Ujumbe wa mapenzi - love message

[Haika]

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

true, true!!
True love is not perfect love, is not 'waiting to receive what I want' but ready to give anytime. It does not seek comfort

 

[Ben Saanane]

Huyo Ade unamthamini au unataka kumdhamini benki?

Ha ha ha,mkulima kala mbegu.

 

[Yona F. Maro]

I am gonna love you till the end I will love you till I die I will see you in the sky Everything will be alright No one moves, no one talks No one thinks, no one walks tonight

 

[Sanda Matuta]

"..............Natamani ningekua machozi,ili nitiririke mashavuni kwako wakati wa huzuni na furaha yako.........."


i Heard, this from a boy to a girl on the phone

 

[Sokomoko]

I've decided to write to you. The quantity of words is never what is important, but what counts is the quality of those words. A perfect love, a best friend and a good love is what am looking for. and that you are that man so passionate and romantic and you always inspire my heart and soul, and that i will always treat you like a king.

You are special, and i know by now that you are my destiny. I would not like to spend a lot of time finding out, and I want you to take me away with you if that is truly
what you wish deep in your heart and your soul and I can assure you that I
would make you the happiest man in the world.It is up to you to let me know what you think, what you feel and what you truly hope and wish for you.

and when you make up your mind can find me here waiting for you

Even if love is full of thorns, I'd still embrace it for I know that in between those thorns, there is a rose that's worth all the pain.

 

[Sokomoko]

To love you forever, your promise to me, my promise to you, it set our love free. To love in the morning, to love in the night, our friendship so stong, impervious to a gods might. To love through the good and love through the bad, To love eachother no matter what, even when sad. To love in the cold to keep eachother warm, our love is the shelter that will keep out the storm. To love you is my soul my breath my heart, youve owned all these things, right from the start. I give you myself, my life is complete, to marry you my darling would make it more sweet. To love who you are and love what you do, is my promise forever i will always love you. So my promise to you and your promise to me, to love you forever as true as it be.


Notes From The Author:
To the woman who holds my heart in the palm of her hand.

 

[Nyaralego]

this to me is the best ujumbe wa mapenzi by Elizabeth Barrett Browning. born 6th March 1806-died 29, June, 1861.
"How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday's
Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right.
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints--I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life!--and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death"

 

[Boma]

safiiiii sana

 

[Kilinzibar]

is it love or feelings or both makes one thing!!! some one tel me something here...

i love all but hey no feelings sawa!!!!

 

[Magehema]

If I had to choose whether to breathe or to love you, I would use my last breath to tell you that... I love you

Duh, hii lazima itakuwa kamba!

 

[Yona F. Maro]

IF U TRULY LOVE THAT SOMEONE... JUS GO RIGHT UP TO HIM OR HER OR GIVE A PHONE CALL RIGHT NOW TO SAY "I lUV U " AND EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS FOR THAT PERSON B4 IT'S TOO LATE!!!!!

 

[shababi]

Wadau nimeshikwa na binti m1 wa kimbulu. Ananitesa kishenzi nampenda cwezi kueleza tatizo ni kwamba hataki kueleza ukweli kama ana mwingine.mara kadhaa amekua akinikatia cmu akidai kwamba kwao wanamkataza kuwa na cmu. Mbaya zaid ninapokua nae hayupo huru kunieleza ukweli kama ana mtu mwingine. Nimejaribu kumshawishi aniambie ukweli kwani ntaumia lakini ntamsahau, Wakati mwingine huwa anazima cmu siku tatu akidai yuko busy sa cjui. Tulishawah kuwa mbali kwa muda kama miezi 6.nimeambiwa alikua na mtu lakini hataki kuniambia ukweli.cjui ni kwanini. Nimekua nikimwuliza kama ananipenda anadai bado ananipenda. naomben ushauri. wadau

 

[PELE]

Does True Love Still Exists!

Yes true love exist even today, but it is very difficult to find TL today as compared to those old good days.

 

[Ujengelele]

[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By miamimami1 on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 2:39 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
Just wondering what others think. I'm really becoming a sceptic as of late with what you see on a day to day basis with relationships.
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By the_oracle on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 2:41 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
A sceptic as in septic tank or as in magic? Either one would be a shitty thought!
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By miamimami1 on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 2:43 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
I misspelled the word, big deal. Skeptic, r u happy now?
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By the_oracle on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 2:47 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
Bout damn time.......

