endelea kuomba msamaha usichoke anakupima huyo kama ukikata tamaa atajua huna mapenzi ya dhati kwake
Sifa kuu ya mwanamke ni kutunza siri za ndani, in so doing anakua anamtunzia mwenzie heshima yake, ur really a lucky man kupata binti wa namna hiyo, trust me kama huyo binti angekua "mbwabwaji", nakuwaambia hao "rafiki" zenu...OOOhh yes bado tunaugomvi...Oooh ndio tumeachana...hw wud it help? This is not the best way to read someone's mind, madhara yake ni makubwa sana..yaani mi huwa sikubaliani KABISA na ishu za kuexpose shida/ugomvi wa mapenzi yetu,
Halafu, ngoja nikwambie, mshichana akishakuchoka, akaamua ku-end ur relationship hata huwa hasubiri mpaka kukuche, yani ni fasta, tena na watu wote atawafahamisha, I mean nothing to lose afterall, right? ila ukiona anakutunzia siri na anawaambia watu we still together, then ur still together. Tatizo wewe unaharaka ndugu yangu...sis hatujui ulimjeruhi kiasi gani, bt she is trying to heal, and healing takes time, and you need to support her...sio kuanza eti kumpiga biti..mmhhh ni kama kujaribu kumsukuma kidogo tu mtu aliye simama katika edge juu ghorofani, what d u expect? atasema..aaahhh, kumbe he isnt even worth it, najaribu kuona kama kabadilika na kajifunza kumbe yeye anajiona ndo yeye, ok fine..AM DONE, sasa nani atafaidika hapo? u ll both lose, d u want it that way?
Just tell her sh is stuck with you, ur not going anywhere and ur here to stay, but dnt pressure her for ur own selfish advantage... maana wewe unajitahidi kukifunikafunika kidonda wakati bado kibichi..yeye kwa mawazo yake anataka kikauke...so be patient (patience is a virtue).
Yani kwenye hii ishu ur the key player, uamuzi utakaochukua will hugely matter..and will decide ur fate.
Nakutania mawazo mema yenye uvumilivu, afterall, we humans were designed to solve problems, yes you can,
Hakuna jambo linalofanywa bila malengo... jaribu ushauri hapo juu lakini ikishindikana mwaga mbio..... Ulikuwa na maisha yako kabla yake na utaendelea kuwa na maisha yako baada ya huo uhusiano wenu!!! Wewew mwanamume!!!! Siku zote binadamu tunakosea sababu sisi sio malaika ila cha msingi ni kugundua kosa lako na kujisahihisha ili usijelirudia tena.... sasa kama umekiri kosa na kuomba msamaha na bado mtu hataki kukusamehe, achana nae atakuletea taabu mbeleni!!!!!
Pole sana,
Give her some space,she needs it,inakera mwanaume ukionyesha uko desperate kwa mwanamke......umemkosea,umetimiza wajibu wako wa kuomba msamaha na umemuomba yaishe yeye anakuchenga.....muonyeshe there is life without her,be strong my brother......
Inawezekana alikuwa anasubiri ukosee afanye hilo,usijilaumu sana wewe ni mwanadamu tena mwenye busara umejirudi ukaomba msamaha,hata kama umekuwa na relationship 200,if she was not meant for you,ndo basi tena.....time is a healer,let time define her actions....
Kila la kheri,ushauri wangu,mpe muda wa kuamua tena vizuri ukiweka time framework na ukamwambia,hajaamua by that time....LET HER GO,Mungu ni wa rehema,atakujalia mwingine au atamuelewesha kwa njia zake huyo dada thamani ya mwanaume aliyempoteza then atarudi na kama itakuwa poa utampokea ,kama sio itabidi yeye aanze maisha mengine.
Wandugu, :sad:
Ni GF wangu ambaye kwa kipindi kirefu ka miez 3 hivi tumekuwa kwenye mis'understandings, na nimemuomba sana msamaha but amekuwa mgumu kunisamehe.
Cha kushangaza ni kwamba kila akiongea na rafiki zake au dada yake anawaambia kuwa tumeshasolve na ku-clear our differences, but ukweli ni kwamba bado hajanisamehe.
Sasa juzi kati kaniambia kuwa Amenisamehe lakini hawezi kuwa kwenye relationship tena, ikabidi nimuombe rafiki yake anibembelezee, cha ajabu alichomwambia huyu rafiki yake ni kuwa mimi na yeye hatujaachana.
Wandugu kwa kweli huyu mtu ananichanganya sana, maana ki ukweli ni kwamba nampenda sana huyu binti na yote haya mimi ni sababu, lakini nimeshatubu. Sometimes nafeel ni give up, but naamua kuendeleza mapambano.
