Nani anafaidika na ndoa?

[green rajab]

Kupiga push-up ndio faida yao kubwa..

Tunavyowamwagia mbegu

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[green rajab]

Kwahyo wewe mama yako akija kwako utamtimua na kumrudisha kwa mume wake?

Unatakiwa uwachukue wote ukae nao

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[Numbisa]

Pole yake huyo mzee

Ila muache ubabe ujanani na maneno ya shombo maana fainali uzeeni

 

[LOTH HEMA]

KATAA NDOA

sasa ukikataa ndoa utapata wapi mbususu ya kuchakata kwa raha upate watoto?

 

[Mnyiramba]

Yani laiti kama tungeamua kuorodhesha humu mitandaoni wanayopitia wanawake kwenye ndoa zao, basi hakika tungejaza servers za jf, ni vile tu wanawake wengi sasa hivi wamechagua kukaa kimya na kuwaacha wanaume waongee wanavoweza

Tangia lini Mwanamke akakaa kimya [emoji276]

 

[MIXOLOGIST]

Kwanini tuwahudumie wanawake?

Wasalaam wana JF Mwanadamu amepewa akili ili imsaidie kuhoji na kuboresha maisha yake. Ikiwa kama utaruhusu akili yako ifanye kazi, bila kutingwa na influeence nyingine, kama mapokeo, mazoea na sheria basi ni vyema tuhoji kwanini tuwahudumie wanawake? Kwa kuanza tafakarii hii lazima tujue...

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[Joannah]

Mbona ugali mwingi sana?anakula na nani kama yupo alone?

 

[Luteni Mkuu]

Mwanaume huyu ana umri wa miaka 68. Ni mstaafu aliyefanya kazi maisha yake yote kulea watoto wake.

Alijinyima raha za dunia ili aweze kuwalipia karo ya shule (kwenye shule za gharama) na gharama nyingine za maisha kwa watoto wake nje ya nchi.

Sasa watoto wako vizuri huko Uropa na Amerika. Mkewe mwenye miaka 60 amemwacha mzee huyu na kuwafuata watoto wake kwenda kuishi nao.

Sasa mzee yuko peke yake nchini Kenya. Watoto wake wala hawamtafuti. Na sasa inabidi aanze maisha mapya kama kapera.

Anapambana na shinikizo la damu na magonjwa mengine ya uzee. Je, angeishi peke yake hadi lini?

Huu ndiyo ukweli kwa wanaume wengi wa tabaka la wafanyakazi wenye mke mmoja. Uzee wao kwa kawaida ni wapweke na katika hali nyingi, huzuni.

Jitahidi kadri uwezavyo, lakini wanawake wanapenda watoto wao zaidi ya waume zao, haijalishi mwanaume ni mtanashati kiasi gani. Kadiri anavyozidi kuwa mzee, ndivyo mvuto unavyopungua kwa mkewe.

Niambie basi, wanaume wanafaidika nini na ndoa?

Wanajinyima sana lakini wanapata kutambuliwa kidogo sana kwa kazi ngumu. Mwanamke huvuna faida zote kwani watoto mara nyingi huwa karibu na kumpenda zaidi anapozeeka...

Tuendelee kuimba "Nani kama Mama"...View attachment 2683800

dah!

 

[shanature]

Mkuu kwani na wanaume wanapooa ili wafanyiwe kazi za nyumbani hiyo siyo afueni

ndio ukae ukijua yule asiyezalisha zaidi na kukubali kufanya kazi zako za nyumbani ndioanafaidika maana hawezi kukubali kama anaona hio faida haipo na ndio husikia filisika ujue tabia za mkeo..hata mwanaume anayekubali kuoana na mwanamke mwenye ukwasi yule mwanaume ndie anayefaidika na ndoa..(kazi za nyumbani unaweza kuajiri mtu...shangazi yangu alikuwa ameajiri mmalawi mwanamume anapika anafua na usafi)

 

[Jadda]

ndio ukae ukijua yule asiyezalisha zaidi na kukubali kufanya kazi zako za nyumbani ndioanafaidika maana hawezi kukubali kama anaona hio faida haipo na ndio husikia filisika ujue tabia za mkeo..hata mwanaume anayekubali kuoana na mwanamke mwenye ukwasi yule mwanaume ndie anayefaidika na ndoa..(kazi za nyumbani unaweza kuajiri mtu...shangazi yangu alikuwa ameajiri mmalawi mwanamume anapika anafua na usafi)

Wakati mgawanyo wa majukumu unafanyika enzi za mababu na mabibi zetu ni kina nani waliogawa hayo majukumu, je wanawake walikuwa na sauti yoyote kiasi cha kuweza kupinga chochote wanachoambiwa na wanaume au wao walitakiwa kukubali tu kila kitu, na kama hizo kazi za nyumbani ni rahisi kama mnavyosema mbona wanaume hamzipendi

 

[404 Pages]

Niambie basi, wanaume wanafaidika nini na ndoa?

