najuta why sikumjua mapema, He is great kwenye sex, sijawahi enjoy sex like the way I enjoy with him jamani, His kiss is heaven, in short he is a Pro[emoji7].I am confused ndugu zangu.
Sasa Kijana anataka tufanye mchakato anioe and he is very serious, but Sasa hajui nimeshaolewaga na Nina watoto wanne, nilimuambia tu Nina mtoto mmoja na amesema hakuna shida kabisa yeye amenipenda na haoni shida kunioa hata Kama Nina mtoto.
Jamani nawaza kumkubalia anioe then tutajua mbele kwa mbele since I love him so much na I really don't want to loose him, sometimes nawaza ama niombe talaka niwe huru kuolewa na Kijana ,Saa zingine nawaza au tu nimuambie ukweli naona atanikimbia. Saa zingine nawaza au nimzalie tu mtoto nibaki na ndoa yangu? Lengo nataka tu niwe nae till my last breath, I know he is young na ukweli siko kumchuna ama kumuharibia maisha, I love him and kwelikweli I don't want to loose him .
Sometimes nawaza naona gharama ya kupoteza ndoa yangu takatifu ni rahisi Sana kuliko gharama ya kumpoteza huyu Kijana. Jana tulikuwa wote na Kijana akaniambia anataka kunipeleka kwa wazazi wake so nipange Siku tuende, jamani nihisi kupiga kelele Mimi jamani kwamba napoteza hii golden chance hivihivi jamani[emoji24][emoji24].
Nishaurini ndugu zangu nafanyeje wapendwa?, the best way ambayo nitabaki na Kijana pasipo kuathiri pande zote mbili au hata upande mmoja ukiathirika but Kijana awepo. I love him so much na Mungu shahidi, sijawahi penda hivi,. .... What can I do ndugu zangu?
Kijana anajua nimemzidi umri but Hana shida na hili, anajua Nina mtoto Ila Sasa anajua Nina mmoja na wakati ukweli Nina wanne, anajua Niko single wakati ukweli Nina ndoa ya kanisani . Jamani msinitukane please nishaurini maana Nimezama penzini sisikii Wala Nini nimekolea, I just can't imagine my life without Kijana[emoji24]. I feel him so deep jamani.
Asanteni
Mimi sio mtabiri ila kuna jambo baya litakuja kukupata muda sio mrefu. Hio starehe yako ni ya muda mfupi tu.Habarini wanajamvi . Natumaini mko poa and mnaenjoy this Long weekend.
Naomba kushare na nyingi story yangu then mtanishauri Nini Cha kufanya.
Mimi Ni mwanamke Nina miaka 32 Nimeolewa ndoa ya kanisani na tumebahatika kupata watoto wanne kwenye ndoa yetu hii takatifu. Kiukweli so far my marriage is good sisemi kwamba hatugombani no sometimes tunapishana tunaombana msamaha yanaisha, Inshort sijawahi kujuta kuolewa na mume wangu, he is a caring man, anapenda Sana watoto wake, for sure he is the best husband and the best daddy to our four beautiful children.
Mwaka Jana nilipata kazi somewhere mbali kidogo so ikanilazimu kuacha familia na kwenda kufanya kazi, Mume wangu alikubali Mimi kwenda kufanya kazi mbali ukizingatia pia hatukuwa vizuri kiuchumi maana Covid 19 iliyumbisha kidogo uchumi wetu, so I came this side kufanya kazi.
Ukweli sikuwahi kumcheat mume wangu tangu anioe na sikuwahi kuwaza kama kuna Siku itatokea maana ukweli ananitreat like a queen, baada ya kufika huku kazini, kweli Nilikuwa Ni mtu wa kuchapa kazi na kurudi home kusettle na kuwaza about my family and my personal issues.
