This is the type of discussion that changes my day from a sunny lovely to a rainy muddy one. . .
Mwanajamiione, nadhani sio lazima Nyumba Ndogo ikukere. wengine wanaona sawa tu. Binafsi kinacho nikera zaidi ni the lies involved. Kama mambo yote yanawekwa wazi, then people can take any decision knowing that it is based on facts, not assumptions.
Ukisema I have the perfect marriage, you know what you mean, ukisema I want to leave my man you know what you mean. But most of men lie to both Nyumba kubwa and Nyumba Ndogo who then believe in things that don't really exist and that is what makes it even uglier than it already is to me.