both emotional and physical abuse is a NO NO! tena mimi naamini u ar nt even doing ur kids a favor kwa kukaa kwenye abusive relationships! angalia watoto wanaolelewa na wazazi wanaopigana ama kutukanana! MTM watoto wanazaliwa na ubongo mpya kama laptop ama simu mpya. it has the basics tu! what u feed is what will come out! mi nadhani siku nikilambwa kibao tu ndo itakuwa mwisho,i dont need anybody's advise! i will just inform my parents of the move!
Una kumbukumbu sana, nakumbuka pia hii, hii thread nasoma taratibu sana nimechelewa kuingia, kwa kweli itasaidia wengiYou once commented in one of the threads that if not your wife... You would have been lost in life and would have been in worst conditions - which showed you acknowledge her (even if you do not love her - I am not saying you don't)... I was so proud on behalf of your wife that day na told my self.. this is the MAN anajua ana great madhaifu, but knows he is nothing bila the wife no matter if there is some useless person pembeni.... MTM Pal... that post over two months ago is the only reason i am not worried about you right now.... for i already know you have a rational mind... and YES there is a GREAT possibility in Blue.... Hivo i would have to say THANK YOU for the useful thread.... And handle your heart with care.....
Kaka naona there is something that u think you are not getting OUT THERE. Wengine husema I was young when I decided to marry u Wakifikri kwa wengine kuna cha ziada and they end up forming children who do not respect humanity for example they take sex or drugs as refuge . Asikwambie mtu kukosa both parents love is not recovered at all. I had a friend here who missed parents love and she was suffering from depression and sometimes she does crazy decisions and in that way she could not go on with her education. NOW MTM DO NOT MAKE YOUR KIDS SUFFER BE CREATIVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPWait a minute BB Hivi kuacha mara nyingi ndio kusema huna furaha?? sio kwamba you have more options and you are a happier person for moving on when you want?
Now this is what is called 'Majuto' ......and Majuto inamaanisha kama usingefanya kitu flani then ungekuwa bado uko happy....tafsiri yangu katika hili ni kuwa inawezatokea miujiza akarudisha moyo nyuma and taking into account kuwa una'regret' chance ya kurudisha furaha yako ni kubwa.
well i had one
and i have finally found out where she is after 18 years
both emotional and physical abuse is a NO NO! tena mimi naamini u ar nt even doing ur kids a favor kwa kukaa kwenye abusive relationships! angalia watoto wanaolelewa na wazazi wanaopigana ama kutukanana! MTM watoto wanazaliwa na ubongo mpya kama laptop ama simu mpya. it has the basics tu! what u feed is what will come out! mi nadhani siku nikilambwa kibao tu ndo itakuwa mwisho,i dont need anybody's advise! i will just inform my parents of the move!
Wakuu,
Many of us have at least once enjoyed the best out of love life... I have had my best moments as well!!
I am just wondering how can one prepare for a life after the person you have loved and enjoyed life with for 10+ years, have you ever imagined how it feels?
MTM
Terrible...Your life will never been the same again.
Sawa na nguo, endelea kuweka viraka bana.
Am talking through Experiences.
Hata ujiandae vipi, huwezi fidia hiyo miaka kumi+ 'unayofikiria' kuitia pipani.
its because the world is dynamic.... have you ever imagined how Jesus or Muhammad SAW would struggle with all these twitters, facebook, JF, I-reports, www, Tv etc?All i see here is framed mind!!Kila mtu anajiuliza na anataka uhusiano ulio bora,tuna wataalam,watu wenye busara na vitabu vya dini but matatizo yanazidi kuongezeka,have u ever ask yourself why?
Kaka naona there is something that u think you are not getting OUT THERE. Wengine husema I was young when I decided to marry u Wakifikri kwa wengine kuna cha ziada and they end up forming children who do not respect humanity for example they take sex or drugs as refuge . Asikwambie mtu kukosa both parents love is not recovered at all. I had a friend here who missed parents love and she was suffering from depression and sometimes she does crazy decisions and in that way she could not go on with her education. NOW MTM DO NOT MAKE YOUR KIDS SUFFER BE CREATIVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
hahaaaaaaaaaa, swahiba... as always... you bring something special onboardWarning: Lengo la hii post ni kwamba isieleweke, kwahiyo kila ikiwa hujaielewa ujue ndio umeielewa vilivyo, na pia naomba nichangie kwa kiswahili kwavile dikshineri langu limeibiwa ndani ya mwezi mtukufu (uswahilini bana!)
Mkuu MTM, kila nikiisoma hii post yako na kuangalia hayo maneno ya kwenye red naona "u are not ready to face it bro",
Lawyer klorokwini anasema:
-Unapanga maamuzi ya kuacha wakati post yako imejaa mapenzi, Kumbuka, kinachoamua mwisho wa ndoa/ mapenzi sio mateso/udhia/cheating wala chochote chengine bali kinachoamua mwisho wa mapenzi ni moyo (na nadhani moyo wako hauko tayari as per ur post).