It's whatever/wherever/however you may find it or perceive it to be. How bout you tell in your own words what true love is?
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By strictlyconfidential on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 3:02 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
"True" love exists and its just as difficult to find it with the person you desire most as it is for the person who wants that connection with you.
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By mydicks on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 3:15 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
Of course it does!
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By evening_breeze on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 3:57 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
Romantic love is overblown and I am not just saying that because I am a bitter ex-husband. I just have some sober insights. You could go knocking your head against a stone all day trying to figure it out. Commit to someone for many years of your life only to have it end and all those wasted years of sacrifice down the drain.


But let me try to give you some positives. The concept of romantic love is not set in stone. It has evolved over the centuries as human societies have evolved.

I could go on and spawn huge long paragraphs on the topic but I will spare you all and skip to the the bottom line.

While the meaning of true love may differ among people both people involved in a relationship must be prepared to commit and sacrifice in the long run. The other person must become a part of you. Both people must nurture the relationship and step up to protect or support the other person no matter what.
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By fynest~texxx2 on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 7:00 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
Romantic Love (as described above) I don't believe exists, and if it does - is extremely hard to find.
Lust & sex has taken over the dating scene to the point that anyone remotely wanting a real relationship based on compatibility and cohesiveness cannot find it.
Now days, I believe you have to mentally and emotionally bring yourself to closure to accept one of two things:
1. Adjust to the mainstream ideology of "relationships" and accept hypersexualized, short lived connections or,
2. Accept being single due to your personal convictions and take the consequences thereof.

I spent all of my Twenties holding out on "love" and believing to conduct myself according to what I thought was the correct way to obtain it. Now, after finally coming out of my "fairy tale stupor", I've come to the realization that Love (or a variation of it) only comes to those who are willing to modify their way of thinking and physical actions to obtain something equivalent to it.

If anyone truly finds real love, I would hope they would fight life and limb to keep it because love is truly like playing the lottery - there's only a one in a million chance to strike it.
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By hot_2_def on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 8:08 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
"true love" is a momentary relationship benefit - has nothing to do with "love"
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By rabbit_dick on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 8:46 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
Sure true love is in the air,,as long as you got the money.
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By ucantblockthesun on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 8:58 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
Sheesh!

I'm glad ion know any of u miserable mofos in real life...sounds like summa yall need to tear down that wall of bitterness around your heart so true love can enter.

True love is easier to find than you think...most of the time, it is sitting right in front of your face. People just have to let go of these unrealistic ideas of what a relationship is suposed to be...

Hell I know I wouldn't be the man I am without my wife. She was the one who convinced me to get outta the street life
and she stuck with me even when I had nothing. Even when we were seperated, she ultimately had my back if I REALLY needed her. When we look back at all we've been thru, we feel as tho we can take on the world as long as we're by each others side. I can't describe the feeling with words, u just have to experience what it's like to have another person complete you...to have them point out flaws in yourself that you can't see all for the purpose of strengthening the FAMILY as a whole and vice versa...

When you mature and discover what's REALLY important in life, it's a beautiful thing

[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By hotnsweet on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 9:25 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
I agree with U Can't...
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By classicdeville on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 9:28 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
"Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove.
O no, it is an ever-fixèd mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;"

That is an excerpt from my favorite Shakespearean sonnet and in my estimation, a true representation of romantic "love."

It can and does exist, but only when both partners have unadulterated passion for the other. If that is not the case, or if at any point that fact is no longer the case, a chasm develops that will allow for unrest, unease, infidelity, untruths, even dissolution.

It's becoming less and less likely to find, because too many today are tying themselves up with imposters.

When we find the right person for ourselves, all can expect to suffer the slings and arrows of life. That is unavoidable. But, surviving them in good stead is the proof that you are indeed, with the right person.
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By ~thatsthetruth~ on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 9:50 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
Yes indeed true love exists...

...
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By jayw on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 9:57 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
Very Little exist.
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By navypoet on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 10:04 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
[SIZE=-2]Preach Ms. Classic.
I have missed your balanced voice lately.[/SIZE]

Co-signing with classicdeville and ghost
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By gentlemanjim43 on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 10:05 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
It exists , might not always be between man & woman though . Rent Greyfriars Bobby if you can find it .
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By topazb on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 10:13 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
i agree with classic and ucant. it does exist. some of us need to change our definition of true love. romantic love is only one aspect of true love. agape love is not always possible but it to me is more of a love that is true.
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By ~tanchoclit~ on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 10:17 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
agree^^^

people need to stop looking for prince/princess charming
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By tripod_2004 on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 10:24 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
It all depends on your definition of true and of love.
Different things mean different things to different people, at different times in their lives.
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By l8nite on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 10:49 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
What Trip said.....Love is an emotion, WTF is "True", a HIGHER degree of LOVE.