Sikupata kuwaza like sex nimtafute mtu noo, tho as a woman kule kutongozwa kupo but sikuwahi kuipea time kabisa kabisa infact nilikuwa naona ni ujinga Sana kucheat na nimeolewa na my husband is awesome. Not uqntil this day hapa kazini Kuna project tulikuwa tunafanya so tukawa connected na this firm ambayo Sasa ndo hapa nilibadilika.
Katika hii project niliunganishwa na Kijana (28 years) ambaye ndo tutafanya nae hiyo project pamoja. Kweli at the beginning it was a normal talk about the project na sikuwa like kufeel chochote Wala kuwaza chochote out of work. Hadi hii Siku moja ambayo I asked him something about the project hakujibu kwa message badala akatuma Voice note ooh my God hiii voice note ndo ilinimaliza mimi, the man was smart( I like men with brain), voice yake nzuri.
His voice note turned me on kwa kweli nikaanza kufall in love with him from that day, hatukuwahi kuonana before but Ile voice note ilinipa hamu ya kumuona nakuwish awe mtu wangu wa karibu. From that day nikaanza like kumtumia tu message ambazo sio za kazi, like Hi, how was your night blah blah, long story short tukawa wapenzi na hatukuwahi kuonana live[emoji23][emoji23].
For sure mapenzi yalikuwa motomoto Mpaka this day tukaja kuonana and wow I felt sweet seeing this handsome man smelling like a snack[emoji39], amepanda hewani, smart one, kweli moyo ulikuwa unanienda mbio na kujiona wa Bahati Sana katika hii dunia, the date went well and tulifurahi kuonana for the first time[emoji7], hapa ndipo mapenzi yetu yalizidi kuwa motomoto like like like heaven...
He told me his background and his future plans, but ukweli Mimi sikuwa muwazi kwake maana Kwanza Ile tumeenda kuonana for the first time nilivua Pete na sikuwahi muambia nimeolewa na Nina watoto all this long. Nilikuwa Namuambia I am single.
Now mahali ambapo Sasa ndugu zangu naomba mnishauri kwa hekima zenu ni hivi Kijana amenikolea mwenzenu, yaani he is deep in me, sometimes hata napitiliza vituo kwa sababu mawazo yangu yako kwake, sometimes I just smile when I think of him, Juzi namuita boss wangu jina la kijana and I was like God!. I am drunk in Love with Kijana Hadi najuta why sikumjua mapema, He is great kwenye sex, sijawahi enjoy sex like the way I enjoy with him jamani, His kiss is heaven, in short he is a Pro[emoji7].I am confused ndugu zangu.
Sasa Kijana anataka tufanye mchakato anioe and he is very serious, but Sasa hajui nimeshaolewaga na Nina watoto wanne, nilimuambia tu Nina mtoto mmoja na amesema hakuna shida kabisa yeye amenipenda na haoni shida kunioa hata Kama Nina mtoto.
Jamani nawaza kumkubalia anioe then tutajua mbele kwa mbele since I love him so much na I really don't want to loose him, sometimes nawaza ama niombe talaka niwe huru kuolewa na Kijana ,Saa zingine nawaza au tu nimuambie ukweli naona atanikimbia. Saa zingine nawaza au nimzalie tu mtoto nibaki na ndoa yangu? Lengo nataka tu niwe nae till my last breath, I know he is young na ukweli siko kumchuna ama kumuharibia maisha, I love him and kwelikweli I don't want to loose him .
Sometimes nawaza naona gharama ya kupoteza ndoa yangu takatifu ni rahisi Sana kuliko gharama ya kumpoteza huyu Kijana. Jana tulikuwa wote na Kijana akaniambia anataka kunipeleka kwa wazazi wake so nipange Siku tuende, jamani nihisi kupiga kelele Mimi jamani kwamba napoteza hii golden chance hivihivi jamani[emoji24][emoji24].
Nishaurini ndugu zangu nafanyeje wapendwa?, the best way ambayo nitabaki na Kijana pasipo kuathiri pande zote mbili au hata upande mmoja ukiathirika but Kijana awepo. I love him so much na Mungu shahidi, sijawahi penda hivi,. .... What can I do ndugu zangu?
