First its Lagatege[jina la ukoo] not Lagatende na kama hujapata hata mwanga kidogo kwenye michango hii 60 sidhani kama hata tukichangia zaidi utafaidika.
Wanawake huwa wanapenda/kuhitaji nini?
Wanawake huwa wanapenda/kuhitaji nini?
- Thread starter Mshiiri
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First its Lagatege[jina la ukoo] not Lagatende na kama hujapata hata mwanga kidogo kwenye michango hii 60 sidhani kama hata tukichangia zaidi utafaidika.
Marlenevdc
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That is why some people claim that men and women come from different planets! There are others who simply say that we were made in such a way as to complicate each other's lives!
Mfamaji
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Hili ndilo swali. Wha does she want. Even if you give her every material things,love etal plus daily pumping yet she will come with another deadly disappointment. Tumjibu kama kuna wmeye jibu please.
Mfamaji
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Thats why they are called women. hata maandiko yanasema '' Kaeni nao kwa makini hao"
yakimaanisha hao ni women. If she is too happy i mean she gets everything , she wants to share them with someone else , if she is sad and lacking , she wants to get it from someone...everytime love will be used as a disguise.
yakimaanisha hao ni women. If she is too happy i mean she gets everything , she wants to share them with someone else , if she is sad and lacking , she wants to get it from someone...everytime love will be used as a disguise.
LazyDog
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mshiiri,
Do you think men and women were made to complicate each other's lives? Why, (if you answer is yes)?
Discussion itakwenda vizuri ikiwa utauliza maswali ambayo bado hujapata majibu yake. And please be specific!
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Umenichekesha ndugu hujui ukinyamaza ataanza soo jingine kua unamdharau
Chichi mfungo umeisha.waiting to hear from u.
Fisadi.Jones
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Wanaume wanachukulia wanawake wote ni sawa.
Huo ndio mwanzo wa matatizo.
Wanawake wako tofauti sana nikwambie. Na mahitaji yao, na expectations zao pia zinatofautiana. Kama ulikuwa unatafuta magic-formula, umeanza vibaya, rudi nyuma anza upya.
Ila nitakusaidia kidogo.
Rule 1: Mjue mwenzi wako.Kwa uhusiano wowote unaouanza, hakikisha unamtafuta kumjua huyo mwenzi wako. Usi-assume tu kwamba atakuwa anataka/expect hiki na kile kwa sababu tu washkaji zako wamekwambia, au kwa sababu tu umesoma kwenye forum, au kwa sababu uliyeachana naye ndio vile.
Rule hii itakusaidia hata katika mahusiano mengine yasiyokuwa ya mapenzi, kama na bosi wako kazini.
Rule 2: Mpe atakacho kama huwezi mwambie wazi
Ukishajua anataka nini bwana usimbanie. Unless hujafika. Mpe na usisubiri upewe.
Kama kipo nje ya uwezo wako. Mwambie, na umeeleweshe.
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Rule nyingine zinakuja kwenye kitabu changu kitakachochapishwa hivi karibuni ... stay tuned ...
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Rule 30: Mkamue hasa
Unaweza ukawa unadhani ukimpeleka ki-staarabu ndio atakupenda zaidi. Mara nyingi utaumia kwasababu kama yeye ni mmoja wa wale wanaoangalia sana TV, atakuacha na hutajua ni kwa nini. Mkamue hasa, sehemu yoyoye, saa yoyote, kwa staili zote, (kadiri pumzi yako inavyokuruhusu).
Ila akisema inatosha, tulia. Na tumia muda huo kukusanya nguvu maana hutaki ukirudi ulale baada ya secunde mbili.
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Huo ndio mwanzo wa matatizo.
Wanawake wako tofauti sana nikwambie. Na mahitaji yao, na expectations zao pia zinatofautiana. Kama ulikuwa unatafuta magic-formula, umeanza vibaya, rudi nyuma anza upya.
Ila nitakusaidia kidogo.
Rule 1: Mjue mwenzi wako.Kwa uhusiano wowote unaouanza, hakikisha unamtafuta kumjua huyo mwenzi wako. Usi-assume tu kwamba atakuwa anataka/expect hiki na kile kwa sababu tu washkaji zako wamekwambia, au kwa sababu tu umesoma kwenye forum, au kwa sababu uliyeachana naye ndio vile.