Tan I agree, I use to, and still think those fairy tales and romance novels clouded peoples opinions of what love is.
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By topazb on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 10:55 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
love is an ability ....
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By ~tanchoclit~ on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 11:06 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
love is a battlefield
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By topazb on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 11:09 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
true indeed @tan

[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By 1black9 on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 11:13 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
i believe LOVE first comes from GOD for HE IS LOVE.... when u learn to love GOD and understnd his Love for his creation then Love. GOD love...self love....neighbor love...then romatic love... jmo
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By theblack on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 11:17 am:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
True love is not a fairy tale. That's where people mess up, believing it's going to be easy because the other person is going to make them happy. Fairy tales end with, "...and they lived happily ever after...The End."

After "The End" is where the work begins to make true love keep working. It takes two working together ever after to get the job done. The work never stops.
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By theteepee on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 12:30 pm:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
Sure is a lot of cynicism in the world.
[FONT=Verdana,Arial,Helvetica][SIZE=-1][SIZE=-1]By bootyfulwife on Sunday, December 27, 2009 - 12:30 pm:[/SIZE][/SIZE][/FONT]
"The work never stops." ^^^

AMEN!!!!

 

[Preta]

if love is a crime then am guilty

 

[KakaJambazi]

Marrige is not living with the person you love,,but living with the person you cant live without.

 

[Nyuki]

mke wangu tupendane kama kumbikumbi,tutembeapo wewe mbele mimi nyuma.

 

[KIFARU]

Unafahamu kiasi gani mpenzi wangu nakupenda? wakati mvua ikinyesha simama katikati ya kiwanja, daka matone yashukayo, yale utakayoyakosa ni kiasi cha mahaba yangu kwako.

 

[Ambassador]

HIGH SCHOOL LOVE LETTERS:

Time and ability plus double capacity has forced my pen to dance automatically on this benedicted sheet of paper. Why! this miraculous thing happened is because papie I love you spontaneously and as I stand horizontal to the wall and perpendicular to the ground I only think of you, since you are a fantastic and fabulous guy. papie please Stop haranguing with the feelings in my heart because I love you more than a snake loves rat. To me each day starts by thinking of you and ends by dreaming of you. Each time I see you my metabolism suddenly stops and my peristalysis goes in reverse gear. My medular-oblandata also stops functioning.
Crazy crazy crazy you may say but this is true. If only you knew what is going on in my encephalon you would understand. That's why I need to see you face to face with you, soon. I think I have to pen-off hear because I still haven't finished studying electrolysis and polymerization. Catch you pa- later. Sleep tight and don't let those bed bugs ever bite you coz you are too sweet a thing for them.

RESPONSE:

My Love, My Sugar, i was exasperated with pride to have received one from you, the lungs in my body flapped with joy when i have been reading your letter. Anyway by now you have reached the realisations to why i am jotting this small letter to you, yes it is to see if you are keeping with the sands of time.

How is everything on that other side of yours? Well here everything is just half lemon half sugar to makeit schweppes. How is your schooling? How are you pulling the wagons of life? I am just pulling the schooling thing like a donkey pulling a cart.

My honie, i am missing you very much right now, my heart is perambulating with every word that i write, if it was not for these oceans that decided to flow between us then i would get on the next bus to come and see you, but until then i know that i will not hesitate to put this blue blood on this paper and write to you. I remember that day lovie, that one sweet day as Maria Curry sanged it, you know that it is my favorites song honie, the one day that we were boarding the combies and you escorted me to my home, walking with you just brought sweet dreams to me for the rest of my life honie.

If words of love could ride a bicycle I would be competing against Diego Maradona. Anyways, i will not stop you from reading the books that give you life and education so I will stop here for today.
Please always writing to me because I am missing you like sugar misses tea. You can see my foto below

My dedications to you are :

Maria Curry - One Sweet Day.
Boys to Main - And of the Rod

Keep well my mop of my heart, Yours in flesh and in blood, Ruise Sugar Baby

P.S. Sorry about my english, I did not learn anymore

 

[Radical]

I would rather be ya N.I.G.G.A so we can get drunk, smoke weed all day.