Ring or no ring...

[Rodelite]

My wife took off her ring after an argument. But there had been instances of arguments for about 2 months with minimal solutions. We have been together for more than 10 years. does this mean that the marriage is over and that I should move on..
Naomba input zenu waungwana.

 

[The Boss]

duh.....if you want problems in this world...try to fall in love with somebody.....

 

[Rodelite]

duh.....if you want problems in this world...try to fall in love with somebody.....

The "ring thing" happened more than a year ago....so... I'm burnt out .. trying to beg and wait...

 

[The Boss]

The "ring thing" happened more than a year ago....so... I'm burnt out .. trying to beg and wait...

sasa kama a year ago...
since kipindi hiko....hamuendi out?no sex?
mnaishi pamoja?????

 

[Aisha Adam]

duh.....if you want problems in this world...try to fall in love with somebody.....

duh! sina hakika kama ni kkweli

 

[Rodelite]

Yep...No sex... She's only nice when she wants something..(not sex) .. If I try to be nice, prepare some romantic environment...she tries her best to destroy it....well she has successfully destroyed all moments...

 

[The Boss]

Yep...No sex... She's only nice when she wants something..(not sex) .. If I try to be nice, prepare some romantic environment...she tries her best to destroy it....well she has successfully destroyed all moments...

just stop providing.....and start dating other women....

if its over she will ask for dirvoce
if its not,she will come to you....
she is playing with you...

 

[BlackBerry]

just stop providing.....and start dating other women....

if its over she will ask for dirvoce
if its not,she will come to you....
she is playing with you...

Really!!

 

[AshaDii]

That is too brief (IMO) to give an on opinion on the moving on part... The Great thing about
a fight between one with the husband/wife... it is that; it means they still care about what the other
does... thus still have feelings for each other... Ten years is quite long, na yawezekana mpo katika
that stage know as the rut stage - If you over come this stage... it is worth it for your marriage's survival.

 

[AshaDii]

Yep...No sex... She's only nice when she wants something..(not sex) .. If I try to be nice, prepare some romantic environment...she tries her best to destroy it....well she has successfully destroyed all moments...

You as a guy sex may mean everything...
but if she is in constant mood swings...
no matter how romantic you are.... Useless....

 

[The Boss]

Really!!

wewe unaonaje?
nikuhudumie bila sex for a year....is it fair....?

 

[The Boss]

You as a guy sex may mean everything...
but if she is in constant mood swings...
no matter how romantic you are.... Useless....

is it for men only?????
can you be a good wife without sex for a year???????

 

[Rodelite]

That is too brief (IMO) to give an on opinion on the moving on part... The Great thing about
a fight between one with the husband/wife... it is that; it means they still care about what the other
does... thus still have feelings for each other... Ten years is quite long, na yawezekana mpo katika
that stage know as the rut stage - If you over come this stage... it is worth it for your marriage's survival.

We have been together for 16yrs. 15 married... Yes I still care but she keeps on hurting me.. Tuna watoto...so I can't stop providing...

 

[The Boss]

We have been together for 16yrs. 15 married... Yes I still care but she keeps on hurting me.. Tuna watoto...so I can't stop providing...

in that case provide for watoto na necessity zake tu...
date other women....in the process....

 

[AshaDii]

is it for men only?????
can you be a good wife without sex for a year???????

Even more than that... As much as I love doing it ... it does not mean i cant live without....

 

[Ngwanakilala]

Mmmmmmmhhhhh. hii ngoma nzito.

 

[AshaDii]

We have been together for 16yrs. 15 married... Yes I still care but she keeps on hurting me.. Tuna watoto...so I can't stop providing...

That means you know her to the extent you can now tell where she stands... What do you think she wants? Marriage or divorce?

 

[The Boss]

Even more than that... As much as I love doing it ... it does not mean i cant live without....

you didnt answer the question....
can you be agood wife without for a year..?
while in a good health?

 

[AshaDii]

you didnt answer the question....
can you be agood wife without for a year..?
while in a good health?

If you mean what i am thinking... YES.
Na if you read my post you will find
i said even more than a year... and not
from assumption but from experience....

 

[The Boss]

i hate when women pretend to be nice
just to get your money......

i respect women when they are so angry that even your money means nothing to them......