Why Men sleeps with their House girls and why House Girls accepts it?

Why Men sleeps with their House girls and why House Girls accepts it?

Maneno mengi tena kwa lugha ngumu ila kiufupi ni kwamba ni nyama iliyopo karibu simba akisikia njaa lazima ataitafuna.
 
Tieli said:
Ni hatari kwa kweli lugha ya watu, yaani unasoma point ya kwanza unajiona umeielewa ukisoma ya pili unasahau ya kwanza ilikuwa inahusu nini [emoji17][emoji17][emoji17]
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Hapo maana yake unatumia akili nyingi sana kujaribu kutafuta maana ya kinachosemwa. Hatari sana
 
Castr said:
Oook thank you a lot very very much. Thank you to the very many much. The problem of this is because us humans is no longer want to respect this people who do work of inside. Because if this humans is agreeing to become a person of doing work of inside we other humans should respect all of the decision which this human has made.

I is welcome my true close, closer and most closest friend Don Nalimison a.k.a Deo Kisandu to keep on going on about these person.

Thank you chairman.
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Nice article. However, you forgot to add the source. You need to add the source.
 
Maneno n meng afu makali mnoo, but suala la house maids kuwa na mahusiano ya kimapenzi na waajiri wao, watajuana wao wahusika.
 
Haya mambo yaliwashinda mababa wa imani ambao walikuwa wakiongea na Mungu moja kwa moja, itakuwa sisi wa imani nusu? Its simply natural.
 
Sijui kwanini uzi wa kiingereza automatically huwa haunivutii kuusoma zaidi japo kiingereza naelewa vizuri,
 
Nyenyere said:
“The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: a good understanding have all they that do his commandments: his praise endureth for ever.”
— Psalms 111:10 (KJV)
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Dis man fears me a lot!! to some extent he over suddenly become sick!!

Where'r u meeen! An back once again just after lock down in da stage....so here Iam to fight de unlogocal parasites' dat can't holds water! Fear notan !!

I wanna create ya Mentality!! Be firm man! Are u' really there? Orrr....any way...
 
SMU said:
Haya mambo yaliwashinda mababa wa imani ambao walikuwa wakiongea na Mungu moja kwa moja, itakuwa sisi wa imani nusu? Its simply natural.
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usijidharau hivo. Imani walikuwa nayo na wewe unayo na unaweza kufanya makubwa Mungu akitaka...
 
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Some women would rather work themselves to early death than bring a house girl into the house. In the event that they do bring one, they go to great extents to find an elderly house girl, one that may not capture the attention of their husbands. To understand why men sleep with house girls, you should, first of all, understand why men cheat:


It has nothing to do with class
Most women are under the impression that because she is a house girl, she is beneath the statue of her husband and he would never look at her. That is why they get so shocked when it actually happens. The truth is, men, do not recognize class when it comes to pursuing their urges.

When women cheat, a study found, they cheat up – which means they cheat with men who are richer, have more status, or have better looks. When men cheat, they cheat down and around. They hardly aim for women who sit higher than them. So a house help is to a husband just another woman.

Accessibility
The house girl is accessible and familiar, and they do not have to leave the house to go looking for an alternative woman. Accessibility is yet another reason why men cheat generally. That is why it is easier for a man to have an affair with their secretary or workmate than any other random woman out there.

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It is a power play
The man wields power over the house girl, having an affair with her is just exercising the power he thinks he wields over her.

She might be beautiful
A beautiful house help will tempt even the most faithful of men, and they have to have the really good self-control not to make any moves.

It feels so wrong
That thing they say about the forbidden fruit, some men just love the thrill of doing things that are very risky and out of the ordinary.

Why do house girls allow it?
They need their jobs
Making advances to your house help should fall under workplace sexual harassment. Some of these girls are never willing to oblige, but they need their jobs so they count it as a small price to pay. A local parenting forum opened a discussion on why some house girls just pack up and leave without notice.

It emerged that they preferred to leave than accept the advances of the man of that house. Some of them are not built with that kind of will power to leave when things get to that point. Others need the money so bad they just cannot leave. If anything, if they were to report the husband to the wife, the wife would still send them away because it is easier to deal with a symptom than with the problem itself.

More so, when some men have these affairs with the house helps, they give them money and many other favors away from the employment contract. If they want to keep receiving the extra money, they have to give in to the advances.

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Settling scores
It is no secret that some employees treat their house girls in the worst way. When this happens, they seek every opportunity to get even with them without necessarily losing their jobs. When they are approached, and in some cases, they do the approaching themselves, it feels like the perfect revenge because the wife will be so hurt when she finds out who the other woman is.

Self-esteem
It is wise to treat everybody with respect, be they the president or the janitor. Most house helps, however, are not accorded that respect, not necessarily by their employers, but the society as a whole. There is this flawed perception that all house helps are uneducated and are only suited for doing house chores. This notion affects then way some house girls perceive themselves. They feel oppressed, and that causes a dent in their self-esteem.

With self-esteem that low, being approached by the man of the house helps them reclaim that feeling of well-being. They feel appreciated and noticed, two things they might not have been previously used to. They feel at the same level as the woman of the house, or even better, because why else would he pick her over his own wife if she was not better.

The psychology that goes into husband- house help affairs is therefore as simple just as it is complex.
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They'r completely human being who deserves to enjoy the nature of creations just like any other human being do!! Living in dis beautiful Global.

No one under your roof can satisfy their needs...apart from you!! father house!!

dat little trushes u pay dem monthly are nothing compared to their constant burning down stairs...claiming dat u'r giving them their Monthly salaries.they should never calm down their born with nature by hooks en clooks u gonna climb dem continuously!! wether u like or not...

So long as u'r Livin' with them you 'll fall....
 
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