Would you marry me?

Would you marry me?

Mwali said:
Ningekua mwanaume ningekua na mentality hii hii nadhani...
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Sasa ungekuwa na mentality hiyo hiyo kweli ungeendelea kuwa mwanaume wa ukweli..hahahah Labda ungekuwa..........dah ngoja niache hapa kuna wataalamu watakuja kunisaidia. Besides how can you be so sure about that?
 
Ambitious said:
We just have to live our lives and stop hiding behind them.A predetermined formula is the root cause of all the blunders mentioned earlier since there are no such things as love guides.
-Women should stop taking too seriously all the things they read in magazines or hear from their shostis or acquaintances.In addition to that the fairytale attitude has to be abandoned,being a good wife and mother is more than enough.
-Husbands should not be overly concerned with the likes of work,alcohol,spectator sports than their wives and kids(especially wives b'se we are likely to live forever with our wives than kids),being too serious and unentertaining at family level is not the way forward,you might be a manager/director at work but remember you are just a husband and father at home your other skills come second.
-That is all i think of for now and this aint the law either.When husbands and wives become paranoid and excessively worried about how their marriage is not perfect that is when marriage counselors raise their profit margins.
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Baada ya kutumia kamusi kwa dakika kadhaa nimekuelewa mkuu... hii pia naprint, naweka ukutani! THANK YOU!
 
Da Womanizer said:
Sasa ungekuwa na mentality hiyo hiyo kweli ungeendelea kuwa mwanaume wa ukweli..hahahah Labda ungekuwa..........dah ngoja niache hapa kuna wataalamu watakuja kunisaidia. Besides how can you be so sure about that?
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I am not sure... I just speculate. Kuna wanaume ninao wakua who believe in the same things as I, na wanapenda challenging minds. So I guess ningekua mwanaume ningekua kama hao...
 
Kaizer said:
OMG....Too late I think for the warning....Michelle....Come This Way..:juggle:
Hapa Michelle kama sio kweli vile.....mmmh:gossip:
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Which way,can't see you shem??

Kweli,muonye mwenzio,nikimponyoka sirudi nyuma....lol
 
Mwali said:
Nimesoma sana posts za MMU na nimegundua kitu: wanaume wengi wanaamini kuna wife material na girlfriend material. Wife material ni mpole, mtiifu, ana background nzuri, ni msomi kiasi, future oriented etc. Girlfriend material ana sura na umbo nzuri, ni mcheshi, anapenda kwenda out, ni mtundu kiasi.

Kweli kila mtu ana definition yake ila kwa ujumla kuna tofauti kati ya wife material na girlfriend material.
Pia nimeona wanawake wanaamini kuna wanaume wasio faa kwa long term relation ila bado wanafaa kua wapenzi. Wana penda maisha, wanatoa mazawadi mbali mbali, wanapiga sim na kutuma sms kila saa, wanakutambulisha kwa marafiki etc, alafu kuna wanaume wa long term relation: wanakusupport katika mipango yako ya maisha, wanajitambulisha kwa familia yako na wanakutambulisha katika familia zao, hawachelewi kuzungumzia swala la ndoa etc. Kwa wanawake distinction haipo clear sana lakini.

Toafuti hii kati ya boyfriends-girlfriends na husband-wives material naona inaweza kua sababu ya wanaume wengine kuoa wife material ila baadae wanaendelea kua na nyumba ndogo sababu wake zao sio girlfriend material toka mwanzo, na wenyewe bado wanataka kujipa raha huko nje. Wanawake nao wanaolewa kwa tama ya ndoa ila wakisha kua ndani wanagundua kua wanaume hawana ile romance ya boyfriends sababu wanachukua life too seriously, na hii inasababisha yale mapenzi ya moto moto kuisha mapema katika ndoa.

Swali langu kubwa linakuja hapa: kwa mtindo huu nikijaribu kua the perferct girlfriend nitajitoa kwenye orodha ya wife material. Na the perfect perfect beer buddy hawezi kua perfect husband the at the same time. Hivi hakuna haja ya kubadili hizo criteria za wife material na perfect husband kwa kweli? How can we be perfect spouses if we are not perfect lovers before marriage? Kwa nini marriage isiwe continuity ya mahusiano ya girlfriend-boyfriend?

If I am just perfect as myself, would you marry me?
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hahahaaaaa u try to put ur self in a safe side
 
Mtende said:
hahahaaaaa u try to put ur self in a safe side
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Kweli kabisa. mi nataka nijue kama I can just be me... hayo ya kua hivi kwanza, alafu baadae niwe vile naona kama yatashindikana...
 
Lizzy said:
Hapo makubaliano na maelewano yanahusu sana.

Kuna watu wanaotegemea/taka mkishaoana mambo ya washkaji na mashoga yakome. Ni vizuri mkajulishana vitu kama hivi mapema ili ukiingia unaingia ukiwa umejiandaa sio mnashtukizana mara baada ya honeymoon. Maana ikiwa hivyo ndio mwanzo wa mmoja kuona mwenzake anataka kumcontrol na kupunguza amani nyumbani.

Alafu Mwali wasingekua wanapenda utundu uendelee wasingekua wanaenda kuutafuta nje. Tatizo ni wanawake ndo hua wanasitisha kwa kuona kwamba hauhitajiki tena.
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yani una akili wewe!!ghafla tu unamkuta mtu kaanza na kupiga yale magoti ya 'wizi'(kama kajikwaaa vile!) akikupa kitu,soo boring...mpaka chumbani..............eti kwasababu ni mke wa fulani!!...huku ni kuingizana majaribuni kwakweli.
 
Mwali said:
I am not sure... I just speculate. Kuna wanaume ninao wakua who believe in the same things as I, na wanapenda challenging minds. So I guess ningekua mwanaume ningekua kama hao...
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Do you actually believe this simple explanation describes your mentality??
 
Rubuye123 said:
yani una akili wewe!!ghafla tu unamkuta mtu kaanza na kupiga yale magoti ya 'wizi'(kama kajikwaaa vile!) akikupa kitu,soo boring...mpaka chumbani..............eti kwasababu ni mke wa fulani!!...huku ni kuingizana majaribuni kwakweli.
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Hahahaha. . . Karibu ntakufikia Rub (usinichape)

Hehehehe crazy right?
Mtu anatakiwa ajue role ya jikoni sio ya sebuleni na ya sebuleni sio ya chumbani. Sio mtu anajifanya analeta heshima chumbani, kubadili nguo mpaka afunge mlango na ufunguo. Taabu tupu kwa wababa wa watu.
 
In real life NDOA ZINA FUNGWA MBINGUNI. It just happens for some moments. As for girlfreind/wife material boyfreind/husband materil ni mtazamo wa kiulimwengu tu. Every person has potential. It is the sercumstances that that changes one state to onether. If I were to give an example when you buy a car you love you are happy and you would not want even your children scratch it. That is true love. Now if you were to scratch it yourself would you complain that the car is scratched and you dont like it. Love is giving and reaciving. If you stop giving would you complain that you dont receave. Let us stop complaining and look at things at a different perspective. REFLECT.
 
Mwali I would Marry you in CYBERSPACE and let it be the first in JF. You are both a good girlfreind and a wife material. OOOOOOPS I have gone too far this time. I am sooooooory everyone.
 
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