Can you date a guy without asking him for Money?

Can you date a guy without asking him for Money?

Binti1 said:
I definitely can date a guy without asking for money. There is something special about a woman who genuinely dates for love than money [emoji3531]

Kumuomba mwanaume hela anae kutongoza ama ambae mpo kwenye mahusiano KWA MTAZAMO WANGU mie Binti1 :
Inaondoa heshima mwanamke kwasabu thamani yako unaifananisha na pesa. Sasa mwanaume atakupa kiasi gani kufikia thamani yako?

Mwisho wa siku unaonekana rahisi....Imagine kupewa 20k,50k, 100k a woman is way worth than that!!
Ku date kwa hela ina maana siku mwanaume akiishiwa au akiyumba hatamdate...so hapo anakua hana upendo wa kweli!!

Nadhani mwanaume pia atakua comfortable kumheshimu mwanamke asiyeomba hela .Na ikitokea ameomba ni kwasababu genuine labda amekwama kwenye jambo na anahitaji support.

Sasa mwanamke anaepiga mzinga kila siku anaweza kupata na shida akakosa msaada mkubwa kwasababu siku zote anaomba hela zisizo na msingi.

Na sijui nani ametuharibu wadada wa siku hizi.Kigezo kikubwa cha ku date mwanaume lazima awe na hela. Matokeo yake unajikuta unakosa upendo wa kweli.

Tusio omba hela tutaonekana washamba na tumechelewa mjini [emoji1][emoji1]
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Perfect u can’t meet a man for the first or second time and start asking him for money. He will catch on that u are only after his money and will cut u loose.
 
Saint Anne said:
Binafsi yangu siwezi kuomba hela kwa mwanaume/mpenzi hata niwe na shida vipi.
Mwanaume anayetegemea nitamuomba hela,atasubiri Sana..
Labda anipe tu mwenyewe.
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Issue sio kusubili ila there are also other women who live on their own and get by just fine, but as soon as they get a boyfriend, they expect the guy to start footing their bills like rent and other expenses. That is absolutely ridiculous *****
 
Saint Anne said:
Umemaliza[emoji122][emoji122][emoji122]
Kuomba hela ni kama unanunuliwa hivi wakati hakuna pesa yoyote inayoweza kulingana na thamani yako.
Haipo kabisa.
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kwangu Mimi I don’t blv that sisi men solely exist in this earth to support women. A man is not ur ATM jamani or safety net. Nyie wadada wa kiafrika Try becoming independent. U will feel a lot happier and fulfilled in a relationship if u know that u have got ur own back. Ladies, if u do ask him for money and he politely declines, u have no right to throw a tantrum or hold it against him. 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
 
Mie sijawahi kuombwa pesa na wanawake wote niliowahi kuwadate. Kulikuwa ná outing za nguvu, kusafiri sehemu mbali mbali, zawadi za aina mbali mbali na wakati mwingine kuwapa pesa mimi mwenyewe pamoja na sikuwa nimeombwa hata senti kumi. Hongera sana kwa tabia hiyo.

Saint Anne said:
Binafsi yangu siwezi kuomba hela kwa mwanaume/mpenzi hata niwe na shida vipi.
Mwanaume anayetegemea nitamuomba hela,atasubiri Sana..
Labda anipe tu mwenyewe.
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Marichris said:
Issue sio kusubili ila there are also other women who live on their own and get by just fine, but as soon as they get a boyfriend, they expect the guy to start footing their bills like rent and other expenses. That is absolutely ridiculous *****
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Huwa ni tamaa tu..
Wengine wamewageuza wanaume vitega Uchumi.

Mimi siamini kwamba dada anaweza kuwa na Shida kiasi hicho.

Sema kila mtu na imani Yake..kwangu Mimi hakuna Jambo gumu kwangu kama kuomba hela.
 
Marichris said:
Why asking for a money jamani, If u have just started dating, refrain from asking him for money, unless u are in a serious fix and he is the only one u can ask for financial assistance. Even then, make it clear that u intend to pay him back, lasivyo utachokwa sana.
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Yaani kuhusu pesa hata uniandikie kilatini, lazima niombe. Hutaki nipe mwenyewe kabla sijakuomba.
 
BAK said:
Mie sijawahi kuombwa pesa na wanawake wote niliowahi kuwadate. Kulikuwa ná outing za nguvu, kusafiri sehemu mbali mbali, zawadi za aina mbali mbali na wakati mwingine kuwapa pesa mimi mwenyewe pamoja na sikuwa nimeombwa hata senti kumi. Hongera sana kwa tabia hiyo.
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Mwanaume anayejitambua akiwiwa kukupa zawadi atakupa tu mwenyewe..

Sasa unakuta mtu mwingine amekomaa kuomba.

Akhsante Bak
 
Mr What said:
Can you date a guy without asking him for money? Most girls will be laughing at this question,but am sure the guys would really want to know.

As long as I can remember and as many relationships I can remember, the ladies always ask for money.It might not be direct because ladies are smart.

They might not ask you directly but by the time you realize it, you have given them 100k.

I am not sure most ladies can do without asking their guys for money. It's in the blood, you are their helper the moment you ask them out. You just have to provide for anything they want because they are now your responsibility.

Have you been in a relationship where all the girl knows is to ask you for this or that, whenever they see anything then they want it.

Sometimes I would say its the guy's fault because at first some guys when they approach a girl for the first time, they approach from the angle that they have money, that they can provide for their every need.

So when the guys approach them this way, what do you expect from the girls. Let's discuss this. What's your opinion?
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Your Question is similar to: Can you have relationship with a Man without ask him to pay for the service?

And if he pays for that service which you both enjoy, then the right name for that action is prostitution!
 
Marichris said:
kwangu Mimi I don’t blv that sisi men solely exist in this earth to support women. A man is not ur ATM jamani or safety net. Nyie wadada wa kiafrika Try becoming independent. U will feel a lot happier and fulfilled in a relationship if u know that u have got ur own back. Ladies, if u do ask him for money and he politely declines, u have no right to throw a tantrum or hold it against him. [emoji846] [emoji846] [emoji846] [emoji846] [emoji846] [emoji846] [emoji846]
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BAK said:
Mie sijawahi kuombwa pesa na wanawake wote niliowahi kuwadate. Kulikuwa ná outing za nguvu, kusafiri sehemu mbali mbali, zawadi za aina mbali mbali na wakati mwingine kuwapa pesa mimi mwenyewe pamoja na sikuwa nimeombwa hata senti kumi. Hongera sana kwa tabia hiyo.
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Wao wanaamini kwamba, money in a relationship has always been a touchy one
 
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