Could this be it?....................

[MwanajamiiOne]

Mi nina mashaka kama atasikiliza ushauri wako.......labda umuunge mkono.....

Hapo sasa but nimeshaamua kutokuwa biased...nitamwambia tu issue niitilie mkazo kwenye 'MUME WA MTU' akinisikiza sawa akinichukia shauri yake ..........nitategesha printout ya comments zenu mezani nijifanye nimeisahau

Mwanajamii One inawezekana kabisa...hii ya dada kuzaa na mwingine na jamaa kuoa ni ajali tu ya kimapenzi but moyo ya kupenda wacha kabisa,hakuna kushauri hapa ni kukaa nje na kusoma mchezo utaona picha itakavyojibu yenyewe

Horseshoe aksante nadhani ni bora nikamweleza kiutuuzima kisha nikae pembeni na popcon zangu nicheck movie

 

[Chauro]

mi nakwambia acha tuamini yale tunayoona na kuambiwa tusitake kujua yaliyomo mvunguni,we hujawahi kujiuliza tunapoandika hapa wakati tunapost yatokee yale tuwazayo na kufanya huu mforum usingekuwepo maana ingekuwa balaa hapa.HAKYANANI LABDA MIE NAWAZAGA MAMBO YA AJABU SANA I WISH .................................MJI.

Chauro hebu tenea mate chini maana kama huwa kuna kubbatani MUNGU alikibofya ili tusiwezeisoma mioyo ya wenzi wetu basi tuombe kisijefyatuka...................yaani ni kweli kabisa kuna wanaolala kitanda kimoja na wenzi wao, wanado na kudo lakini moyoni anajuta na kuombea afe ili awe huru! Jamani chauro hata sijui umewaza nini we binti..............I whish....................

 

[Chauro]

kuna wengine hawaui kwa matendo ila mioyo yao inaomba hayo achana na kiumbe mwanadamu anacheka akiomba vilio juu yako.

Mmh Ikifikia hapo hatari

 

[Kaka Mpendwa]

Ni kweli mpendwa ila ninachomaanisha hapa ni kuwa matendo pekee hayadhihirishi upendo au uaminifu...........bali yanakusaidia kukupa tulizo la moyo kwa kuamini kuwa unapendwa na mwenzio ni mwaminifu kwako but ukweli wa hayo unabaki kwa muhusika.

Wapo walioletewa maiti za wenzi wao waliofumaniwa au kufa wakiwa uzinzini na bado wakabisha wakisema hapana alikuwa mwaminifu sana kwangu................

ni kweli, tabia hubadilika kutokana na sababu nyingi...lakini hii pia inafundisha kwamba upendo usipimwe kwa mali mtu anazoweza kutoa, bali kwa tuende zaidi ya hapo.

 

[Dark City]

Chauro hebu tenea mate chini maana kama huwa kuna kubbatani MUNGU alikibofya ili tusiwezeisoma mioyo ya wenzi wetu basi tuombe kisijefyatuka...................yaani ni kweli kabisa kuna wanaolala kitanda kimoja na wenzi wao, wanado na kudo lakini moyoni anajuta na kuombea afe ili awe huru! Jamani chauro hata sijui umewaza nini we binti..............I whish....................

MJ1 hivi hukusikia nimesemaje? Mtu unatakiwa kujitengenezea cushions ili uzuie magonjwa ya moyo. Na mojawapo ni kuuamini moyo wako tu! Kulala kitanda kimoja na kufanya mambo gani sijui wala haijalishi. Watu wanawakopa wenzao kila siku na ndoa nyingine zimeenda hivyo hadi uzeeni.

Ila kikubwa ni kutunziwa heshima. Kama bibi anagawa mali ya Mzee DC ila mzee hajui lolote na anatunziwa heshima yake kama mume ni bora mara 1000 kuliko mtu anayejidai hagawi ila siku moja akirubuniwa na shetani anapitiliza hadi habakizi kiporo cha wajukuu!

 

[Mo-TOWN]

It cant be! The truth of the matter is the man loves his wife dearly unfortunately he is just infatuated with this other woman, i mean your sisy. After all the years of such a good friendship I thought your sisy should know better by now that if there is anything between them then it is just friendship and no more. For Gods sake he is married. Tell me, does your sisy has a boyfriend? if yes she better pursue him instead of a married friend. After all your sisy doesnt love him, if she did she would have him long time ago regardless of whether he is married or not.

 

[Tausi Mzalendo]

Bora wakwetu umeliona nawe hilo.
Jamaa ni msanii, period.

Mbona mnakimbilia kumhukumu mwenzenu?
Huenda dada wa Mwanajamii ndiye mpenzi wake wa awali. Huenda mkaka katika kujaribu kuendelea na maisha yake baada ya kumkosa dada yetu, kakumbwa na mikasa na hivyo kuona dada ndiye chaguo sahihi tu.

Nionavyo miye, mdada hajaolewa ana mtoto tu, kwani huyo kaka kama ndoa yake ni chungu kinachomfanya ashindwe kuondoka ni nini? Dada hajaolewa kama nimempata Mwanajamii, sioni anaogopa nini kama naye moyo umeanza kurudi.Kama kaka ataachana na mkewe basi wapate ruksa!