Rule hii itakusaidia hata katika mahusiano mengine yasiyokuwa ya mapenzi, kama na bosi wako kazini.
Rule 2: Mpe atakacho kama huwezi mwambie wazi
Ukishajua anataka nini bwana usimbanie. Unless hujafika. Mpe na usisubiri upewe.
Kama kipo nje ya uwezo wako. Mwambie, na umeeleweshe.
....
Rule nyingine zinakuja kwenye kitabu changu kitakachochapishwa hivi karibuni ... stay tuned ...
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Rule 30: Mkamue hasa
Unaweza ukawa unadhani ukimpeleka ki-staarabu ndio atakupenda zaidi. Mara nyingi utaumia kwasababu kama yeye ni mmoja wa wale wanaoangalia sana TV, atakuacha na hutajua ni kwa nini. Mkamue hasa, sehemu yoyoye, saa yoyote, kwa staili zote, (kadiri pumzi yako inavyokuruhusu).
Ila akisema inatosha, tulia. Na tumia muda huo kukusanya nguvu maana hutaki ukirudi ulale baada ya secunde mbili.
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Mr. Miela
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duuuuuuuuh!!!!QM Baba lao.mi nimependa sana mawazo yenu wote mlosema kuwa wanawake wanahitaji au wanapenda kusikilizwa na kupewa Care ya hali ya juu kama wao wanavyocare.sooooo men u take care of ur wives and fiancees and they'll also repy the same.Wanawake wanapenda kupendwasana na uaminifu wapewe.
Yo Yo
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Well said....!!! hii ndio nguzo muhimu ya wapendanao,akibaniwa au akipewa nusu nusu basi ataitafuta kando.
Bongolander
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Ndugu yangu wanaosema kuwa ni viumbe complicated hawajakosea. Ukichapa fimbo sawa sawa anaweza kukukimbia, akasema ooohh mimi kutwa mara tatu siwezi. So inategemeana jinsi alivyo, kuna wengine wanademand less na wengine wanahitaji utumie viagra, kwa hiyo rule no 30 sio applicable kwa wote.
Fisadi.Jones
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Mzee hakuna formula. Wapo wanao-care hivyo na badaye wanalizwa. We hujaona mtu ana-care vilivyo lakini mtu mwingine anakamua mke wake mtarajiwa siku moja kabla ya ndoa? Hujasikia mtu ana-care halafu kwenye hanemuni mtoto anatoroka kupewa kitu na jubaba lingine?
Au haujasikia lijamaa halikei wala nini lakini bibie ndio askii la mtu? Sasa hivi tunavyoongea kuna mshkaji wangu yuko na demu flani. Huyu demu kamganda mshakaji ile kisawa sawa na anataka aolewe. Mshakaji anamwambia live, hata sisi tukiwepo, kwamba hana mpango hua, sio sasa sio baadaya. Lakini demu bado anafunga tu kwa mshkaji ... lol ... Na mbaya zaidi mshakaji anakamua mademu wengine, na huyu demu anajua, na ameshamfumania.
Hakuna fomula babu. Mjue mtu wako, then pima kama mnawezana ama la ...
Nyani Ngabu
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Hey you.....
Sugar wa Ukweli
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Me i belive wanawake wanapenda kudanganywa ukiwaambia ukweli imekula kwako iyo,
ukimdanganya nasubiri mshahara beby a'l give you anakuelewa but ukimwambia ukweli mama sina pesa kwa sasa atakukimbia. So inakuwa bora umdanganye mpaka utakapopata kuliko kumwambia ukweli.
ukimdanganya nasubiri mshahara beby a'l give you anakuelewa but ukimwambia ukweli mama sina pesa kwa sasa atakukimbia. So inakuwa bora umdanganye mpaka utakapopata kuliko kumwambia ukweli.
Mwanamke anapenda mengi, lakini kubwa kabisa mwanamke anapenda kuwa PROTECTED kwa kila hali dhidi ya adui yeyote anayetishia usalama wake. Anahitaji usalama, amani ya kiakili, kimwili, kihisia. Mwanamke anatafuta mwanaume wa aina hiyo. Anataka mwanaume awe MWANAUME KWELI katika maana yake pana, mwanAume mwenye kumhakikishia usalama na utulivu. So please "BE MEN!"