Hakuna zaidi ya kupata pa kukojolea, stress zinapanda pale mwanaume anapoambiwa usikojoe hapa huku akiwa na upwiru wa miaka na miaka ni zaidi ya stress za ukapera na kupika ugali na kuishi na upweke

 

[Akhi]

Mwanaume huyu ana umri wa miaka 68. Ni mstaafu aliyefanya kazi maisha yake yote kulea watoto wake.

Alijinyima raha za dunia ili aweze kuwalipia karo ya shule (kwenye shule za gharama) na gharama nyingine za maisha kwa watoto wake nje ya nchi.

Sasa watoto wako vizuri huko Uropa na Amerika. Mkewe mwenye miaka 60 amemwacha mzee huyu na kuwafuata watoto wake kwenda kuishi nao.

Sasa mzee yuko peke yake nchini Kenya. Watoto wake wala hawamtafuti. Na sasa inabidi aanze maisha mapya kama kapera.

Anapambana na shinikizo la damu na magonjwa mengine ya uzee. Je, angeishi peke yake hadi lini?

Huu ndiyo ukweli kwa wanaume wengi wa tabaka la wafanyakazi wenye mke mmoja. Uzee wao kwa kawaida ni wapweke na katika hali nyingi, huzuni.

Jitahidi kadri uwezavyo, lakini wanawake wanapenda watoto wao zaidi ya waume zao, haijalishi mwanaume ni mtanashati kiasi gani. Kadiri anavyozidi kuwa mzee, ndivyo mvuto unavyopungua kwa mkewe.

Niambie basi, wanaume wanafaidika nini na ndoa?

Wanajinyima sana lakini wanapata kutambuliwa kidogo sana kwa kazi ngumu. Mwanamke huvuna faida zote kwani watoto mara nyingi huwa karibu na kumpenda zaidi anapozeeka...

Tuendelee kuimba "Nani kama Mama"...View attachment 2683800

Tukiwaambia tuoe wa4 mnaanza kukashifu endeleeni mtakua wapweke tu

Mke mmoja kma Mama Mzazi bhna

 

[mshamba_hachekwi]

basi waolewe wao

Sio kwamba hatujui umuhimu wa ndoa, wengine tunaogopa uzito wa majukumu yake. Kuvunja ahadi ulizoweka kwa mke wengine tunaona itatuuma sana. Hatutaki kujilaumu. Ndio maana tunasema ndoa sio ya kila mtu.....

 

[PSEUDOPODIA]

Kulea watoto ni jukumu la wazazi, ila swala la kukusaidia ni hiari yao! We lea watoto wako, wape elimu nzuri, ila usitegemee kuja kusaidiwa, Panga maisha yako vizur.

 

[Atoto]

Si mnajifanyaga vidume mkiwa na nguvu!! Fainali uzeeni.

 

[Raymanu KE]

Wanaume tuna mtihani mgumu Sana maishani mwetu.

 

[Mahondaw]

Huyo mama hakufanya vizuri kumuacha mzee pekeake!!!

 

[Mahondaw]

Bora huyo mzee anavojishughulisha na vijikazi vya nyumbani vya hapa na pale walau mwili unafanya mazoezi kuliko na uzee wake kubweteka tu ni hatari kwanza afya!

 

[Crocodiletooth]

WHO BENEFITS FROM MARRIAGE?

He's 68 years old.

Retired pensioner.

Worked all his life to raise his kids.

Deprived himself of life's pleasures to pay expensive school fees and living expenses for his kids abroad.

They are now well-off in Europe and America.

His wife, 60, has relocated to live with her kids.

He's alone back in Kenya.

His kids barely call him.

He now has to start life all over as a bachelor.

He struggles with high blood pressure and other old age ailments.

How long more would he survive alone?

This is the reality for most working class monogamous men. Their old age is usually lonely and in many cases, sad.

Try as you may, women love their kids more than their husbands, no matter how good the man is. The older he gets, the less use they have for him.

Tell me then, what do men benefit from marriage?

They sacrifice so much but get little recognition for the hard work. The woman reaps all the benefits as the kids are often closer and more affectionate towards her when she becomes old.
N.B,-Latterly wanaume tunakuja kuwa kama simba Mzee asiye na msaada wowote!

 

[Kommando muuza madafu]

Kwahyo wewe mama yako akija kwako utamtimua na kumrudisha kwa mume wake?

Ndio unatakiwa kufanya hivyo. Haiwezekani Baba yupo na mama akae kwangu zaidi ya miezi sita tena humwita wala nini? Mwambie akakae na mmewe kwani baba anamhitaji. Watoto nao wana makosa sana.