Madhaifu ya wanyakyusa nilichogundua baada ya kupeleka posa/barua kwa binti wa kinyakyusa

Mbona una sample space moja Ila unadai kuwa unazo demographic data. Mie nikajua umetembea kwa Ilo kabila lote. Mana hapa probability hata Hakuna ,so umeenda kwa familia moja zipo familia ngapi ili tuone Ile number of events over the total number of sample space.
Ili Sasa tupige hesabu tuone unachoongea.
"I often say that when you can measure what you are speaking about, and express it in numbers, you know something about it; but when you cannot measure it, when you cannot express it in numbers, your knowledge is of a meagre and unsatisfactory kind." ~ Lord Kelvin.


Mana hapa umeongea hisia we need facts. Hebu jaribu kutembea kwa familia Milioni moja za kinyakyusa halafu ulete hapa ili tupime. Na wewe Sasa unataka tuungane na wewe ili tuwapige Vita wapunguze mahari.
Mbona kwanza unachotoa Ni kidogo mno.
Wa Dinka wa sauzi sudani wanatoa ng'ombe 100-500 na binti anakaa na wewe 4yrs bila ya kufanya kazi yoyote akihudumiwa na ndugu zako na ukijichanganya ndani ya hiyo four years anasepa na haurudishiwi mahari.

Yaani wewe hela ya kuhonga unalalamika.
Sasa akikiugulia ukatumia milioni si utakuja kuwa mke Ni gharama.
When you are face to face with a difficulty, you are up against a discovery.” “The more you understand what is wrong with a figure, the more valuable that figure becomes.” “To measure is to know.” “If you cannot measure it, you cannot improve it.
 
Mbona vishika uchumba ivo ni vidogo japo kwa jamii zingine ni kiasi chochote utachowapa wanapokea....japo kuna jamii zingine wanakupigia vile vitu vya kupeleka ukitaka ununue au uwape pesa ni wewe tu....mfano kuna zile blanket ya mzee, vitenge vya mama japo wengine umaskini na tamaa wanamfanya mkwe mtaji wanaitisha vutenge hadi vya kina mama wadogo na mashangazi kama wooote, sufuria kubwa, sjui unga, na pesa taslimu kiasi atachoona mkwe kinafaa kulingana na economic status yake wengine hata milioni wanatoa kishika uchumba
 
Watu8 said:
250k ya posa tu unapiga kelele hivyo, ikigika mahari au matunzo ya mtoto utaweza wewe?
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Kama nimemuelewa mleta mada anapiga kelele kwa familia mwanamke kuwa ndio mwenye nguvu ya kuamua mambo...,
Kwa wanyak mleta mada familia nyingi nimeona mama ndio mwenye nguvu chichanganye umetoka kanda ya ziwa ushazoea mwanaume ndio mwenye nguvu utalia.
 
Wewe ni wale educated slaves unavaa suti but still your slave tu.
Hongera kwa kuwa mtumwa uliye elimika japo bado ni mtumwa
 
Kaka unachosema ni sahihi asilimia 100.

Kuna Manzi ananipenda vibaya sana tena alinitongoza kabisa na ni pini hasa. Ana kazi yake fresh na ananisikiliza shida moja tu alipoanza kufunguka kuhusu familia yake hapo hapo nikaona haifai mimi kujiingiza kwenye msala.

Mama yake ni msumbufu halafu anambuluza sana baba yake hana sauti, mama sio mwelewa kiasi cha kwamba anaomba hela vibaya na kumuingiza bint kwenye madeni ya ajabu. Mwanzo sikuamini ila nilipoona sms na voice note nikasema hapa si pa kuoa halafu mbaya zaidi bint alimwambia mama yake kua ana mtu muislam anataka kuja kutoa posa ebwana ilikua balaa hayo maneno. Amemwambia atamkataa kua sio mwanawe siku akiamua huo uamuzi yaani now bint hata akifunga shungi ugomvi.

NB:ukiona familia mama ana sauti kuliko baba kimbia usije ukaoa hapo unakimbilia matatizo.
 
Duc in altum said:
Wewe ni wale educated slaves unavaa suti but still your slave tu.
Hongera kwa kuwa mtumwa uliye elimika japo bado ni mtumwa
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When debate is lost the insults become the tools of the loser.
By one Roman emperor.
Naona brain imeshindwa kuleta facts Bali imejikita kwenye biasness, subjectivity, opinions, feelings, assumptions , etc Ila sio objective something measurable.

Yaani mie nikiona mzaramo mmoja akaua Basi najua wazaramo wote Ni wauaji hili Ni cheap mindset and lazy mind to think to come up with real solid and robust solutions to solve up and bring the real solution to create good impact to our society
 
Hiyo thinking unayo jaribu kutumia ni ya karne ya 16 tu, na kuna namna nyingi ya tofauti za kufikiri.
Kujua culture, norms, tradition za wasukuma huhitaji ukutane na wasukuma wote, kujua mambo ya wasandawe huhitaji kukutana na wasandawe wote same to wajaluo, wachaga, wakurya.
Hakuna haja ya kutafuta quantitative measures kwenye mambo ya culture.
Kama mwanamke anapata guts za kumpinga mmewe ambaye kashapokea posa means ni kitu cha kawaida kimezoeleka kimekuwa adapted na watu hao huhitaji kutafuta wanyakyusa wote kujua kama ni sawa kwanza sio realistic anao mtu mmoja a quantifying data za wanyakyusa wote.
Ukienda kanda ya ziwa mwanamke huwezi ukakuta ana behave like that mbele ya mme wake.
All in all endelea kumeza madesa wasome sana kina Emmanuel kant wa modern philosophy na kina Socrates wa ancient philosophy.
Ukumbe pia kuna aina nyingi za thinking usikalili tu hiyo Descarte thinking that is how you become slave
 

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Shotocan said:
Halafu kamzalisha mtoto kabla ya kumuoa kawaachia wakae naye kulea hako katoto ni tusi kwa wanyakyusa hapo ajiandae kupigwa faini atakapokuwa anapangiwa mahari.Cha kwanza atatakiwa alipe faini kwa kumzalisha mtoto wao kabla ya kumuoa
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Ataandika uzi tena...
 
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