Secret to a happy marriage is...
Secret to a happy marriage is...
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The secret of a happy marriage? ... find a man 5 years older who hasnt been hitched before
For many, a successful marriage can be put down to attraction, devotion, patience and true love. But one group of statisticians begs to differ.
They have developed a distinctly unromantic formula to predict how compatible a couple are based on their ages, education and previous divorces.
The experts claim their theory can tell in advance that some couples are up to five times more likely to end up getting divorced than others.
Ideal Partners?: President Barack Obama, 48, and wife Michelle, 45
According to the study, the couples with the best chance are those where a woman with a superior education marries a man who is five or more years older than herself.
Neither should be a divorcee.
By comparison, a marriage where a woman partners an equally poorly educated male divorcee who is five or more years her junior is up to five times more likely to fail.
The study is good news for David Cameron, 43, and wife Samantha, 38. Meanwhile, US President Barack Obama, 48, and wife Michelle, 45, may have only a three-year difference in age but have been married for 17 years.
But the study may not be welcomed by Michael Douglas, 65, and his 40-year-old wife Catherine Zeta-Jones the research suggests a marriage is more likely to fail if only one partner has been previously divorced, and Douglas was married once before.
The research, called Optimising The Marriage Market, appeared in the European Journal Of Operational Research, which usually analyses business decisions.
Academics including Dr Emmanuel Fragnière of the University of Bath studied interviews with 1,534 Swiss couples who were either married or in a serious relationship. Five years later they followed up 1,074 of the couples to see which had separated.
The research suggests a marriage is more likely to fail if only one partner has been previously divorced. Michael Douglas, pictured with wife Catherine Zeta-Jones, was married once before
Using the data collected about their age, education, nationality and previous relationships, they found the factors that many of those who broke up had in common.
Psychologists then analysed the importance of each factor to build up profiles of an ideal marriage and a nightmare couple. With age, they found that if the wife is five or more years older than her husband, they are more than three times as likely to divorce than if they were the same age.
Couples where the wife is five or more years younger than the husband are the least likely to hit trouble, with their divorce rate six times less.
With education, couples in which neither partner has studied much are the most likely to break up. Those where both are well educated are half as likely to divorce.
If the woman is better educated than the man, they are eight times as likely to stay together than the uneducated couple, and three times more secure than if the husband were more of a bookworm than the wife. Analysis of the data showed that the most stable couples were unsurprisingly those who had never divorced. But couples who have both previously been through a break-up are only marginally less secure.
The most unstable are where only one has had a divorce. The report concluded: It appears men and women choose their mates on the basis of love, physical attraction, similarity of tastes, beliefs and attitudes, and shared values.
However, the longevity of marriages also depends on objective factors. Matching individuals according to a small number of objective criteria such as age, education and cultural origin may help reduce divorce.
For many, a successful marriage can be put down to attraction, devotion, patience and true love. But one group of statisticians begs to differ.
They have developed a distinctly unromantic formula to predict how compatible a couple are based on their ages, education and previous divorces.
The experts claim their theory can tell in advance that some couples are up to five times more likely to end up getting divorced than others.
Ideal Partners?: President Barack Obama, 48, and wife Michelle, 45
According to the study, the couples with the best chance are those where a woman with a superior education marries a man who is five or more years older than herself.
Neither should be a divorcee.
By comparison, a marriage where a woman partners an equally poorly educated male divorcee who is five or more years her junior is up to five times more likely to fail.
The study is good news for David Cameron, 43, and wife Samantha, 38. Meanwhile, US President Barack Obama, 48, and wife Michelle, 45, may have only a three-year difference in age but have been married for 17 years.
But the study may not be welcomed by Michael Douglas, 65, and his 40-year-old wife Catherine Zeta-Jones the research suggests a marriage is more likely to fail if only one partner has been previously divorced, and Douglas was married once before.
The research, called Optimising The Marriage Market, appeared in the European Journal Of Operational Research, which usually analyses business decisions.
Academics including Dr Emmanuel Fragnière of the University of Bath studied interviews with 1,534 Swiss couples who were either married or in a serious relationship. Five years later they followed up 1,074 of the couples to see which had separated.
The research suggests a marriage is more likely to fail if only one partner has been previously divorced. Michael Douglas, pictured with wife Catherine Zeta-Jones, was married once before
Using the data collected about their age, education, nationality and previous relationships, they found the factors that many of those who broke up had in common.
Psychologists then analysed the importance of each factor to build up profiles of an ideal marriage and a nightmare couple. With age, they found that if the wife is five or more years older than her husband, they are more than three times as likely to divorce than if they were the same age.
Couples where the wife is five or more years younger than the husband are the least likely to hit trouble, with their divorce rate six times less.
With education, couples in which neither partner has studied much are the most likely to break up. Those where both are well educated are half as likely to divorce.
If the woman is better educated than the man, they are eight times as likely to stay together than the uneducated couple, and three times more secure than if the husband were more of a bookworm than the wife. Analysis of the data showed that the most stable couples were unsurprisingly those who had never divorced. But couples who have both previously been through a break-up are only marginally less secure.
The most unstable are where only one has had a divorce. The report concluded: It appears men and women choose their mates on the basis of love, physical attraction, similarity of tastes, beliefs and attitudes, and shared values.
However, the longevity of marriages also depends on objective factors. Matching individuals according to a small number of objective criteria such as age, education and cultural origin may help reduce divorce.
ili tuweze kwenda sambamba na hoja yako , labda ungetueleza ile lifestyle ambayo unaichukulia wewe kwamba ni happy lifestyle na replacement ya marriage. unapogundua tatizo weka na alternative.
quiet.