Hapa watu watasema ya kweli ya moyoni, ya kinafki, na mengine lakini mwisho wa siku moyo wa mtu utaamua.

 

[nyumba kubwa]

It all depends on how one define marriage. If you can just walk in and out of it just like toilet then it is just easy to make divorce decision.

Mbona mnakimbilia kumhukumu mwenzenu?
Huenda dada wa Mwanajamii ndiye mpenzi wake wa awali. Huenda mkaka kaitika kujaribu kuendelea na maisha yake baada ya kumkosa dada yetu, kakumbwa na mikasa na hivyo kuona dada ndiye chaguo sahihi tu.

Nionavyo miye, mdada hajaolewa ana mtoto tu, kwani huyo kaka kama ndoa yake ni chungu kinachomfanya ashindwe kuondoka ni nini? Dada hajaolewa kama nimempata Mwanajamii, sioni anaogopa nini kama naye moyo umeanza kurudi.

Hapa watu watasema ya kweli ya moyoni, ya kinafki, na mengine lakini mwisho wa siku moyo wa mtu utaamua.

 

[Nyani Ngabu]

Mbona mnakimbilia kumhukumu mwenzenu?
Huenda dada wa Mwanajamii ndiye mpenzi wake wa awali. Huenda mkaka kaitika kujaribu kuendelea na maisha yake baada ya kumkosa dada yetu, kakumbwa na mikasa na hivyo kuona dada ndiye chaguo sahihi tu.

Nionavyo miye, mdada hajaolewa ana mtoto tu, kwani huyo kaka kama ndoa yake ni chungu kinachomfanya ashindwe kuondoka ni nini? Dada hajaolewa kama nimempata Mwanajamii, sioni anaogopa nini kama naye moyo umeanza kurudi.

Hapa watu watasema ya kweli ya moyoni, ya kinafki, na mengine lakini mwisho wa siku moyo wa mtu utaamua.

Sawa, lakini kama bado ana ndoa ni vyema basi atoke kwanza kwenye hiyo ndoa halafu aanze na dadake MwanajamiiOne. Au unapingana na hilo?

 

[Tausi Mzalendo]

It all depends on how one define marriage. If you can just walk in and out of it just like toilet then it is just easy to make divorce decision.

Ndio maana kuna talaka 1,2,3.Isingekuwepo uwezekano wa talaka zote hizi.Ndoa ni kifungo kwa wengine lakini siyo kifungo kwa wengine.Na hata hao wanaosema ni kifungo mbona huachana? Tatzo la wengi ni unafki tu! Watu hawaachani kwa talaka lakini mioyo yao iko kwengine na hata wanaishi maisha kinyume na hizo imani zao.

 

[Kaka Mpendwa]

Mbona mnakimbilia kumhukumu mwenzenu?
Huenda dada wa Mwanajamii ndiye mpenzi wake wa awali. Huenda mkaka katika kujaribu kuendelea na maisha yake baada ya kumkosa dada yetu, kakumbwa na mikasa na hivyo kuona dada ndiye chaguo sahihi tu.

Nionavyo miye, mdada hajaolewa ana mtoto tu, kwani huyo kaka kama ndoa yake ni chungu kinachomfanya ashindwe kuondoka ni nini? Dada hajaolewa kama nimempata Mwanajamii, sioni anaogopa nini kama naye moyo umeanza kurudi.Kama kaka ataachana na mkewe basi wapate ruksa!

Hapa watu watasema ya kweli ya moyoni, ya kinafki, na mengine lakini mwisho wa siku moyo wa mtu utaamua.

Huwezi kuamka tu asubuhi na kuvunja ndoa..Hebu soma tena kisa vizuri na ufuatilie mawazo ya wengine..Hebu wewe jiweke kwenye nafasi ya mke wa huyo jamaa, ungependa kufanyiwa haya bila hata sababu ya kueleweka?

 

[Kaka Mpendwa]

Ndio maana kuna talaka 1,2,3.Isingekuwepo uwezekano wa talaka zote hizi.Ndoa ni kifungo kwa wengine lakini siyo kifungo kwa wengine.Na hata hao wanaosema ni kifungo mbona huachana? Tatzo la wengi ni unafki tu! Watu hawaachani kwa talaka lakini mioyo yao iko kwengine na hata wanaishi maisha kinyume na hizo imani zao.

hii ni issue nyingine sasa..

 

[nyumba kubwa]

Nimekuelewa sasa. Kumbe tuna imani tofauti. Sorry kwa kukukwaza. I am Christian wakati mwingine najisahau na ku-assume wote tu dini moja.

Ndio maana kuna talaka 1,2,3.Isingekuwepo uwezekano wa talaka zote hizi.Ndoa ni kifungo kwa wengine lakini siyo kifungo kwa wengine.Na hata hao wanaosema ni kifungo mbona huachana? Tatzo la wengi ni unafki tu! Watu hawaachani kwa talaka lakini mioyo yao iko kwengine na hata wanaishi maisha kinyume na hizo imani zao.

