When you find out you have been waiting in vain
When you find out you have been waiting in vain
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The Spit
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- Feb 3, 2009
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Over 80% of us has gone through the same!!..No matter what happens you gotta collect yourself and move on!..Everything is for a reason and for every disadvantage there is an advantage linked with it...!!!..So all you gotta do is find a positive approach through all setbacks especially the emotional ones!..It's always difficult to make it emotional independent as most of us are either interdependent or totally dependent!!...When you face those tough questions try to ask yourself where do you belong and the answer might in a way or another help you get back into your terms!!....
Kaunga
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You have NOT been waiting nor in vain; you have been loving, caring n faithfull as you should have. It is the loss of ur partner that s/he had let go the best thing that has happened in her/is life.
Usijute kufanya uliyopaswa kufanya; uliplay part yako na it's unfortunate mwenzio hakuona.
Utaanzaje?
Usifanye bidii kubwa kuanza. Fuata zaidi moyo kuliko mahitaji ya mwili; ukifuata mwili utakuwa disappointed zaidi ya mwanzo na waweza give up!
Incase ukiamua kufuata mahitaji ya mwili then Moyo usiuhusishe (kuulazimisha), ingawa to do that ili usimkosee mwenzio go to sex workers bahati nzuri siku hizi wapo na wakiume pia!
Usijute kufanya uliyopaswa kufanya; uliplay part yako na it's unfortunate mwenzio hakuona.
Utaanzaje?
Usifanye bidii kubwa kuanza. Fuata zaidi moyo kuliko mahitaji ya mwili; ukifuata mwili utakuwa disappointed zaidi ya mwanzo na waweza give up!
Incase ukiamua kufuata mahitaji ya mwili then Moyo usiuhusishe (kuulazimisha), ingawa to do that ili usimkosee mwenzio go to sex workers bahati nzuri siku hizi wapo na wakiume pia!
HP1
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- Feb 4, 2012
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This reminds me of a friend whose gf was abroad for studies. When she was about to come back the level of communication started to diminish. The guy knew of her arrival date and time and he went to the airport. He did not believe what he saw, his girlfriend had a baby and had a white man with her. Can u imagine?
It is very painful, but you have to put yourself together, the life has to go on. He/ she was not for you. Be patient and you will get the one who is meant for u.
It is very painful, but you have to put yourself together, the life has to go on. He/ she was not for you. Be patient and you will get the one who is meant for u.
Nyani Ngabu
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You just suck it up, tough it out, and keep moving on forward.
Otherwise what else can you do?
Otherwise what else can you do?