Why did I get married?

Why did I get married?

11 Things You Need To Know About Men & Relationships

Written by StevenJamesDixon on June 1, 2011 9:00 am
View Photos HelloBeautiful Q1: Steven James Dixon is our newest blogger on HelloBeautiful.com. Steven, what do our readers need to know about you?
Steven James Dixon: I am a God Fearing Father, Husband, Relationship Expert and Author of the hot new book, "Men Don't Heal, We Ho – A Book About the Emotional Instability of Men." Since the release of my book, I have toured the country spreading my positive message about marriage and challenging men to heal from broken relationships. What sets me apart from other relationship experts is my principle that, "All marriages are either successful or they fail based solely upon the leadership of men."
HelloBeautiful Q2: I am sure that our readers would like to know what places you have been on your book tour.
Steven James Dixon: I have answered relationship questions live on television with CNN, WGN, Fox News (Houston), UPN (Chicago) and CW (Atlanta). I have also Co-Hosted Nationally Syndicated Radio with Doug Banks in addition to radio interviews all across the country including Tom Joyner, Michael Baisden, Rickey Smiley, Sirius Satellite Radio, HOT 97 (NY), KJLH (LA), WGCI (Chicago), V103 (Atlanta), 97.9 (Houston), K104 (Dallas), etc. I have been published and broadcasted in locations as far as the Caribbean and the United Kingdom. I have processed book orders for people across North America, Europe, the Middle East, Asia and Africa.
HelloBeautiful Q3: What do our readers need to know to become more successful at dating, relationships and marriage? What are you going to bring to our readers?
Steven James Dixon: Honesty. Candor. Insightfulness. Research. A biblical foundation. What sets me apart from other relationship experts is that I have actually saved a marriage . . . my own! At the age of 25 I got a divorce. You know what I learned about divorce?
HelloBeautiful Q4: What's that?
Steven James Dixon: That divorce cannot be an option in marriage. That was my one and only divorce. I will never do that again. Some of those problems that I had in that marriage I have had again in my current marriage. The difference between my first marriage and my current marriage is that I am now a problem solver. My wife is a problem solver. At the time I wasn't man enough to lead a marriage or solve any of our problems. My family tree is full of divorce and divorce was an option for me so when I became unhappy, I bounced.
I work a lot harder in my current marriage to keep both me and my wife happy. Because of the energy and effort that I put into my marriage today, my wife is also unafraid to give her maximum effort in our marriage. Marriage is hard work but you have to want it! Divorce is not an option for us. I am not encouraging people to stay married and be unhappy. I am encouraging people to figure out how to be happy. People figure out stuff every day but when it comes to their marriages they give up. Someone is reading this article at a job that they hate, but you know what? They will figure how to go back to that same job tomorrow. We have too many people trying to be the best lawyers, doctors, rappers and athletes but we don't have enough people trying to be the best husbands or wives. My role as a husband is by far the most important role that I have. Nothing else is even close. I tell couples every day that God is #1 in my life. My wife is #2. My wife is also #3. #4 is vacant; I don't want anything close to my wife. #5 is my son, momma, the Raiders, LSU, the Miami Heat, friends and frat.
HelloBeautiful Q5: What do our readers need to know about "Men Don't Heal, We HO?"
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Unajua umejibu vizuri sana. Nafikiri pia Gaga ameleta tuu topic for discussion sio kua eti anataka kweli solution laa hasha. But in contributing to this nice useful topic, I would like to say that marriage is a lovely agreement on one condition kwamba kama you match and have the same qualities. Marriage ya siku hizi ni techical know who has what and who's daughter or son is he/she. Mapenzi ya materializms in the sense kwamba wanaingia kwenye ndoa na within a few weeks - ndoa imeota fungas. When umeoa au olewa na the right guy/girl -- it is enjoyable kwa kweli. Maybe ni seme pia kwa kuna makabila ambao wanajua kupenda hata iweje. Lakini kuna makabila mengine kama hawa wenzetu kutafuta tuu pesa ---- na pombe na kukosa kujua jukumu lao ya ndoa haasa wanaume ni baala maybe our children of today who are mixing with different tribes and have some knowledge sharing are better. My advise is people should make sure that they match. Cheers.
Chamoto said:
Hapa ndo tunaona tofauti kati ya wanaume na wanawake. Who Cares, Gaga hakuwa anataka solution na siamini kama anatatizo, yeye alikuwa anataka kujieleza (maisha ya ndoa) na anategemea wengine (watakao mwelewa) watoe uzoefu wao katika ndoa. Naelewe ni vigumu kuelewa kwasababu sisi wanaume hatuko wired hivyo.
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Ni swali zuri..why did I get married ??...

Yote uliyosema hapo juu ni kweli kabisa, you feel lucky,loved na watoto tena aaaah!

Ila I sometimes miss (me)!! I miss the crazy hangouts with my girlfriends, tulikuwa tunapiga story mpaka saa 8 usiku...lunch dates..never have to say where u r..u know small things...ukirudi home no kelele za watoto...nakumbuka minesite dancing to the tune of 'independent women' we were so crazy in that packed little safari bar...

But all these things can't compare with the contetment(sp) and serene ya sasa...kwahiyo yale ya zamani yote utayamiss lakini kwakweli ndoa ina furaha sana..vigingi vipo ila si kivileeee...
 