-Sweet memories (as u call them), zina mateso ya kisaikolojia zaidi kuliko mateso unayoyavumilia sasa (This apply only kama umemwacha mtu bado unampenda regardless ya maudhi yake)......... (reference: Kesi nilioisimamia kinshasa wakati wa probation)
- Waswahili wanasema "mpenda chongo huita kengeza", hayo unayoyaona maudhi sasa hivi (kama unaetaka kumuacha bado unampenda) basi aftermath yake utakuja kujiona umeyasababisha wewe na sio yeye kama unavyoona sasa....... (Source: waifu wa jirani)
- Ukitoka kwenye hayo mahusiano ujue jamii ina nafasi kubwa ya kukuhukumu na hujui watakuhukumu vipi na trust me hukumu ya jamii itaathiri kurudiana na mwenza wako so kama sio moyo wako unaoamua ni vyema ukabadilisha uamuzi kabla ya kujiwekea road block ya marejeano........... (Source: tarabu za uswahilini)
- Did u say sweet love? sweet relationship in ur title?, trust me this title will hunt u forever! (And unfortunately there is no sweet feelings eraser even a chinese one..)........ (hii ni Kwa hisani ya mwalimu wangu wa fiziks ambae somo lake nilipata F+)
- Ushauri huu nimekupa kwavile kila nikisoma post yako sioni kwamba u r strong enough to face it.
Dah! kumbe niko JF? nilizani niko bungeni najibu masuala ya wabunge wa upendeleo aisee! halaf muda wangu wote wa hapa cafe nimeutumia kuandika post moja tu. khaaaa!
NB: Msinitafute, niko bize nahubiri mapenzi kwa vitendo.
..................................................THE END........................................
<br />Wewe ni wa kutandikwa mboko tu.
<br />Nikiwa mdogo mama yetu alikuwa na tabia ya kutuchapa tukigombana. Staili alokuwa anatumia tulikuwa tunaona siyo fair kwani alikuwa hana muda wa kuuliza nani kamchokoza nani. Ni fimbo wote tena sawa sawa. Yani hiyo ilikuwa given mkipigana mama akawabamba jueni ni wote kibano. Sasa nikichanganya na hili naanza kumuelewa. Nadhani alikuwa anaona kuwa hata kama umechokozwa huna justification ya kupigana, you could walk away. Je na sisi kwenye maisha tunakumbuka hilo? Je tunawahoji wenza wetu kwa upendo sababu za kutukosea?? Si kwamba mimi naweza kufanya hivi ila natambua kuwa ni weakness ya binadamu hence am working to defeat it.
hehehe! i will mess u up big tyme. kama unataka nianzishe talkshow at ur expense unichape! tena ur photo will be on the logo! afu ww dawa yako naichemsha!
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Warning: Lengo la hii post ni kwamba isieleweke, kwahiyo kila ikiwa hujaielewa ujue ndio umeielewa vilivyo, na pia naomba nichangie kwa kiswahili kwavile dikshineri langu limeibiwa ndani ya mwezi mtukufu (uswahilini bana!)
Mkuu MTM, kila nikiisoma hii post yako na kuangalia hayo maneno ya kwenye red naona "u are not ready to face it bro",
Lawyer klorokwini anasema:
-Unapanga maamuzi ya kuacha wakati post yako imejaa mapenzi, Kumbuka, kinachoamua mwisho wa ndoa/ mapenzi sio mateso/udhia/cheating wala chochote chengine bali kinachoamua mwisho wa mapenzi ni moyo (na nadhani moyo wako hauko tayari as per ur post).
-Sweet memories (as u call them), zina mateso ya kisaikolojia zaidi kuliko mateso unayoyavumilia sasa (This apply only kama umemwacha mtu bado unampenda regardless ya maudhi yake)......... (reference: Kesi nilioisimamia kinshasa wakati wa probation)
- Waswahili wanasema "mpenda chongo huita kengeza", hayo unayoyaona maudhi sasa hivi (kama unaetaka kumuacha bado unampenda) basi aftermath yake utakuja kujiona umeyasababisha wewe na sio yeye kama unavyoona sasa....... (Source: waifu wa jirani)
- Ukitoka kwenye hayo mahusiano ujue jamii ina nafasi kubwa ya kukuhukumu na hujui watakuhukumu vipi na trust me hukumu ya jamii itaathiri kurudiana na mwenza wako so kama sio moyo wako unaoamua ni vyema ukabadilisha uamuzi kabla ya kujiwekea road block ya marejeano........... (Source: tarabu za uswahilini)
- Did u say sweet love? sweet relationship in ur title?, trust me this title will hunt u forever! (And unfortunately there is no sweet feelings eraser even a chinese one..)........ (hii ni Kwa hisani ya mwalimu wangu wa fiziks ambae somo lake nilipata F+)
- Ushauri huu nimekupa kwavile kila nikisoma post yako sioni kwamba u r strong enough to face it.
Dah! kumbe niko JF? nilizani niko bungeni najibu masuala ya wabunge wa upendeleo aisee! halaf muda wangu wote wa hapa cafe nimeutumia kuandika post moja tu. khaaaa!
NB: Msinitafute, niko bize nahubiri mapenzi kwa vitendo.
..................................................THE END........................................
Wakuu,
Many of us have at least once enjoyed the best out of love life... I have had my best moments as well!!
I am just wondering how can one prepare for a life after the person you have loved and enjoyed life with for 10+ years, have you ever imagined how it feels?
MTM