 

[NICK2275]

Wapenzi wangu
Ni matumaini yangu kuwa wote mlikuwa na weekend jema na mmepumzika vya kutosha.

This weekend dadangu amejikuta akikumbwa na majaribu from one of her long time secret lover (sijui kama ni sahihi kumwita secret lover kwa kuwa alishawahilipasua jipu kwa sisy na sisy akajua ila circumstance haikuruhusu kwa wawili hao kuwa pamoja -Sisy alikuwa alizaa na mtu mwingine (hawakai pamoja na jamaa akaoa after seeing sisy kaamua kuzaa na mwingine). Huyu 'shemeji' yangu amekuwa "in love" na dada for more than 13 years... nimeiweka kwenye mabano kwa kuwa siweziithibitisha.......but he has been there despite knowing her relationships status.

This shem of mine ameoa..........but he keep saying that his heart iko kwa sisy!! Na kweli he has been there yaani anything happened to my sisy the guy is there (sometimes huwa namwonea sisy wivu!!). BUT mara zote dada amekuwa akiavoid kukutana na huyu mkaka faragha i.e. sehemu ambayo watakuwa peke yao tu.

Leo jioni dada aliamua kumsikiza (kwa kuwa amekuwa akimsihi kwa muda wote huo) ........mkaka wa watu si akajielezea hisia kwa kilio yaani dada amekuwa shocked hajawahi ona mwanaume anatoa machozi na kuongea kwa uchungu namna hiyo (even after all those years). Amechanganyikiwa na anahisi kama maamuzi yake yanawezakuwa influence.............kanitaka ushauri.

MwanajamiiOne mie nimebaki majicho yamentoka (na yalivyo makubwa basi natisha ka mjusi alobanwa na mlango)- Dada anaonekana kuanza kufall kwa huyu mkaka.....(mh hata sijui ni aje)

Ninaomba msaada wenu
Could this be true love from this man?? Mwanaume kulilia penzi na kulisotea kwa miaka yote hii does it have any meaning?

si lazima kuwa ni true love-wapo wanaume wanaolia then baada ya game-wanafuta hadi namba-hayo machozi ni kwa sababu bado anatafuta admission-naamini akiipata-huyo dada yako atashangaa

 

[nyumba kubwa]

Tatizo sisi wanawake tulishaambiwa mwalimu wetu kipofu. Yaani utasikia mtu anamsifia mwanaume wa mtu "ananipenda sana na anajali familia yake pia, he his very innocent guy" Sasa hizi ni sifa kinzani. Someone should either be "in" or "out". Mapenzi ya wawili mimi sina imani nayo. Penzi haligawanyiki!

 

[nyumba kubwa]

Tunachanganya mapenzi na tamaa. Wanaume kwao ku "do" kunatimiza haja zao za mwili. Wakati sisi hilo jambo linahusisha mwili, akili na roho. Utaanza kumuwaza mume wa mtu kumbe yeye akili yake haipo kwako iko kwenye ku "do" tu.

 

[TIMING]

...ni mume wa mtu bana, amuache mkewe kwakuwa ana secret crush tu?
tutajuaje jamaa ndio gear zake za 'kulilia jackpot?'

Dada'ke Mwj1 anajitafutia heartbreak :A S 12: ku invest penzi lake hapa Unless,
kajiamulia kuwa 'nyumba' ndogo, aka part time lover kila huyo brazameni akiamua ku fulfil 'fantasies' zake..

Usanii@mapenzi.com that's what we call it!!!

Lakini maadam dadamtu kaonyesha kunogewa, tumwache aonje ili aungane nasi kukubali kwamba kulia na penzi ni vitu viwili tofauti:spy:

 

[TIMING]

na siku mambo yakiwa murua nyumbani kwake anaweza kusahau kama ulishawahi kuwepo,mi simshauri aliamua kuoa akae huko na mkewe kama atakubali na gharama za nyumba ndogo azijue na awe tayari kuzibeba mwisho wa siku.:yawn:

Very true observation... na ipo hivyo kwa wote, mwanaume na mwanamke

 

[TIMING]

Hivi ulisoma vizuri alichoandika da MwanajamiiOne? Ni kwamba jamaa ni mume wa mtu. Ana ndoa hivyo mwenzio. So how can she give it a shot whilst he's still married to his wife? Are you saying she should have an affair with a married man?

Mkuu

wengi tu wana ndoa na wana give a shot and a few (very few) wanafanikiwa, tuache utopia tuongee ukweli, ni wangapi tunawafahamu wameolewa na ex-husbands wa watu??

Its not a closed system anymore, marriage is an open system depending on the players

 

[nyumba kubwa]

If that is what you believe kila mkeo akinuna wewe utatoa taraka uoe atakaye cheka siku zote. sijuhi hiyo openess itafanya watu waoe/waolewe mara ngapi maishani

Mkuu

wengi tu wana ndoa na wana give a shot and a few (very few) wanafanikiwa, tuache utopia tuongee ukweli, ni wangapi tunawafahamu wameolewa na ex-husbands wa watu??

Its not a closed system anymore, marriage is an open system depending on the players