Mabinti huwa mnahitaji nini?

Eiyer · May 23, 2011

Asha D said:
mabint hawajui wanachohitaji kwa mwanaume,je ni kweli??

Sio Kweli... kujua kwao wanataka nini ndo kinawaondoa bada ya kukikosa....

Wanapewa kila kitu lakini wanaondoka tu,asha usiwadifend kwa sababu tu wewe ni mwanamke,kama huamini is a matter of time then utaamini dear!

King’asti · May 23, 2011

nashangaa!sijui hajaona lipstick?ngoja nikaongezee wigi!

Wit said:
mbona unamwita broda!na maelezo yake yanajieleza jinsia yake?

King’asti · May 23, 2011

rafiki,kama unaona umempa kila kitu na bado unaona mambo hayaendi sawa jaribu kumuuliza anataka nini!i usually ay if we all treat our partner the same way tunavyo-treat wafanyakazi wenzetu ofisini ndoa zetu zingekuwa na amani.kaka,ww kama una-share ofc na mdada,huwezi kuenda kuchukua chai,ama gazeti ukaacha kumletea!wala akiangusha kitabu huachi kuokota haraka na akisema anaumwa utamuambia pole na kumsaidia.je unafanya the same kwa mwanamke anayekutandikia kitanda,kukufulia vinyasa,kusimamia nyumba yako na wanao na mama yako pia? hata ukienda kuchukua maji ya kunywa (kama hujamuagizi) huwezi kusema 'mpnz,nikuletee maji ama juice' manake itakuwa limbwata! guys,u ar clicking the wrong buttons!mi nakiri sina akili,ukinionesha kunijali kidogo tu ntakujali hadi ukanisemelezee kwa babako!

Eiyer said:
Wanawake nyie ni pasua kichwa thats why Mungu ametuambia tuishi na ninyi kwa akili,huwa hamjui mnahitaji nini,mnaweza kupewa vyote lakini mkahisi something is mising!

Eiyer · May 23, 2011

King'asti said:
nashangaa!sijui hajaona lipstick?ngoja nikaon

AshaDii · May 23, 2011

Eiyer said:
Wanapewa kila kitu lakini wanaondoka tu,asha usiwadifend kwa sababu tu wewe ni mwanamke,kama huamini is a matter of time then utaamini dear!

Eiyer siwadefend ndo ukweli, akiona anachotaka hakipo anaondoka mana ingekua otherwise ina maana angekalisha... sema kitu anacho taka in most hakiko constant.. wakati guys mnaweza msiwe constant your great strength ni kupotezea.. weakness yetu ni kwamba waweza nipa yooote but kimoja nikakosa ninachohitaji na kuondoka badala ya kukalisha ili nifanye compromise...

Enways mara nyingi wanawake tunapenda kushikilia na kung'ang'ania even if it is not the best for us, hivyo sio wanawake woote.

Eiyer · May 23, 2011

Kwa taarifa yako King'asti ukimcare sana ndo atakudharau wala kwenye apointment ndo hatokei,ukwa rud ndo afadhali kidogo,sio siri siwaelewi mabint na sio mimi tu,nimetoa mfano mmoja hapo wa Justine Timbarlake na wapo wengi tu na kuna watafiti wamesema mabint hawajui wanachohitaji kutoka kwa wanaume wengine wamesema hawahitaji kitu,hii inachanganya,kuwa mkweli utusaidie mama!!

King’asti · May 23, 2011

huyo ni personality tu baba,ndo maana tunakuambia ukidisco muhas,usichome madaftari.kuna udsm,aru hadi s john's! muulize anataka nini,kuna tunaopenda friendship,kuna wanaopenda mikiki mikiki bila kugombana mambo hayaendi. pole,ukiskia kua uyaone ndo sio maghorofa kuna na vogue nazo za kushangaa!

Eiyer said:
Kwa taarifa yako King'asti ukimcare sana ndo atakudharau wala kwenye apointment ndo hatokei,ukwa rud ndo afadhali kidogo,sio siri siwaelewi mabint na sio mimi tu,nimetoa mfano mmoja hapo wa Justine Timbarlake na wapo wengi tu na kuna watafiti wamesema mabint hawajui wanachohitaji kutoka kwa wanaume wengine wamesema hawahitaji kitu,hii inachanganya,kuwa mkweli utusaidie mama!!

Suzie · May 23, 2011

Unachotakiwa uulize binadamu mnahitaji nini when it comes issue ya relationship na wala sio mabinti tu kwani hata wanaume mna the same thing, unaweza mpata mwanamke mrembo, mtulivu na mengine lakini unambwaga na kuenda kwa kimada. kama bosi wa IMF na wengine inabidi ujiangalie wewe mwenyewe ulimwachia nini yule wa kwanza na wengine kwenye listi yako wakati wote wana tabia na hulka tofauti?????

Sumba-Wanga · May 23, 2011

This is personal experience and there is no universal law......

