Hello everyone,
I am a young man, 25 years old. I was in a relationship with a woman who is 7 years older than me. She has an 8-year-old daughter from a previous relationship. In our relationship, this woman got pregnant with twins.
Every day, I give her 20,000 shillings for expenses, and on rare occasions when I can’t, I give her 15,000 shillings. In a month, this might happen 5 to 6 times. If I miss a day, I have to give her 25,000 to 30,000 shillings the next day to make up for it.
This woman complains a lot and thinks the money I give her is not enough. Her harsh words have exhausted me, and I have reached the limit of my patience because of her attitude. She wants me to listen to her and follow everything she says, but I am not built that way. She thinks she is punishing me with these expenses.
I am a drinker and can spend over 50,000 shillings when I am out with my friends. This woman does not like my friends and even when she finds me with them, she does not greet them. I am tired of her, both physically and mentally. Even her child is very rude and recently greeted me with “shikamoo uncle.”
I am asking for your advice because my mind is completely exhausted. I am tired physically and mentally, and I have no peace.
Thank you.