Coping mechanism after breakup/divorce

[Half american]

Jipe muda
Mwaka mmoja kwa mtu uliyempenda kweli bado ni muda mchache

Upo sahihi ila baada ya hapo akikaa sawa hatokaa awe katika hali hiyo tena.

 

[Extrovert]

Tafuta mtu mdogo kiumri wa yule mliyeachana, furahia purukushani za penzi jipya, utamsahau automatically tu!

Hii ni njia ya muda mfupi ya kudeal na maumivu 🩹, ila ni effective 🫠🙃

I have been using this method for years, imenisaidia sana kutokuwa crazy with breakups. My first breakup hit me very badly to an extent i never expected.

Kuanzia next relationship, nimekuwa mtu wa kujiengua mapema zikianza redflags and im never feeling hurted. Yani kama kafa paka vile hamna msiba wala matanga. On to the next one really fast.

 

[Extrovert]

Ndiyo Bado nampenda ,.. ila naogopa namwogopa , nayahofia matendo ..
Hajabadilika..

She was earning more than me at that time , I know you know namaanisha Nini na mwanamke wa kisasa akiwa hivyo anakuwa na tabia Gani.

Hayupo pekeyake. Trust me, ukiwaza kuwa kulikuwa na mtu anambato kipindi mko pamoja that must be a strong reason to move on.

 

[majam19]

Tafuta mtu mdogo kiumri wa yule mliyeachana, furahia purukushani za penzi jipya, utamsahau automatically tu!

Hii ni njia ya muda mfupi ya kudeal na maumivu 🩹, ila ni effective 🫠🙃

vtoto vya 2000 navijua Bora upate mshangazi tuuuh Hana mambo mengi

 

[Vishu Mtata]

Kuingia kwenye mahusiano mapya kwa mategemeo ya kusahau maumivu ni njia mbovu, usijaribu.

 

[Vishu Mtata]

I have been using this method for years, imenisaidia sana kutokuwa crazy with breakups. My first breakup hit me very badly to an extent i never expected.

Kuanzia next relationship, nimekuwa mtu wa kujiengua mapema zikianza redflags and im never feeling hurted. Yani kama kafa paka vile hamna msiba wala matanga. On to the next one really fast.

Hii njia sio nzuri kwa mtu aliependa kama jamaa.
Wewe uliumizwa ukaheal baada ya hapo ndio ukaanza huo mchezo wa kuacha ukiona redflag.
Walio na hali za mleta uzi wengi hupenda kucompete na maex zao, yaani moyo wake bado upo kwa ex wake, hata akiwa na mahusiano mapya kesho ex wake akimhitaji ni chap kwa anaenda.

Huyu apone na amsahau na ajiapize hamrudii ndio aanze upya ila hiyo unampenda huyu na uko na huyu, ni kucheza makidamakida na mioyo ya watu upigww bisu bure.

 

[Extrovert]

Hii njia sio nzuri kwa mtu aliependa kama jamaa.
Wewe uliumizwa ukaheal baada ya hapo ndio ukaanza huo mchezo wa kuacha ukiona redflag.
Walio na hali za mleta uzi wengi hupenda kucompete na maex zao, yaani moyo wake bado upo kwa ex wake, hata akiwa na mahusiano mapya kesho ex wake akimhitaji ni chap kwa anaenda.

Huyu apone na amsahau na ajiapize hamrudii ndio aanze upya ila hiyo unampenda huyu na uko na huyu, ni kucheza makidamakida na mioyo ya watu upigww bisu bure.

Njia pekee ya kumsahau X ni kukumbuka mabaya aliokutendea na zile dharau.

 

[Extrovert]

Kuingia kwenye mahusiano mapya kwa mategemeo ya kusahau maumivu ni njia mbovu, usijaribu.

Sasa unapoanza mahusiano mapya si dopamine inazalishwa upya kwa wingi. Huna ujanja uta relax tu na kumsahau mshenzi aliyepita.

 

[Raymanu KE]

Time is the best healer of all the wounds.
Kadri Muda unavyosonga ndivyo maumivu yanavyopona taratibu

 

[Vishu Mtata]

Sasa unapoanza mahusiano mapya si dopamine inazalishwa upya kwa wingi. Huna ujanja uta relax tu na kumsahau mshenzi aliyepita.

Sijui ila naonaga haiwork out hiyo kitu, labda wewe uwe ndo ulimuacha ila kama uliachwa na ukawa unastruggle kurudi sio rahisi.

 

[Extrovert]

Sijui ila naonaga haiwork out hiyo kitu, labda wewe uwe ndo ulimuacha ila kama uliachwa na ukawa unastruggle kurudi sio rahisi.

Una struggle vipi kurudi kwa mtu ambaye hakutaki?

 

[Vishu Mtata]

Una struggle vipi kurudi kwa mtu ambaye hakutaki?

Ndio hali inayowakuta wengi wanaoshindwa kumove on kwa kudhani wawapendao watabadili mawazo au tabia na warudiane.

 

[mzabzab]

Ndiyo Bado nampenda ,.. ila naogopa namwogopa , nayahofia matendo ..
Hajabadilika..

She was earning more than me at that time , I know you know namaanisha Nini na mwanamke wa kisasa akiwa hivyo anakuwa na tabia Gani.

Aisee sasa nyie wanaune mnawafuatia nini haoo wanawake wenye madegree wakati wee huna mihela bwana? Njoo tuoe hawa warembo wa form 4b

 

[Smart911]

Pole sana hayanaga muongozo...


Cc: Mahondaw

 

[Mtili wandu]

Kama unaweza kurudi rudi ila ishi maisha yako, usiwajibike mwachie yeye nyumba. Weee ni kuvaa na vichombezwa vidogo vidogo moyo utachomoka huo usipoangalia.Sasa tutafanyaje ndugu wajumbe wakati mjumbe kanasa kwenye pemzi, na amini wanawake wanskujua jamaa hapa kaoza.

 

[Kunguru wa Manzese]

We hujawahi vunjwa moyo mtoto mzuri?

Pole mkuu. Ngoja waje wenye breaks zao

 

[The mission 2017]

U

Ndiyo Bado nampenda ,.. ila naogopa namwogopa , nayahofia matendo ..
Hajabadilika..

She was earning more than me at that time , I know you know namaanisha Nini na mwanamke wa kisasa akiwa hivyo anakuwa na tabia Gani.

Uwe unamkula mara moja moja akiwa huko huko mpk utakapo move on