Eiyer · May 23, 2011

Asha D sikia always mtu anaejua anachotaka huwa anaonekana lakini sio kwa mabint,kwenu ni tofauti sana dear,faham nina ushahidi mwingi sana wangu mimi na wa rafiki zangu zaidi ya kumi,sijui kwako wewe lakini nashindwa kuamini kama kuna binti anaejiamini na kujitambua!

AshaDii · May 23, 2011

Eiyer said:
Asha D sikia always mtu anaejua anachotaka huwa anaonekana lakini sio kwa mabint,kwenu ni tofauti sana dear,faham nina ushahidi mwingi sana wangu mimi na wa rafiki zangu zaidi ya kumi,sijui kwako wewe lakini nashindwa kuamini kama kuna binti anaejiamini na kujitambua!

Unayosema ni kweli but the above red you are totally wrong... Hivi Eiyer unajua kua mara nyingi guys wenye bahati mbaya ya kupata binti wa namna hii kila mara ndo wale wale wanaotongoza the same variety... na haya mambo yanaenda na variety... kuna kila aina ya mabinti ikiwemo wanaojitambua... sijui unaposema binti umelenga umri gani... but wapo wanaojitambua.

sawabho · May 23, 2011

Eiyer said:
Plz soma thread uelewe kisha uchangie vizuri,uliyosema hapo mabinti wanapewa lakini wanatoka nduki

Plz hata wewe soma maoni yangu uyaelewe, nimesema akigundua kuwa unagawa nafasi yake kwa mtu mwingine. Hawezi kutoka nduki bila sababu, lazima kuna sababu, inaweza kuwa hiyo niliyotaja au nyingine au zote. Kwani wewe ulihitaji jibu moja tu?

Eiyer · May 23, 2011

King'asti mpaka nimeamua kuwasema mabinti nimefanya uchunguzi,faham kuna tabia za watu binafsi na zipo za jumla,hii ni ya jumla,hujawahi kusikia kuwa wanawake wote baba yao na mama yao ni mmoja?Au mwanamke hata asome namna gani au awe na umri mkubwa namna gani huwa hana tofauti na binti anaevunja ungo?!

Masanilo · May 23, 2011

King'asti said:
kutokana na analysis yako hapo conclusion ni moja: it all depends on what is offered on the menu,or can we order special?

Most ladies their needs are NOT in the menu!

dorin · May 23, 2011

Taken care of.

Eiyer · May 23, 2011

Asha D namuomba Mungu uendelee kuishi utakuja kunikubali,kwanza fahamu kwenye moja ya maandiko matakatifu wanaume tumeambiwa tuishi kwa akili na ninyi wanawake,but now days ni tofauti sana mnadai haki hivyo matatizo yamezidi,huwezi kuniambia wanaume zaidi ya 50 niliojadiliana nao including me wote tuna bahati mbaya this can't be dear!

AshaDii · May 23, 2011

Eiyer said:
Asha D namuomba Mungu uendelee kuishi utakuja kunikubali,kwanza fahamu kwenye moja ya maandiko matakatifu wanaume tumeambiwa tuishi kwa akili na ninyi wanawake,but now days ni tofauti sana mnadai haki hivyo matatizo yamezidi,huwezi kuniambia wanaume zaidi ya 50 niliojadiliana nao including me wote tuna bahati mbaya this can't be dear!

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Eiyer you are so set on your beliefs for you to understand and believe me inahitaji niwe na energy ya kutosha... inshallah iko siku nitajaribu kadri ya uwezo wangu...

Eiyer · May 23, 2011

dorin said:
Taken care of.

Thats not true Dorin,wapo watu wanawajali lakin the problem still there!

Dr Lizzy · May 23, 2011

Eiyer said:
Asha D sikia always mtu anaejua anachotaka huwa anaonekana lakini sio kwa mabint,kwenu ni tofauti sana dear,faham nina ushahidi mwingi sana wangu mimi na wa rafiki zangu zaidi ya kumi,sijui kwako wewe lakini nashindwa kuamini kama kuna binti anaejiamini na kujitambua!

Ulipo wewe ndo hawajiamini na kujitambua!!

Nwy kwa kuuliza mabinti wanahitaji nini hutopata jibu unalotaka maana mabinti hawafanani!Nnachohitaji mimi sio sawa na anachohitaji partner wangu AD au mwenzi wako....ndo maana unaona watu wengine wanakimbilia kua na mtu kwasababu ana pesa huku mwingine anakimbia...mwingine yuko na sharobaro wakati mwingine hata kusikia hataki.Hili swali huwezi kujibiwa collectively hata siku moja kwahiyo hata matokeo ya hako kautafiti kako usigeneralize!Ni sawa na unachotaka wewe kwa mwanamke ambae unadhani atafaa kua mke sii sawa na anachotaka jirani yako!

Eiyer · May 23, 2011

sawabho said:
Plz hata wewe soma maoni yangu uyaelewe, nimesema akigundua kuwa unagawa nafasi yake kwa mtu mwingine. Hawezi kutoka nduki bila sababu, lazima kuna sababu, inaweza kuwa hiyo niliyotaja au nyingine au zote. Kwani wewe ulihitaji jibu moja tu?

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