Women don't have less casual sex because we're "biologically wired"

Women don't have less casual sex because we're "biologically wired"

Nyachiro L Kasese said:
warumi and Elizabethdominic I think women deal with their hornyness through masturbation. I know it is not discussed often, even frowned upon, but I realised that masturbation is also pretty common amongst women it is just not spoken about.
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Is is possible eeh!!? I have never heard of this before, but how do they stimulate their vagina to reach orgasm? Wonders shall never end. I thought only men we do masterbate
 
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Elizabeth Dominic said:
Let us not focus on external factors like peer pleasure or lack of morals.....does a woman or a girl for that matter wake up horny and wants to have sex to quench her desire or......
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Yes! Women do have sexual needs as well, that's very normal and it's not something to be ashamed of. Our prudishness is what makes some women deny the fact that they too are wired to feel the urge to have sex just like men. And the issue here was women having casual sex, not underage sex.
And I don't think if a woman chooses to have casual sex then she has no morals.
 
warumi lol, clearly you do nit watch enough porn. But there are dildos and the clitoris as well. Assuming you are a man, the things you do during foreplay is what happens when a woman is masturbating. Atleast that's what should happen. I think.
 
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Nyachiro L Kasese said:
warumi lol, clearly you do nit watch enough porn. But there are dildos and the clitoris as well. Assuming you are a man, the things you do during foreplay is what happens when a woman is masturbating. Atleast that's what should happen. I think.
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Wonders shall never end
 
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Kongosho said:
Ndio, a girl can wake up as horny as anthing, lakini kupunguza kiu hiyo sidhani kama itakuwa na mtu yeyote. It will be with a specific person.
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A woman's sexual desires are hidden i believe.....must be aroused or initiated by something labda mazingira hivi au hali fulani
 
Inevitable said:
Yes! Women do have sexual needs as well, that's very normal and it's not something to be ashamed of. Our prudishness is what makes some women deny the fact that they too are wired to feel the urge to have sex just like men. And the issue here was women having casual sex, not underage sex.
And I don't think if a woman chooses to have casual sex then she has no morals.
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How can you make love with someone you are not in a relationship with? Is it normal? Of course not in either way, its not moral , not only for women but also men.
 
Inevitable said:
Yes! Women do have sexual needs as well, that's very normal and it's not something to be ashamed of. Our prudishness is what makes some women deny the fact that they too are wired to feel the urge to have sex just like men. And the issue here was women having casual sex, not underage sex.
And I don't think if a woman chooses to have casual sex then she has no morals.
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In most cases what will drive a Woman to have casual sex is not the urge alone there are other factors involved....Women don't get aroused like Men
 
warumi morality is a social construct and therefore should not be used as an argument on the basis that in as much as humans made the laws they are also allowed to break them. We choose what we define as "moral" and moral standards are not the same in each and every society. For example things that may be immoral here may be moral else where and vice versa.
 
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warumi said:
How can you make love with someone you are not in a relationship with? Is it normal? Of course not in either way, its not moral , not only for women but also men.
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It's not making love, it's having sex, just sex. That's why it's called 'casual sex' not 'casual love making'.
 
Nyachiro L Kasese said:
warumi morality is a social construct and therefore should not be used as an argument on the basis that in as much as humans made the laws they are also allowed to break them. We choose what we define as "moral" and moral standards are not the same in each and every society. For example things that may be immoral here may be moral else where and vice versa.
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May be i got him wrong
 
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These days, with the equal rights and such beijing stuff, women are encouraged to express themselves more openly.

Modernization plays a role too. It has lowered what we previously considered moral. Morality has a new definition.

Thats when you realize, alas! Women have higher libidos than us men. They do...
 
Very true, they just want to have fun and most of time without taking into consideration of the repercussion.

Inevitable said:
I wouldn't know about those other 'factors' but I am convinced that there are women who participate in casual sex merely for sexual satisfaction.
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The fear of having casual sex for women is usually associated with the fear of being abandoned after "Utamu " has been ignited! Fupi Tamu jamani Fupi Tamu eeeh
 
Women do have sexual desires and they are most likely to show them if at all they have a partner in crime to my understanding women can do a casual sex with someone they have feelings.
 
matmafcha the mast part about your statement I am not too sure of. I have friends that gave no problem at all hooking up with random people who are not necessarily "strangers". But the again you kind of do have a point because I know of women that subscribe to that type of sexual relations.
 
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Nyachiro what I meant is yes the can do casual sex with some random guys but deepdown they have feelings to them doesn't matter they just met or they are friends... It is believed that women don't do sex for just pleasure
 
Thank you for saying that "It is believed" because then we know for sure that it is not necessarily a fact. just a theory 🙂
 
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