Mkuu, uzi kama huu lazima uteke hisia za watu coz unagusa the inner part of our hearts so usishangae sana.
Watu wanawaza future yako na huyo jamaa, wanarudi kuwaza kuhusu huyo mke mkubwa, wapo watoto katikati hapo so it must be a complicated case. Sio kwamba watu ni watakatifu, no ilà hii mada ina uzito coz inagusa maisha ya watu.
Hapa wewe unaweza kulichukulia lightly, lakini kuna watoto wanaweza kutelekezwa in the name of love, kuna mama anaweza kuishi kwa frustration hadi kufa kwa sonona kisa maamuzi utakayofanya.
Mimi namuona huyo jamaa mkosefu sana, anamkosea mkewe lakini anaiharibu nyumba yake, you've come in the middle of everything but he deserves the blame, angetulizana ungebaki na kijana huyo maisha yakaenda, but he didn't.
He's a successful man kutokana na maelezo yako, mind you his wife has a hand in it. Hakufanikiwa tu hivi hivi, leo kapata anaona ni heri aoe kwa siri, WTF is he thinking? Sasa wewe ndio muonyeshe kuwa anachofanya sio sahihi, he should go back to his beautiful wife alee vijana wake, wewe rudi kwa huyo kijana muanze maisha yenu. In the end hata wewe utakuwa proud na mafanikio yako na mumeo, sio hiyo "readymade" uliyoikuta hapo. Watu wanaanza mbali jamani, oneni tu majumba, magari et al, watu wameanzia chini mno. Why usiwe sehemu ya historia ya familia yako?
BTW, ungejaribu kumtafuta huyo bi'mama akupe ABC za jamaa, huenda you don't know him that much. That's my two cents!!