Kijana anajua nimemzidi umri but Hana shida na hili, anajua Nina mtoto Ila Sasa anajua Nina mmoja na wakati ukweli Nina wanne, anajua Niko single wakati ukweli Nina ndoa ya kanisani . Jamani msinitukane please nishaurini maana Nimezama penzini sisikii Wala Nini nimekolea, I just can't imagine my life without Kijana[emoji24]. I feel him so deep jamani.
Asanteni
Kusema kweli mume wangu nilimpenda from my heart dear. Sikuwa desperate na ndoa kabisa since I was still young, so alinipenda nikampenda pia then ndoa ikafuata, Sijawahi kumcheat na sikuwahi kuwaza hili litatokea untill I met this young man ndio Sasa nimeshikika.Weng mnahis dada anadanganya.. ila kuna uwezekano ni kwel
Wanawake weng wanaingia kwenye ndoa na watu ambao hawajawapenda... Weng wanaolewa lakin hisia za kwel hawana na wanaume wao.. ni ilimradi tu atoe nuksi .. kufurashisha jamii.. ila kiukwel hawa wafeel watu wao..
So inatokea anakutana na mtu ambae kampenda kwel.. ndo haya sasa...
Ndomana nawambiaga vijana hakikisha mwanamke anakupenda kwel.. ukiona mwanamke humwelew kama anakupenda au la usioe huyo utakuja gongewa..
Weng ni wahanga wa failed relationshps akishatendwa na anaempenda bas yeyote anaekuja mbele anaweza mwoa.. sasa tegemea mambo kama haya ya mtoa mada
Ndo maana wanasema wanawake kuchepuka hawawezi, wanachepuka kwa hisia kuliko akiliInaitwa kichaa cha penzi aka wazimu wa penzi! Ukishaisha akili itakukaa sawa naamini!
Asante kwa ushauri mzuri dear. Nitalifanyia kaziKibinadamu hali hiyo hutokea kwa muda kisha hupita, kipindi cha hisia kali huendana na mawazo ya uongo sana ambayo yapo kinyume kabisa na ukweli wa kimaisha, baada ya muda c mrf hisia hizo hupita na ukweli wote hutokea mbele ya mtu, hapo kama ulijichanganya ukafanya maamzi ya aina yoyote kipindi hicho, basi majuto na machozi huwa sehemu kubwa ya maisha yako. Washauri wanashauri usifanye maamzi ya aina yoyote wakati umependa sana au umechukia sana, jipe muda, subiri akili yako ifanye kazi ikishirikiana na undani wako. Ukweli kuhusu mada ya mtoa mada ambao kwa sasa hawezi kuuona wala kuuelewa na hata asitake kuusikia kwa vile milango yake ya fahamu ya nje na ndani yote imefungwa na "hisia" ni huu:- anamkosea Mungu wake, anamkosea mume wake, anawakosea watoto wake, anaikosea jamii yake, anaikosea na nafsi yake mwenyewe na madhara ya kosa analolifanya ni kuharibu kote huko anapokosana nako iwe anajua au hajui... ukwel huu ataujua muda c mrefu kwani lazima aujue tu, muhimu asifanye maamzi ya aina yoyote kwa sasa ili ukwel wote ukisimama mbele yake, awe na mlango wa kurudia, maamzi ya aina yoyote wakati huu yatafunga mlango huo na hivyo kuwa taabu kuufungua kwani ni lazima atauhitaji...nasema kwa uhakika sana mambo haya kwa sababu naelewa kila kitu alichosimulia humu, yeye anamdanganya kijana na kijana anamdanganya yeye, hii ndio tabia ya uongo, kutokea kwa wakati mmoja, kudumu kwa kipindi kifupi na kupotea kuacha ukwel ukuvue nguo mbele ya ulimwengu mzima.