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REAL PEOPLE DON'T HAVE TO PROVE ANYTHING TO ANYBODY: "Real People"

DIGEST: Pay attention to perfecting your craft, and becoming whoever it is that you desire to become!

You alone are enough you have nothing to prove to anybody. -Maya Angelou

When people truly know who they are, they don't have to continually prove it to people over and over again. In my experiences, when talking to people who only talk about their own merits, and the things that they feel they have done in their lives, it later comes out that huge parts of their lives aren't really as great as they would have liked for you to believe.

Real people recognize that they don't have to prove anything to anybody but their own selves, and they make their moves in life from this belief.

Nobody can dream for you, and no one can take away any hope or dream that you have inside of you.

So instead of paying attention to what everyone else is doing, and what everyone thinks of what you are doing, pay attention to the tasks at hand.

Pay attention to perfecting your craft, and becoming whoever it is that you desire to become!

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Moral Stories

Rose for Mother

A man stopped at a flower shop to order some flowers to be wired to his mother who lived two hundred miles away. As he got out of his car he noticed a young girl sitting on the curb sobbing. He asked her what was wrong and she replied, “I wanted to buy a red rose for my mother. But I only have seventy-five cents, and a rose costs two dollars.”

The man smiled and said, “Come on in with me. I’ll buy you a rose.” He bought the little girl her rose and ordered his own mother’s flowers. As they were leaving he offered the girl a ride home. She said, “Yes, please! You can take me to my mother.” She directed him to a cemetery, where she placed the rose on a freshly dug grave.

The man returned to the flower shop, canceled the wire order, picked up a bouquet and drove the two hundred miles to his mother’s house.



Moral: Life is Short. Spend much time as you can loving and caring people who love you. Enjoy each moment with them before it’s too late. There is nothing important than family.

[emoji271][emoji271][emoji271]Be Socratic[emoji271][emoji271][emoji271]
“Judge a man by his questions rather than his answers.” Voltaire
I’ve always said that engineering taught me one thing, how to solve problems. I can see now how this is only partially true. While I learned a lot about analytical thinking, there were some big gaps. For example, I never learned Socratic questioning.

Looking back, I can only imagine the solutions I would have discovered if I had this skill. Socratic questioning fuels critical thinking.

R.W. Paul describes six types of questions. Regardless of the problem, these questions can help me come up with better solutions.

[emoji257]Get clear about the situation: Ask, why do you say that or how does this relate to our discussion
[emoji257]Test assumptions to find facts: Ask, what could we assume instead? How can you verify or disapprove an assumption?
[emoji257]Find examples of truth: Ask, what would be an example? What is this like? What do you think causes that to happen?
[emoji257]Look at the problem from a different angle: Ask, what would be an alternative? What is another way to look at it? Can you explain why it is necessary or beneficial, and who benefits?
[emoji257]Think about the results of actions: Ask, What are the consequences of that assumption? What are you implying? How does X affect Y?
[emoji257]Question the question: What was the point of this question? What does X mean?

[emoji271][emoji271][emoji271]Avoid negative thinking[emoji271][emoji271][emoji271]
“If you can solve your problem, then what is the need of worrying? If you cannot solve it, then what is the use of worrying?” Shantideva
I’ve never been able to solve a hard problem when I start with negative thoughts. If I say to myself “there is no solution,” I’ll never find one. If I say “this won’t work,” I’ll never pursue that angle. If I say to myself “I’m out of ideas,” I won’t come up with any new ones.

Negative thinking will defeat any problem solver before they even begin. It’s a waste of energy and time.

Part of the reason negativity creeps in is our fear of failure. Here’s the thing, failing to solve the problem is a failure. In my mind it’s always better to try to resolve the issue and fail, than never try at all.

Sure the solution may not work. If it fails, I’m still in a better place. I learned something new, and I can apply my knowledge to the next big problem I face. If it works, I continue to build my reputation of being the “go-to-guy” for big issues. I win either way.[emoji257][emoji257][emoji257]

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'Opportunities' & 'Obstacles' are equal for ALL. BUT the difference is that,
A positive 'person' gives Results and[emoji817]%
And
A negative 'person' gives Reasons .. !![emoji119]

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