The great the distance the great the love!

[Mathias BM]

Niliwahi kumnasa mwanasaikolojia fulani anasema"the great the distance the great the love" akimaanisha kwa tafsiri isiyo rasmi kuwa, jinsi wapenzi wanavyoweza kutengeneza umbali flani kati yao ndivyo mapenzi yao huongezeka maradufu. Ninaposema umbali namaanisha mazingira yafuatayo;
1. Epuka kumpigia mwenzi wako simu mara kwa mara, mfn asubuhi, mchana, jioni, usiku n.k hali kadhalika sms. Hali hiyo ya mara kwa mara itafamfanya mwenzi kuzoea mazungumzo yako, fikra zako na hivyo kupunguza uthamani.
2.Epuka kuwa katika hali ileile kila siku, mfn unaonesha kuchangamka sana, kukasirika, kufurahi, utani, kubembeleza(soft language) umakini( overseriousness) n.k. Hii itamfanya kuizoea hali hiyo na kukuona wa kawaida kwa kuto-experience mabadiliko. Jaribu kuwa dynamic.
3. Epuka kukaa au kutembea na mwenzi wako kila wakati. Kukaa au kutembea na mwenzi wako ni muhimu katika mahusiano lakini isiwe ni kila wakati na kila mahali. Kwa kufanya hivyo utamwongezea mwenzi wako hisia zaidi za upendo.
....Zitaendelea nxt tym in II

 

[Kaunga]

Hiyo ni namna moja ya kuangalia mahusiano.

 

[SnowBall]

Sometimes we need to let it go in order to experience the difference..

 

[Caroline Danzi]

There is a reality! ila ya kuna watu wengine usipopiga simu ndiy unaachwa. Mapenzi bwana, ni kizungurukamoto haya fomula!! Let it go

 

[Von Mo]

there is a reality! Ila ya kuna watu wengine usipopiga simu ndiy unaachwa. Mapenzi bwana, ni kizungurukamoto haya fomula!! Let it go

ya smtym you need to give a woman a chance to miss you

 

[felinda]

mapenzi hayana formula just mautundu 2,

 

[First Born]

100% ukweli mtupu! Nina experience na mambo hayo!

 

[Glory91]

Natamani bf wangu angeelewa na kukubaliana na hili....:A S 39:

 

[Voice of Wisdom]

Natamani bf wangu angeelewa na kukubaliana na hili....:A S 39:

bf huwa haelewi haya mambo kwani bado ni watoto, so akikua ataelewa.

 

[Glory91]

bf huwa haelewi haya mambo kwani bado ni watoto, so akikua ataelewa.

Kwani unadhani ni mtoto basi?ni mtu mzima bana actually he is my fiancee.

 

[Mahmetkid]

Niliwahi kumnasa mwanasaikolojia fulani anasema"the great the distance the great the love" akimaanisha kwa tafsiri isiyo rasmi kuwa, jinsi wapenzi wanavyoweza kutengeneza umbali flani kati yao ndivyo mapenzi yao huongezeka maradufu. Ninaposema umbali namaanisha mazingira yafuatayo;
1. Epuka kumpigia mwenzi wako simu mara kwa mara, mfn asubuhi, mchana, jioni, usiku n.k hali kadhalika sms. Hali hiyo ya mara kwa mara itafamfanya mwenzi kuzoea mazungumzo yako, fikra zako na hivyo kupunguza uthamani.
2.Epuka kuwa katika hali ileile kila siku, mfn unaonesha kuchangamka sana, kukasirika, kufurahi, utani, kubembeleza(soft language) umakini( overseriousness) n.k. Hii itamfanya kuizoea hali hiyo na kukuona wa kawaida kwa kuto-experience mabadiliko. Jaribu kuwa dynamic.
3. Epuka kukaa au kutembea na mwenzi wako kila wakati. Kukaa au kutembea na mwenzi wako ni muhimu katika mahusiano lakini isiwe ni kila wakati na kila mahali. Kwa kufanya hivyo utamwongezea mwenzi wako hisia zaidi za upendo.
....Zitaendelea nxt tym in II

1 is no
2 and 3 are yes

Weakness in communication it express changes in other side.

 

[phina]

i think what he meant is that if the two of you are very far apart and what is between you lasts or grows stronger the your love is great..
not that you should stay away from each other!
although absence makes the heart grow fonder it may not necessarily strengthen your relationship..(speaking from experience)