Asha D said:
Bishanga maneno yoote yale hujaridhika! Go read again...lol
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nime go na ku read again mama,umesema na nakuu 'kwa sababu zilizo nje ya uwezo wangu', hapo dear hapo ndo nkakwambia sasambura mama utujuze kila kitu........
 
Nsiande said:
Ni swali zuri..why did I get married ??...

Yote uliyosema hapo juu ni kweli kabisa, you feel lucky,loved na watoto tena aaaah!

Ila I sometimes miss (me)!! I miss the crazy hangouts with my girlfriends, tulikuwa tunapiga story mpaka saa 8 usiku...lunch dates..never have to say where u r..u know small things...ukirudi home no kelele za watoto...nakumbuka minesite dancing to the tune of 'independent women' we were so crazy in that packed little safari bar...

But all these things can't compare with the contetment(sp) and serene ya sasa...kwahiyo yale ya zamani yote utayamiss lakini kwakweli ndoa ina furaha sana..vigingi vipo ila si kivileeee...
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Nsiande kwanza nashukuru kwa kunisahihisha hapo mambo ya kidhungu ngoja nika edit, Maisha ya usingle yana raha sana ila zile raha si za kudumu kama kwenye ndoa, maana ukiendekeza usingle sana badae umri ukienda unaanza kuwa mpweke, vimaswali vingi kama hivi tunajiuliza sana tu ila mwisho wake unakuta jibu unalo
 
Uda'a said:
Hata sina hakika....

Mi kwa kweli siku akinikwanza huwa najiuliza hivi huyu mtu nilimtoa wapi?? Tena huwa namuona mbayaaa mhh

Tukiwa kwenye raha zetu namuona bonge la handsome, najivunia kumpenda. Hahahha

Niliingia kwny ndoa kupenda mwenyewe na shukuru vikwazo ni vichache sana kulinganisha na upendo.
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Kweli kabisa siku ingine unamuona kama godzilla fulani hivi unatamani usingemjua mara kesho yake unamuona malaika mambo haya bwana ila yote hii ni upendo tu nahisi
 
Bishanga said:
nime go na ku read again mama,umesema na nakuu 'kwa sababu zilizo nje ya uwezo wangu', hapo dear hapo ndo nkakwambia sasambura mama utujuze kila kitu........
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hahahaha... ngoja nika edit...
 
Bishanga said:
re birth imegoma,ili ikubali inataka u relax sana,ngoja niendelee kujaribu.you mean delivery iwe ya warts and all?mmmhhhhh utanichukia bure.
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acha exuses wewe....lol.. me waiting patiently, cha ajabu nimetoa maneno yoote yake hujaridhika hali wewe hata moja!
 
Blessing said:
Unajua umejibu vizuri sana. Nafikiri pia Gaga ameleta tuu topic for discussion sio kua eti anataka kweli solution laa hasha. But in contributing to this nice useful topic, I would like to say that marriage is a lovely agreement on one condition kwamba kama you match and have the same qualities. Marriage ya siku hizi ni techical know who has what and who's daughter or son is he/she. Mapenzi ya materializms in the sense kwamba wanaingia kwenye ndoa na within a few weeks - ndoa imeota fungas. When umeoa au olewa na the right guy/girl -- it is enjoyable kwa kweli. Maybe ni seme pia kwa kuna makabila ambao wanajua kupenda hata iweje. Lakini kuna makabila mengine kama hawa wenzetu kutafuta tuu pesa ---- na pombe na kukosa kujua jukumu lao ya ndoa haasa wanaume ni baala maybe our children of today who are mixing with different tribes and have some knowledge sharing are better. My advise is people should make sure that they match. Cheers.
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Nashukuru kwa kunielewa Blessing..... nimeleta tujadili ndio maana nimetoa swali na maelezo ya kina ila wote hatuwezi waza kitu kimoja wajameni au pale mwisho ningeweka neno discuss
 
Lizzy said:
Asante mwalimu!!

Asante Gaga kwa kushea experience yako na sie!Mi nabaki kua mpiga chabo tu maana funguo sina!
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Unaweza tu toa mawazo kulingana na maisha yanayokuzunguka ndugu au marafiki eee najua una uwezo sana wa kupembua vitu aisee
 
Gaga said:
Unaweza tu toa mawazo kulingana na maisha yanayokuzunguka ndugu au marafiki eee najua una uwezo sana wa kupembua vitu aisee
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Leo nataka kuwaangalia tu wahusika mpendwa...yani sitii neno maana nyie mnaongea kutoka moyoni mi ntakua natoa kichwani!
 
Lizzy said:
Leo nataka kuwaangalia tu wahusika mpendwa...yani sitii neno maana nyie mnaongea kutoka moyoni mi ntakua natoa kichwani!
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Poa mwaego hivi mtu unaweza edit title kweli maana posts za masahihisho zinazidi kumiminika
 
Asha D said:
acha exuses wewe....lol.. me waiting patiently, cha ajabu nimetoa maneno yoote yake hujaridhika hali wewe hata moja!
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Nalipika chai ndani ya birika nikidhani yaaangu kumbe ya shirika,chekele chekele mkono wa bangili mwanamke mwema nimpatie nooti.......that song tells you something about bishanga's plight.....
........itaendelea.....
 
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