To ''love'' and ''feel loved''...!

To ''love'' and ''feel loved''...!

NIMEKUELEWA VIZURI sana hapo sipiyuu....!

swali langu la msingi sasa:

IF I LOVE SOMEONE.....AND NOT FEEL LOVED BY HIME/HER(certainly he/she doesn't love me),yet I HAVE DONE ENOUGH TO PROVE MY LOVE TO HIME/HER WITHOUT HIM/HER SHOW/LOVE ME BACK(i gave somebody my love,my body,my soul,my trust lakini yeye hata hajali kabisa).....!what do i do?
a)keep on going through the hell?
b)give up?
c)none of the above?
 
NIMEKUELEWA VIZURI sana hapo sipiyuu....!

swali langu la msingi sasa:

IF I LOVE SOMEONE.....AND NOT FEEL LOVED BY HIME/HER(certainly he/she doesn't love me),yet I HAVE DONE ENOUGH TO PROVE MY LOVE TO HIME/HER WITHOUT HIM/HER SHOW/LOVE ME BACK(i gave somebody my love,my body,my soul,my trust lakini yeye hata hajali kabisa).....!what do i do?
a)keep on going through the hell?
b)give up?
c)none of the above?
 
If we are to be loving, we must do more than feel love towards someone. To feel love is good. When we feel love others may feel it too. Unfortunately, when we don't act in a loving way, we begin to distance ourselves from the feeling of love. When we are impatient, angry, unkind, resentful and depressed. Additionally our loving feelings are deepened - we come more deeply connected to them - as those who we actively express our love towards return it in kind.
 
The Finest said:
If we are to be loving, we must do more than feel love towards someone. To feel love is good. When we feel love others may feel it too. Unfortunately, when we don't act in a loving way, we begin to distance ourselves from the feeling of love. When we are impatient, angry, unkind, resentful and depressed. Additionally our loving feelings are deepened - we come more deeply connected to them - as those who we actively express our love towards return it in kind.
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TF have you ever been in love??? please think carefully and remember the so called love if you have ever experienced it...
 
Love, love, love ...... tunajifunza kila siku lakini hata shule yake hatupati vyeti, tuna sup hata kusapua hatuwezi, all in all just try to give a lot and lots of love to your loved ones and all will come your way.
 
Huyu ambae kilasiku wakitaka kutoka na mtu wake anaambiwa tangulia sehemu flani nitakukuta naye anapendwa?
 
Hebu nirudie tena kusoma

"... to LOVE... & ... to feel LOVED..."

I need a cold BEER to understand this hypothesis!
 
Teamo my dear
Upendo kitu ambacho binafsi nakielewa
Huwezi kabisa kuacha kumpenda mtu kama kweli
kuna upendo wa dhati na wa ndani kabisa..
anawza akukosesha amani, raha na hata akuingize
mahali pabaya sana lakini bado utakuwa naye moyoni ..

Inauma sana pale unampo mpenda mtu lakini
lakini huyo mtu anampenda mtu mwingine au
hakupendi tu wewe.. nilichogundua huwezi kununua
upendo waweza mpa kila kitu waweza hata wewe kujikosesha
ili yeye apate lakini kama hakupendi atakutumia tu na kujificha
nyuma ya neno ( Upendo )
 
Mfalme wa Amani, i prefer to love and to feel loved ikiwa mm nitapenda halafu hakuna inreturn nitagive up aisee,kwa maelezo zaidi ntakuja usalule
 
Asha D said:
TF have you ever been in love??? please think carefully and remember the so called love if you have ever experienced it...
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What can i say Asha D yes i have been in love well may be it might be different from others lol!!!!
 
The Finest said:
What can i say Asha D yes i have been in love well may be it might be different from others lol!!!!
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The way ume define how you feel love from the later post.... Itabidi niweke huu mjadala pending for I believe hatutafika leo...lol
 
afrodenzi said:
Teamo my dear
Upendo kitu ambacho binafsi nakielewa
Huwezi kabisa kuacha kumpenda mtu kama kweli
kuna upendo wa dhati na wa ndani kabisa..
anawza akukosesha amani, raha na hata akuingize
mahali pabaya sana lakini bado utakuwa naye moyoni ..

Inauma sana pale unampo mpenda mtu lakini
lakini huyo mtu anampenda mtu mwingine au
hakupendi tu wewe.. nilichogundua huwezi kununua
upendo waweza mpa kila kitu waweza hata wewe kujikosesha
ili yeye apate lakini kama hakupendi atakutumia tu na kujificha
nyuma ya neno ( Upendo )
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These words makes me think a lot.
 
nimewaelewa vyema sana afrodenzi na wiselady......!

hivi wajameni na hii misemo ya siku hivi....!DO YOU BELIEVE IN THESE SAYINGS?
-love is blind
-love doesn't ask why
-love is when yours and mine become ours
-loves makes the world go around
 
Sasa mzee kama mimi mwenye umri wa miaka "57" sijui nichangie nini hapa maana naona ni vitoto tu vilivyochangia!! Teh tih teh tih teh......hivi "watu wazima" wenzangu mpo kweli humu?
 
Teamo said:
NIMEKUELEWA VIZURI sana hapo sipiyuu....!

swali langu la msingi sasa:

IF I LOVE SOMEONE.....AND NOT FEEL LOVED BY HIME/HER (certainly he/she doesn't love me), yet I HAVE DONE ENOUGH TO PROVE MY LOVE TO HIME/HER WITHOUT HIM/HER SHOW/LOVE ME BACK(i gave somebody my love,my body,my soul,my trust lakini yeye hata hajali kabisa).....!what do i do?
a)keep on going through the hell?
b)give up?
c)none of the above?
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Extension Kebo

Kuna tatizo moja hapa naliona.
Binadamu wengi siku hizi tunachukulia upendo kama ni kitu ADIMU SANA/ANASA SANA kiasi kwamba ni wachache sana, au baadhi ya watu tu ndio hustahili kupata UPENDO.

Hebu jiulize nafsini; " . . . Je, nimejijengea tabia ya kuonyesha UPENDO WA KWELI kwa mtu yeyote pasipo kujali alivyo?"
Bila shaka nafsini utajijibu HAPANA.
Sasa jiongeleshe nafsini; " . . . kama ni HAPANA, basi hapa nitaonekana UPENDO WANGU ni wa gharama, lazima ulipiwe (PAY BACK), Je hii ni sawa? Je, na imani yangu inanifundishaje kuhusu UPENDO?"
"Je haya maneno "" . . . . ''..Ninalindwa kuliko wakuu wa Dunia ..Upendo Wa Yesu Wanizunguka!..'' nayaelewa vizuri, hasa huo upendo wa Yesu?. Je nilimlipa nini Yesu alipokufa kwa ajiri ya dhambi zangu???"

Hitimisho:

Kuonyesha mapenzi/upendo ni kujitolea, sio ajira.
Kupenda/kuonyesha upendo yapaswa iwe sehemu ya MAHITAJI yako ktk maisha na wala si majukumu ya kutegemea kulipwa mshahara mwisho wa mwezi (nisome vizuri sana hapa). Huo ndio upendo halisi.
PENDA PASIPO KIKOMO WALA MALIPO!!!!
 
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