Nashindwa kabisa kuelewa msimamo wa huyu GF wangu, labda nisaidieni wandugu, hii tabia inaashiria nini? Shud I move on or ni-stick no mata wat?:sad:
Mtafutie kimwana mwingine afu mpite mbele yake huku mkiwa close,,kwa minajili ya kumpa majilasi tu na si zaidi ya hapo.
kwisha habari yake.
Pole sana,
Give her some space,she needs it,inakera mwanaume ukionyesha uko desperate kwa mwanamke......umemkosea,umetimiza wajibu wako wa kuomba msamaha na umemuomba yaishe yeye anakuchenga.....muonyeshe there is life without her,be strong my brother......
Inawezekana alikuwa anasubiri ukosee afanye hilo,usijilaumu sana wewe ni mwanadamu tena mwenye busara umejirudi ukaomba msamaha,hata kama umekuwa na relationship 200,if she was not meant for you,ndo basi tena.....time is a healer,let time define her actions....
Kila la kheri,ushauri wangu,mpe muda wa kuamua tena vizuri ukiweka time framework na ukamwambia,hajaamua by that time....LET HER GO,Mungu ni wa rehema,atakujalia mwingine au atamuelewesha kwa njia zake huyo dada thamani ya mwanaume aliyempoteza then atarudi na kama itakuwa poa utampokea ,kama sio itabidi yeye aanze maisha mengine.
mkuu ndo nini hiyo?? Mh! We need to do something. Najua utajttea kuwa hili siyo jukwaa la lugha...sawa ila duh!Womens womens womens......
Wandugu, :sad:
Ni GF wangu ambaye kwa kipindi kirefu ka miez 3 hivi tumekuwa kwenye mis'understandings, na nimemuomba sana msamaha but amekuwa mgumu kunisamehe.
Cha kushangaza ni kwamba kila akiongea na rafiki zake au dada yake anawaambia kuwa tumeshasolve na ku-clear our differences, but ukweli ni kwamba bado hajanisamehe.
Sasa juzi kati kaniambia kuwa Amenisamehe lakini hawezi kuwa kwenye relationship tena, ikabidi nimuombe rafiki yake anibembelezee, cha ajabu alichomwambia huyu rafiki yake ni kuwa mimi na yeye hatujaachana.
Wandugu kwa kweli huyu mtu ananichanganya sana, maana ki ukweli ni kwamba nampenda sana huyu binti na yote haya mimi ni sababu, lakini nimeshatubu. Sometimes nafeel ni give up, but naamua kuendeleza mapambano.
Nashindwa kabisa kuelewa msimamo wa huyu GF wangu, labda nisaidieni wandugu, hii tabia inaashiria nini? Shud I move on or ni-stick no mata wat?:sad:
Zingatia ushauri huo hapo Wa Husninyo...Soma mara 2.Bado anajipa nafasi ya kusahau uliyomfanyia ili akusamehe.Halafu na wewe ugomvi wenu sio mnatangaza kwa watu wengine. Inaelekea hapendi kuwashirikisha watu kuhusu mgogoro wenu ndio maana anawajibu hivyo.Komalia baba usamehewa.Halafu usijaribu kuuvunja moyo wa mwanamke maana kuuona ufalme wa mbinguni itakuwa ngumu.Pole eeh.
Husninyo hapo kwenye bold umenifurahisha!!Bado anajipa nafasi ya kusahau uliyomfanyia ili akusamehe.
Halafu na wewe ugomvi wenu sio mnatangaza kwa watu wengine. Inaelekea hapendi kuwashirikisha watu kuhusu mgogoro wenu ndio maana anawajibu hivyo.
Komalia baba usamehewa.
Halafu usijaribu kuuvunja moyo wa mwanamke maana kuuona ufalme wa mbinguni itakuwa ngumu.
Pole eeh.
Wandugu, :sad:
Ni GF wangu ambaye kwa kipindi kirefu ka miez 3 hivi tumekuwa kwenye mis'understandings, na nimemuomba sana msamaha but amekuwa mgumu kunisamehe.
Cha kushangaza ni kwamba kila akiongea na rafiki zake au dada yake anawaambia kuwa tumeshasolve na ku-clear our differences, but ukweli ni kwamba bado hajanisamehe.
Sasa juzi kati kaniambia kuwa Amenisamehe lakini hawezi kuwa kwenye relationship tena, ikabidi nimuombe rafiki yake anibembelezee, cha ajabu alichomwambia huyu rafiki yake ni kuwa mimi na yeye hatujaachana.
Wandugu kwa kweli huyu mtu ananichanganya sana, maana ki ukweli ni kwamba nampenda sana huyu binti na yote haya mimi ni sababu, lakini nimeshatubu. Sometimes nafeel ni give up, but naamua kuendeleza mapambano.
Nashindwa kabisa kuelewa msimamo wa huyu GF wangu, labda nisaidieni wandugu, hii tabia inaashiria nini? Shud I move on or ni-stick no mata wat?:sad: