Strict parents create Liars

Shining Light · May 10, 2024

I feel like many people who grew up with strict parents tend to become more adept at lying and manipulation. These individuals can deceive you, and it's often difficult to identify or catch them in their lies.

They believe they can get away with anything if given the chance to speak, as they are usually skilled at talking and negotiating.

I think parents should ease up a bit when it comes to raising their kids, because strictness can sometimes create individuals who are adept at blackmail, manipulation, and putting their needs before others'.

Shining Light · May 10, 2024

miviga

miviga · May 10, 2024

Shining Light said:
I feel like many people who grew up with strict parents tend to become more adept at lying and manipulation. These individuals can deceive you, and it's often difficult to identify or catch them in their lies.

They believe they can get away with anything if given the chance to speak, as they are usually skilled at talking and negotiating.

I think parents should ease up a bit when it comes to raising their kids, because strictness can sometimes create individuals who are adept at blackmail, manipulation, and putting their needs before others'.

When I read this, it was like you are describing someone whom I know, she applies manipulation very subtly and cleverly to the point that one blink of the eyes , you miss it.
Actually she got me during the early stages but now i can calculate every moves.

But to me I think some people by nature are manipulative and pathological liers, that parents are solely to blame, how do you see that?

Shining Light · May 10, 2024

miviga said:
When I read this, it was like you are describing someone whom I know, she applies manipulation very subtly and cleverly to the point that one blink of the eyes , you miss it.
Actually she got me during the early stages but now i can calculate every moves.

But to me I think some people by nature are manipulative and pathological liers, that parents are solely to blame, how do you see that?

You have to see it to be a manipulator, monsters are created not being born that way

covid 19 · May 10, 2024

Shining Light said:
I feel like many people who grew up with strict parents tend to become more adept at lying and manipulation. These individuals can deceive you, and it's often difficult to identify or catch them in their lies.

They believe they can get away with anything if given the chance to speak, as they are usually skilled at talking and negotiating.

I think parents should ease up a bit when it comes to raising their kids, because strictness can sometimes create individuals who are adept at blackmail, manipulation, and putting their needs before others'.

True very true indeed!

de Gunner · May 10, 2024

Shining Light said:
I feel like many people who grew up with strict parents tend to become more adept at lying and manipulation. These individuals can deceive you, and it's often difficult to identify or catch them in their lies.

They believe they can get away with anything if given the chance to speak, as they are usually skilled at talking and negotiating.

I think parents should ease up a bit when it comes to raising their kids, because strictness can sometimes create individuals who are adept at blackmail, manipulation, and putting their needs before others'.

Is it not the other way around? Strict parents make their kids more reserved!

Shining Light · May 10, 2024

covid 19 said:
True very true indeed!

What would you suggest?

Shining Light · May 10, 2024

de Gunner said:
Is it not the other way around? Strict parents make their kids more reserved!

huo ni uwongo, when parents are less strict makes communication esier, so it's not easy to lie or the need to manipulate

Mama Mwana · May 10, 2024

mambo ya vingereza msitusumbue na wazazi wenu wakali.

de Gunner · May 10, 2024

Shining Light said:
huo ni uwongo, when parents are less strict makes communication esier, so it's not easy to lie or the need to manipulate

My parents were so strict mbona naona hao waliokuwa hawabaniwi ndo vichwa vibovu.? Mtoto anapokuwa na uhuru ndo anaweza kufanya chochote na hata kuwa na discipline kwa wengine

Forest Hill · May 10, 2024

Mama Mwana said:
mambo ya vingereza msitusumbue na wazazi wenu wakali.

Anasema mwanao naa akizingua usimchekee tia fimbo nyingi,kulea watoto kwa kudekeza kunafanya wanakua wahongo wahongo

covid 19 · May 10, 2024

Shining Light said:
What would you suggest?

Parents should balance discipline with fostering honesty and empathy to mitigate these negative outcomes.

covid 19 · May 10, 2024

Shining Light said:
What would you suggest?

Parents should balance discipline with fostering honesty and empathy to mitigate these negative outcomes.

miviga · May 10, 2024

Shining Light said:
You have to see it to be a manipulator, monsters are created not being born that way

No, you must not ignore the contribution of nature on child’s development

Shining Light · May 10, 2024

Forest Hill said:
Anasema mwanao naa akizingua usimchekee tia fimbo nyingi,kulea watoto kwa kudekeza kunafanya wanakua wahongo wahongo

Hehehe mtoto anaogopa adabu atakudanganya tu na atahakikisha atafanya chochote usimkamate kwenye uwongo wake.

Shining Light · May 10, 2024

miviga said:
No, you must not ignore the contribution of nature on child’s development

sometimes a child can be so secretive for you to understand the issues she, or He is going through, so it's not about ignoring but detaching yourself with the child since the child will be scared of u

Shining Light · May 10, 2024

de Gunner said:
My parents were so strict mbona naona hao waliokuwa hawabaniwi ndo vichwa vibovu.? Mtoto anapokuwa na uhuru ndo anaweza kufanya chochote na hata kuwa na discipline kwa wengine

Hii ni debate it could be true or not

de Gunner · May 10, 2024

Shining Light said:
Hii ni debate it could be true or not

Starting from you, were your parents strict?

Shining Light · May 10, 2024

de Gunner said:
Starting from you, were your parents strict?

Been raised with multiple guardians can really explain it

de Gunner · May 10, 2024

Shining Light said:
Been raised with multiple guardians can really explain it

OK then, with all guardians did any of them stop you from doing the things you like even if it was not morally okay?

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