Here's how you should think about your money-'SOLDIERS'!
If you send them out to war everyday, you want them to take prisoners and come home so there's more of them(soldiers). When you have no soldiers, you're wiped out!
You may lose your wife, you may lose your dog, your mother may hate you. None of those things matter. What matters is that you achieve success and become free. Then you can do whatever you like.
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
A friend who understands your tears is much more valuable than a lot of friends who only know your smile.